Why do men play games? Have any of you met a guy who plays games? I know a guy, and I can't tell if he likes me, but... I think he's playing games with me... he flirts, and he's inconsistent. Is this good? Plz help. I like him, but don't know if I should make a move.
2006-10-19 19:07:12 · 16 answers · asked by tina 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You know what? You live and you learn, life is about taking risks, that's how you gain. I've went out with a "player" before, he can't help it. He wanted to be faithful, but tempations are everywhere. Now I am stuck in a similiar situation. After going out with a player for so many years, I think every walking male specimen is a player. I've had chats with my friends and they all tell me the same thing-Just relax, chill and have fun. Don't do anything you don't want to do. If things works out, it will eventually fall into place. If he is a player, you just learn the hard way, that's how life's best lessons are learned. No one can TELL you he's a player so you don't talk to him. We can tell you whatever, but will you actually listen? We can't stop you online and even with a picture, we can't tell if he's a player. Go with your gut's feeling. In time, you will learn. Hey, no pain, no gain. You can't control the situation, things will start turning into obligations and it will just get ugly. Go with the flow and just relax, if he's a player, take it as a compliment that you are one of his pawns. Don't hate the players, hate the game. You can play too ;)
2006-10-19 19:24:31 · answer #1 · answered by Gina C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He IS playing games. If you want him, you have to play the game too. If you appear too available to him, he's won the game too soon.
Well this 'game' is pretty much a kite game. U need to know when to give a little, and withdraw a little. You'll have him for sure.
But remember, this game won't ever end for these kinda guys. THe moment it does he will feel the thrill is gone and well. the kite will fly away. So you have to develop to play this game like an attitude.
If you think you can't play this game, then forget him. He will always be playing this even after you get him. It'll be a big heartache.
2006-10-20 02:22:21 · answer #2 · answered by Liz^24 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think the best way to deal with this type of behaviour is to either cut him off altogether or if you really like him then you act as inconsistently as he does. It should give you enough time to find out whether he really likes you
2006-10-20 02:08:54 · answer #3 · answered by Kble 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should just let him make the move. see all the man out there do not no how to make a move on woman. i always have too help them. they are so stupid. one guy said if i had a lot of money would the ladies like me? i said no you jack a**. lol. day just stupid. just get closer to the boi and see if he says anything. if he doesnt then wait untill the next time. you should make the second move. ok . ya hear me? holla!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-20 14:11:51 · answer #4 · answered by chris_brown's_woman_for_sure 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So play games with him too. Have a guy friend come and hug you and flirt with you in front of him and see what he does...
2006-10-20 02:12:21 · answer #5 · answered by Girlish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sure would not take a step in his direction until he made it very clear that he wants that. If he really wants that, he'll make sure you know. Don't think too much about him. There are other guys out there too. If you act a little uninterested, not make yourself available to him too much, if he is interested in you, he will come your way.
2006-10-20 02:15:02 · answer #6 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a move. Example: Touch his penis...that always goes over well with men.
2006-10-20 02:10:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many guys play games if he is not a sincere person......... chances are that he is playing games.............just don't get tto attached emotionaly . I would not let my gaurd down especialy if he is sending you mixed signals
2006-10-20 02:10:02 · answer #8 · answered by Lyssa D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not hard to go and talk to any guy/girl in the world. If they like you they wont mind, if they not you wouldn't mind. So ... don't put yourself under tension. Just ask him: Is it or is it not??
No courage required, its plain and simple :)
2006-10-20 02:29:26 · answer #9 · answered by I_wish 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No leave him alone nobody needs a boy they can't depend on.
2006-10-20 02:12:19 · answer #10 · answered by mdboomskwad.mc4u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋