I broke up with my ex about a year ago. I haven't really talked to him since but I have recently been seeing him around..we go to the same college. The first time I saw him, I was driving with a friend. When we passed him on the road, He looked over and was smiling and seemed happy.This was very surprising to me. The second time my best friend passed him in the hall. He said Hi to her and asked How she was doing.He was pretty friendly.This seemed really weird to me too since, he didn't really like my friends at all when we were together. My ex's best friend also texts me now and then and asks what I am doing and how I am. And also wants to know when we (me and my ex's bf) are going to hang out.
2006-10-19 20:49:50 · 17 answers · asked by Sami 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
are you waiting for him to club you over the head and drag you into a room, or are you just skeptical?
wow, some nasty comments-
be nice girls, damn - put down the haterade
2006-10-19 20:55:10 · answer #1 · answered by oracle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 11:57:30 · answer #2 · answered by erlebach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You broke up with him a year ago. Remember. There must have been reasons..And boy, is it easy to assume something not true. I smile at you may mean I'm OK without you now and I hold no grudges. Talking w your g/f could mean anything, like the previous, or he may be interested in her, or you, or . .
The ex's friend may be just butting his nose in. Sounds like there are also a lot of coincidences. Also sounds like maybe nobody in this equation is being very up front..
Bottom Line? If you are meant to be together, you will be. I would not interrupt my life to hope for a reunion my any of my past flames. But maybe that's just me?
2006-10-19 21:01:11 · answer #3 · answered by bob h 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh shut it,Old Tired. Do ignore the message above me.
He's a bit cranky. Juz got up from his old nap.
I suggest you not to expect anything from either his or his best friend's friendliness without apparent reason.
Two options:
1. Maybe he does want something from you or something to
tell you (ie forgiveness,love,his departure from the college,
etc).
2. Maybe he is about to do something he knows that will hurt you
which of course is out of his own control.
For now,just be grateful for their friendliness while at the same time get ready for the big surprise. It could be a pleasant one or even bitter. Keep us posted ;)
2006-10-19 21:05:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe you should not entangle yourself with what did not work the first time. Perhaps he realized that he made a mistake and wants you back. It did not work the first time, it may be very unpleasant the second time around. Think about it before going at it again.
2006-10-19 20:55:54 · answer #5 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Think about it. your ex hasn't shown any interest in YOU. He's shown interest in your friend. And his friend is talking to you. He smiled when you drove by because that is the normal thing to do, to be polite and mature.
Trust me, if your ex was interested, he'd be talking to you.
Time to move on.
2006-10-19 20:53:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. If he was interested in you, you would know. Sounds to me like he is just being friendly. Perhpas he missed you as a friend.
2006-10-19 20:54:34 · answer #7 · answered by amandaped25 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to say that he hasn't given you any sign here. Also don't touch that - stick with the original plan, move on to better things.
2006-10-19 21:00:43 · answer #8 · answered by Sasha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe when you brake up than you shouldn't be back,it is like that you take a plate,you brake than you glue together the plate the plate will be again there the only problem it will be always crack there,so think twice before you go back,for me past is a history.
2006-10-19 20:57:20 · answer #9 · answered by kitty 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
have u considered that he's interested in your friend? or his friend is interested in you? maybe because u automatically assume he's intersted in you, you are secretly interested in him (since u are always looking out for him by the sound of it).
2006-10-19 20:56:31 · answer #10 · answered by flying_tigers999 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋