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I heard the other day, something like, "It doesn't matter....Every relationship is ****** up. You may have your problems and fight and have madness, but that doesn't matter. What matters is, is that after all that, at the end of the day, you still want to be there. That's what counts."
Who believes that? I've got a situation that I'm dealing with and want to know who believes in this....

2006-10-19 18:54:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

7 answers

I sorta do...I don't think every relationship is ****** up, but I think every relationship in some way is diff from the other. I think every relationship takes work if you want it to work. I've been with my guy for nearly 2 years (live together too) and we fight and get mad a lot (not an insane amount of times tho and no abuse) but we make up afterwords. In some ways it doesn't matter, you're going to argue and **** happens but who cares, what are we the brady bunch? NOO, We still love each other and go home with each other and we WANT to....As long as nothing's abusive or hurful towads you and you want to be with this person, you can't just expect things to work out with no effort. All the fighting goes away so it really doen't matter, what matters is that you're overall happy together! BTW the makeup sex is nice too ;-)

2006-10-19 19:02:01 · answer #1 · answered by cjb 4 · 0 0

As long as you still have your dignity and self respect. I mean, no-I don't think there is a perfect relationship in existence. However, where are the fights, madness, and problems stemming from? If its not tearing you down and you can still see light at the end of the tunnel, then sure, that's definetely what counts.

2006-10-19 19:04:35 · answer #2 · answered by shellese2 4 · 0 0

It's worth it if you both put equal attention into the relationship...Well I'm going to give it to you straight... It is true all relationships do have there problems ,some worse than others however if the relationship is abusive run don't walk away from it.. You can't fix all problems, and some people and their problems do not want to be fixed...Madness and Idiotcricy are two differents things..Be wise about your decisons please !!

2006-10-19 19:01:41 · answer #3 · answered by chubbie dumplins 2 · 0 0

even at the end of the day after all that has happend or said sometimes its not what counts..and its not what you feel...i dont believe this and i know for a fact its not true...life is to short to be somewhear you really dont want to be or to in a situation you feel you are stuck in...no one owns you, and you have to be in control of your self...you choose your life and how you live it....if your not happy then its not worth it...

2006-10-19 19:07:50 · answer #4 · answered by countryrose24 3 · 0 0

its got an element of truth --- as long as you both can be happy in the relationship and you want to be with each other

2006-10-19 18:57:53 · answer #5 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0 0

No, every relationship is not effed up. (Careful with language). Some relationships are good and peaceful.

2006-10-19 19:02:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

No, NO, if it is ****** up than why stay? Do you still want to be there? If you do, than question answered. If you don't than question answered.

2006-10-19 19:23:15 · answer #7 · answered by Gorgeoustxwoman2013 7 · 0 0

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