I have a job out of the home and we also run our own business. we have 3 kids and i do all the house work and help kids with homework and run them to sports and cook and he says 1 day he wants me to jsut work with him and the next day he says i dont contribute enough and am lazy. I have lil to no friends. I feel so overwhelmed and so sad. He always reminds me that his work (our business) makes so much more money then I could ever make on my own and that he has more stress than me and I have no idea what stress is. what can I do to make him realize how lucky he is to have me. His mom n my mom will not help me because they says that I should have known better than to get preg. when I was 18. Help me what can i say or do? :(
2006-10-23 08:48:30 · 1 answers · asked by 35yroldmomof3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Start small by taking some time for yourself (long bath, trip to the hair salon, etc.) and tell him he has to look after the children. When you do housework try to do it while he is around so he can see how busy you are. Arrange for a sitter so you and your husband can have date nights. If possible, try to get away for a romantic weekend without the kids. If your husband makes enough money to support the family you might consider quitting your job that is out of the house.
2006-10-24 07:46:22 · answer #1 · answered by Dellajoy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋