Family & Relationships - 19 October 2006

I broke up with my ex about a year ago. I haven't really talked to him since but I have recently been seeing him around..we go to the same college. The first time I saw him, I was driving with a friend. When we passed him on the road, He looked over and was smiling and seemed happy.This was very surprising to me. The second time my best friend passed him in the hall. He said Hi to her and asked How she was doing.He was pretty friendly.This seemed really weird to me too since, he didn't really like my friends at all when we were together. My ex's best friend also texts me now and then and asks what I am doing and how I am. And also wants to know when we (me and my ex's bf) are going to hang out.

2006-10-19 20:49:50 · 17 answers · asked by Sami 1 in Singles & Dating

I do not want to have to join some site and pay$30+ dollars to find one address. I've been told it is possible to look up email addresses but HOW???? I haven't been able to figure it out without having to pay. I'm not interested in backrounds. I just want to find my friend. How????

2006-10-19 20:49:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-10-19 20:49:25 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-10-19 20:48:12 · 22 answers · asked by life_vamp 2 in Singles & Dating

Both our families are more than ok. Worried about when he goes to school

2006-10-19 20:47:23 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-10-19 20:46:53 · 11 answers · asked by sophiepinkpoodle 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Things were a little rocky between the gf and me lately, but we have been talking about it, which is good and are understanding each other better all the time. I am really in uncharted waters here, but I want to just get back to us. I know I'm into it and I have no reason to doubt she is still, too. Any ideas for getting back in the swing of things? I want something at least a little light-hearted to show her I want to get this going again without having to talk about it anymore than we need to. Like even dinner and a movie might be too much (and cliche, anyways).

2006-10-19 20:43:14 · 7 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

i asked the girl i like to the mall with a few friend and then later she sent me a email asking what time and thenwe get on a new conversation on aol and she gives me her phone number out of no where

was that to call her about going to the mall or does she just want me to call her?

2006-10-19 20:42:13 · 16 answers · asked by blah 2 in Singles & Dating

my cousin older (24) than me is staying with us. he is in the other room opposite to mine, staying with us for 2 months. he has...i mean had a girlfriend, till the gf did the nasty on him. she is from another state, they were in this long distant thingy and caz used to call her almost every night. mean while she was doing someone-else...hehehee. it's funny but i feel sorry for my caz, he's breaking down, he's missing meals with us, wouldn't come out of his room or hang around with our gang since the breakup. what shall i say to him...or shall i get my parents to talk to him.

2006-10-19 20:42:07 · 7 answers · asked by Sly 1 in Singles & Dating

I heard of a situation where the father found his wife having an affair for about 2 months, after 30+ years of marriage. How would you feel towards your mom.. and what advice do you have to start healing? Serious answers only please, this is a sensitive subject.

2006-10-19 20:41:02 · 21 answers · asked by blondeokie73 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i m committed...but a very dear frnd of mine is getting very serious for me as he loves me.he doesnt knw i m committed n i dnt wanna tell him..it will hurt him like hell.i m giving him another reason related to family..which is genuine also.he is terrible n very gloomy n i m sad too.i cant say yes to him in any condition..but i m feeling very very very bad n guilty that i m hurting him n he is so very sad. how can i help him to overcome this thing as i cnt see him like this

2006-10-19 20:40:56 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-19 20:40:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I WAS WITH THIS PERSON FOR 3 YEARS, AND DON'T KNOW WHERE WE WENT WRONG. SHE LEFT ME FOR ANOTHER PERSON. AND ALL I CAN DO IS THINK OF HER(DAY AND NIGHT). EVERYDAY I WAKE UP IT FEELS LIKE SHE'S STABBING MY HEART ALL OVER AGAIN.

2006-10-19 20:39:43 · 22 answers · asked by QUENNY 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Do you stay and deal with it or do you get a little extra on the side to satisfy you? .

2006-10-19 20:38:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Well after my ex gf and I broke up she got a new bf...she ended up leaving him because she still had feelings for me but then she ended up lying to me and getting back together with him...we dated for a year and never had sex...and she dates this new guy for 3 months and has sex with him (we were both virgins). then at 5am sun night I get a call from her bf informing me of all this...anyone been burned this bad before?

2006-10-19 20:37:06 · 21 answers · asked by A Sad Guy... 1 in Singles & Dating

I met him 2 years ago and we have a 1 year old son. I knew he had 3 daughters but I didn't know what it was like to be with a man with kids especially them. When ever we go out they just want to be with him and I DON'T HAVE THE SPACE TO BE WITH HIM,I feel like hes not mine and i can't do anything when they are around. I'm not happy, maybe because I'm selfish, jealous, etc. He is a very good man, the perfect father to my baby. Also he was recently divorced from an 18 year marriage. He doesn't feel anything for this woman, in fact he can't stand her, he is very in love with me, but all his problem kill me, it really hurts me alot the problem with his kids. The only reason I don't leave him is because I want to give my baby the family I didn;t have. The age is no big deal.

2006-10-19 20:36:41 · 14 answers · asked by Heidys P 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-19 20:36:30 · 19 answers · asked by three6ty 4 in Singles & Dating

i am a teenage girl and i lyk this teenage boi but theres 1 problem i have another boi hu reali lyks me and tells me he loves me and want 2 spend the rest of his life with me i lyk him hes a close m8. hu shud i go 4?

2006-10-19 20:36:10 · 18 answers · asked by beci 3 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriends ex has been dragging the divorce on. She comes up with the dumbest excusses too. Their marriage was already in the dumps when he left her. he told her he was leaving her for me. She went out and got herself a boyfriend too. They live together Both dont work (by choice) and she is on welfare. They have two kids that she has custody of. My boyfriend has already givin her his 401K and even though the divorce still isn't final he has paid child support the entire time. He gave her everything. she even put a retraining order on him to collect $1200. He paid that. restraining order is over in Dec. She has signed the papers she just wont take the parenting class now. Can you think of a reason she wont finalize this divorce? Is there something she has up her sleeve that we cant figure out, like the restraining order, can she file it again and get money again if they are still married, and that is why she is waiting? that is the only thing I can think of. Any Ideas?

2006-10-19 20:35:14 · 10 answers · asked by mnm4213 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have this friend who keeps blowing up at me over the littlest and stupidest things. I mean we are supposed to be mature but she sure as heck isn't acting mature and isn't treating me like a very good friend... This has happened once before and I called her up first and made the first attempt to hang out with her again but after now telling me she's done with our friendship for the 2nd time (she's quite dramatic but doesn't mean it half the time) I don't think I should be calling to talk to her about it I think that if she wants to talk, she needs to call me. What do you guys think? I'm pretty sure I have a good perspective on this but what would you guys do if you were in my shoes? Gimme detailed answers please...

2006-10-19 20:35:07 · 5 answers · asked by Val 1 in Friends

Whats it like to be single with kids is it really hard work? Will i need to buy shares in batteries for my vib?(sorry) Seriously though whats it like? Too late now its the single highway for me now

2006-10-19 20:34:40 · 26 answers · asked by jules 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-19 20:34:38 · 7 answers · asked by blah 2 in Singles & Dating

I know you must be mad at me because im mad at myself. I know I shouldn’t have ignored you like I did and I am truly sorry. Its not like me to do that especially with the only friend I had. I don’t know why but when you told David about me and Jose, I felt like you did it on purpose because of what I told Jose. I felt as if you chose David over me. I may or may not have been right but that’s the way I felt and I didn’t think it was right knowing what could have happened if everyone started talking, especially with the kind of situation that Jose is in. When you told me what happened between you and David I saw it in you that you did like him. I knew that if you were to become more than friends I couldn’t bear hearing about him after everything he did to me. I don’t necessarily hate him I just hate what he did to me. I couldn’t see myself preventing you from going out with him because if he is what you wanted I didn’t want to be the one to stop you. You of all people Steff know that he was my first....for everything. Yeah I may not really like him anymore but he still means something to me. Its just something you never forget. Well im not telling you what to do and im not expecting you to respond back or even talk to me again this is all up to you. Please don’t write back if you don’t have something respectful to say. Again I am sorry for ignoring you I know it wasn’t right but that’s why I wrote this to you so that you would know why I did what I did.

2006-10-19 20:34:34 · 1 answers · asked by Gloria 2 in Friends

After a guy has told his gf tht he doesnt miss her but...the girl had always proved him tht he is the only guy in her life, that she misses him....the guy is sure tht she can never leave him as she is attached to him... and he keeps criticising her...THE GIRL SENDS A TEXT MESG TO HIM ATLAST THT -"SHE DOESNT MISS HIM, HE IS NOT THAT INNOCENT GUY SHE ALWAYS WANTED TO BE WITH N HAS NO FEELINGS FOR HIM".BUT THE GUY REPIES "OK"....THEN HE SENDS A MESG AFTER 3 DAYS THT ONLY 3 MONTHS N 17 DAYS R LEFT FOR HER BIRTHDAY. THE GIRL DOESNT REPLY N THE BOY ALSO HASN'T CONTACTED SINCE 5 DAYS NOW. WILL HE FEEL HER ABSENCE N IMPORTANCE??? WILL HE THINK OF COMING BACK TO HER...

2006-10-19 20:34:05 · 2 answers · asked by saikiena 1 in Singles & Dating

We are going to 'paint the town red' and need to do it in style.

Any sensible, or completely non-sensible suggestions specific to Tokyo are welcome. We are not looking to spend more than 50,000yen per person.

Thanks in advance...

2006-10-19 20:33:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I'm going to see this kid who can't see well, he just got out of the hospital, and I don't know the kid. what should buy him?

2006-10-19 20:32:38 · 11 answers · asked by Feras 1 in Family

2006-10-19 20:32:13 · 13 answers · asked by vicky s 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-19 20:31:44 · 11 answers · asked by freightliner357 3 in Singles & Dating

Why is having fun so illeagle. I'm young and working. I do dope why is that a problem. My hubby dont do nothing and hates me for it. The kids are fine. I keep my job. What is the problem?

2006-10-19 20:29:03 · 10 answers · asked by Dann R 2 in Marriage & Divorce

shes trying to b somebody who shes SOO not. she is fat and wont go on a diet and her hair is really really frizzy and she doesnt brush it in the morning and she has curly hair. iv tried to recomend wat she could do to get rid of it and she wont listen. wat do i do

2006-10-19 20:25:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends