Family & Relationships - 19 October 2006

Im 5 months out of a 2 year relationship and want to move on but all of the guys at my university seem to be either in relationships or only looking for a quickie...what should i do? I wish I could just find my husband tomorrow and be done with it...any help/ideas would be greatly appreciated....thanks

2006-10-19 19:14:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-10-19 19:13:37 · 22 answers · asked by melsmailboxis 1 in Weddings

I like this girl so much, but she's already had a bf. So I am trying to forget about her and treating her just like a normal friend. Her bf treats her like cr@p. Everytime she comes to me and talks to me about her situation, I just cant stand that guy -her bf- for so many reasons....However, I dont know what I should do...I dont know whether I should meddle in or leave it up to her decision about her relationship...She once told me that I was her best friend...So I dont want to lose that title...Please help me ! I'm stuck here and dont know wat to do !!!

2006-10-19 19:12:51 · 12 answers · asked by pharmwannabe0129 1 in Friends

I talked with my fiance which is out to sea fighting the war on terror.He will return three days before X-mas.I'm trying to plan a get-away vacation at the end of December thru Jan 2 for the celebration of New Years because he's been away from for about 5 monthsThe first thing that comes out of his mouth is well, I don't know. I have to get the twins this and my daughter this for X-mas.I have x-mas shopping to do and it takes money.I told him exactly but I feel like since you weren't here for my birthday which is in November that you shouldn't have no problems with me making the reservation. A trip to Vegas can be very inexpensive with package deals I see daily He still was arguing the fact that X-mas shopping for his other 4 children. I'm so upset because last year I was put off by his children and for New Years' Day, instead of us going to celebrate it, he kept his daughter's sister which isn't his and his daughter. I was so upset. I just see history repeating iself.What should i do

2006-10-19 19:12:21 · 10 answers · asked by sunny d 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

on someone who has hurt and backstabbed me for a long time? Ive even moved away from them and they still try to bring me down....any ideas?

2006-10-19 19:12:16 · 11 answers · asked by Elle 3 in Friends

i don't know what to think of this guy i've been dating... i really want sex and he doesn't believe in premarital sex...this is so not what i'm used to...so, anyway do i want it more becuz he doesn't? shouldn't u drive the car be4 u buy it? or is it that i am used to sex starved men who didn't respect me? i am 43, not a kid anymore...serious comments only please!

2006-10-19 19:10:47 · 17 answers · asked by bev_lev 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hi everyone. I need some help. I'm going to a family wedding next Saturday in Illinois and I need some outfit ideas. The wedding is in the late afternoon and isn't black tie formal so I don't think I could get away with a black dress. Any suggestions?

2006-10-19 19:09:12 · 8 answers · asked by glowbowlingdiva 2 in Weddings

I just love that big eyes and the situation is getting tight tight tight but not to tight

2006-10-19 19:08:34 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My husband goes to school or works from 9am-10pm weekdays. When he gets off he just plays computer games until very late at night/early morning and never helps around the house. I attend school on weekdays untill 2 or 4 and then watch our daughter while he works. I do the best I can on the house work but I'm handling a serious load and I'm falling behind. I'm also a fulltime student so I often am up late trying to complete homework and do projects. We argue all the time about cleaning and who's doing what and who's not doing enough. I feel bad that I nag him after a long day but my days are just as long. I need help with this because it's tearing us apart. I resent him and he's always annoyed with me for nagging at him. What do I do?

2006-10-19 19:07:18 · 23 answers · asked by evilangelfaery919 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-19 19:07:17 · 8 answers · asked by ravee 1 in Singles & Dating

Why do men play games? Have any of you met a guy who plays games? I know a guy, and I can't tell if he likes me, but... I think he's playing games with me... he flirts, and he's inconsistent. Is this good? Plz help. I like him, but don't know if I should make a move.

2006-10-19 19:07:12 · 16 answers · asked by tina 2 in Singles & Dating

I know it might seem weird but yes i have a crush on my cousin..What can i say..I love a guy with blue eyes and it's not like we've known each other for forever...he's my step cousin..ive only known him for 2 years and hes a total hotty...But i feel like it is so wrong cause i mean i do claim him as a cousin..Is this ok??

2006-10-19 19:05:47 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Here is my situation, I am 21 and my boyfriend and I have been together for almost four years. We both agreed very eary on to take things as they come and just do what feels right with out being pressured by both of out pushy and eager families

We had the marriage talk about a year back and decided we will eventually get married once everything was in order ie: car, good jobs. Anyways, I've been thinking about it and I'm not sure what I want anymore.

Other than for the sake of tradition and my grandma (she will kill me if I don't get married) isn't just closure on a piece of paper and a ring?

Don't get me wrong we're both happy, committed and faithfull in the relationship It's just there is so much involved like costs, planning and stress which I just don't see justified. I'm sitting on the fence here! I did tell him this and he said he still wants to get married but will support my decision if that's what I really want.

What's your opinion either way? pro's or con's?

2006-10-19 19:05:25 · 11 answers · asked by ciaotutti1027 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-19 19:04:42 · 22 answers · asked by amy w 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

ive liked channing longer but shes 15 and im 13 channing goes to a differnt school than i do but i can see her on the weekends when she comes and sees her mom. but holly is 13 we go to the same school and ive recently started liking her and both of the girls no i like them

2006-10-19 19:04:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Does ANYONE really believe in true love???? I have been looking for a long time and i'm scared i will never find it.........with all the single people out there.....WHY is it so hard to just find 1 good person??? Any good men between 25-35 wanting to meet a great women?

2006-10-19 19:04:27 · 9 answers · asked by sugar_n_spice 5 in Singles & Dating

We haven't had sex yet, so I can't bring up past memories...but I'm stuck at home doing homework, and he's at his place doing whatever...what can I text him to turn him on?

2006-10-19 19:04:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i need go away
i need new name
new friends
new love
new life
just run away and start agane that all what i need

2006-10-19 19:03:26 · 5 answers · asked by mona a 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-19 19:03:23 · 24 answers · asked by Sahib Q 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend(Yuka) has a friend in China. But Yuka lives in Japan. Now, Yuka Loves this guy in China, but he only sees her as a friend. And Yuka only gets to talk to her chinese friend every weekend.
yuka wants to tell her friend that she loves him, but she wants to let him know how she feels. How can she do that?

PS: she knows he doesn't have a gf.

2006-10-19 19:01:44 · 3 answers · asked by Japan_is_home 5 in Singles & Dating

cps , children adopted by relative

2006-10-19 19:00:54 · 9 answers · asked by dabom 1 in Family

since i hid my grans false teeth on top of the wardrobe last week,she rarely thinks of anything else

2006-10-19 19:00:21 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm scared, I've been with my husband for 13 years. The last 2 months he's been edgy, and snappy. He seems to be in a bad mood all the time anymore, and ALL he does is complain. I've tried talking to him but he just blows me off and says "what are you talking about, I'm not moody". I do everything for him, cook, clean, laundry, bills, have sex when ever he wants, i run all the errands, let him go out with his friends whenever he wants, I bath the three kids, take care of their needs, and but them to bed. I am not sure what is / can be going on for him? I know it's not money - he makes more then enough to cover bills and then some. Any ideas what could be wrong with him? Or what I should say or think??????? Does he not love me anymore, when I ask him he says "OMG of course i love you".

2006-10-19 19:00:14 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

whenever i meet new guys they initially are attracted to me and we start hanging out and we end up doing "stuff" with eachother, and they act all cute like they want to be together for the first couple weeks and then after a while they just say "you're too cool of a girl i don't want to ruin anything" what the hell is this all about guys? i mean it's not like i give it up to em so it's not like they got what they wanted and now they just wanna chill... What's with this f*ckin behavior with the dudes?

2006-10-19 18:59:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

today the guy i have been crushing on came up to me and was like "come on let me walk you to class" and of course i was like "okay" and we just talked about school and classes and stuff but this was also the first time we ever talked... so what now? next time i see him do i wave, hug him say hi? HELP!!!

2006-10-19 18:59:15 · 5 answers · asked by lhsdancehayla 1 in Singles & Dating

It seems like all people wanna do when they're in love is bang, there is more to love than that

2006-10-19 18:56:52 · 10 answers · asked by loni_831 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my boyfirned for three years. I always thought our personalities never really balanced each other because we were so much alike but he treated me like a queen so I decided to deal with it. I do love him and he wants to marry me but I met someone 5 months ago who totally through me for a loop. he is so different from me and we have such a great time together. I feel reborn. I never felt like this with my boyfriend. I only hung with the new guy with other friends but I think we would be great together. I want ot be loyal but at the same time what if this is a sign my boyfriend and me are not meant to be together. What would you do??

2006-10-19 18:56:12 · 5 answers · asked by missheryl 1 in Singles & Dating

I was married for 13 years and now divorced. In the state of california. I was basically a stay-at-home mom and wife. Worked various part-times jobs here and there but relied solely on ex-husbands income since he worked as an officer for the state of california. I do not have representation cause I
simply cannot afford it. The-ex's attorney is pretty much trying to railroad me out of having my ex pay the insurance payment on my van, but we already had settled in court an order to pay the van payment plus the insurance and I was responsible for registration. If anyone has information please let me know thanks.

2006-10-19 18:55:18 · 9 answers · asked by cecimad 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I went last night,and it was fun not like mom and dad talked when the century had turned lol but her and i had a great time and did nothing but eat and kiss,im 32 she's 29 we had sex but not last night it was just "FUN" it felt like we were 12,we were just comfortable ya know.

2006-10-19 18:55:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I heard the other day, something like, "It doesn't matter....Every relationship is ****** up. You may have your problems and fight and have madness, but that doesn't matter. What matters is, is that after all that, at the end of the day, you still want to be there. That's what counts."
Who believes that? I've got a situation that I'm dealing with and want to know who believes in this....

2006-10-19 18:54:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships