Do you stay and deal with it or do you get a little extra on the side to satisfy you? .
2006-10-19 20:38:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well , reality is sex becomes less the longer your with a person a lot of times. If the attraction is not there sexually, and you feel the need for more attraction may have to dump him, but you also gotta remember why you went with the person in the first place. In addition, there no such thing as perfect mate people can date and date be 35 with no bf or gf because they get picky and didnt look at the big picture, and try to find someone with a basic core of vaules and ideas about love, life and pursiut of happyness
2006-10-19 21:23:04 · answer #1 · answered by ram456456 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol well some people do both. but over time you often become so comfortable in a relationship that the spark goes away. you both have to work at getting the spark back. try to remember why you are together in the first place. those feelings are still there, they are just hidding behind daily routines and all that stuff.
2006-10-20 03:40:57 · answer #2 · answered by beckdawgydawg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi frist of all if he loves you and you love him then sex will be the last thing you both think of it but if he really care about you he will try to make you happy and satisfy you , but if he dont try to seduce him to make him have sex with you do some thing make him very exited and want to have sex with you and when he like that try not to have sex he will be crazy about you and do every thing to have sex with you if it don't work do like you said littel extra by your self
2006-10-20 03:43:50 · answer #3 · answered by lover boy 2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try different things.. LIke using sex toys or be open to trying 3sums or 4sums... The sight of him having sex with someone different right in front of you might be all that takes to turn you on again with him. But make sure you you are willing to be opened minded with him so there is no conflicts with all this
2006-10-20 03:43:20 · answer #4 · answered by cockednlocked38 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex and love go hand in hand. If you're not turned on sexually eventually the love will fade too, as he will want sex and you won't, thus leading to conflict.
End it now to avoid prolonging the agony.
2006-10-20 03:41:45 · answer #5 · answered by Scott W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay with him, don't cheat on him. Try new things, even if you have to go to an adult store. Maybe you both need some more excitement in your sex lives.
2006-10-20 03:41:46 · answer #6 · answered by steph 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't know feel this way with long time hubby.... Experience of 13 years tells me you best get out now, it doesn't get better miraculously!!!
2006-10-20 03:42:46 · answer #7 · answered by sweetson01 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah!
DON'T CHEAT!
If you still love him...work it out....
try some experimentation with him.
do some role playing or something....
make it more exciting for both of you.
2006-10-20 03:42:36 · answer #8 · answered by chefzilla65 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love him you find someway to spice up your sex life
you can add toys
maybe a little bondage
2006-10-20 03:41:27 · answer #9 · answered by irshbld77 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT CHEAT ON HIM- TELL HIM HOW U FEEL........................
YOU WILL GET WHATS COMMING BACK TO YOU IF U CHEAT ON HIM- SOME DAY SOMEHOW IT WILL.......................
IF U CANT WORK IT OUT THEN JUST BREAK UP WITH HIM
2006-10-20 03:43:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋