2006-10-19 19:04:42 · 22 answers · asked by amy w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Because sometimes it isn't. There is such a thing as a physical fling...
2006-10-19 19:06:25 · answer #1 · answered by robtheman 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
why is iut ok for women to sleep with you for 4 weeks before but then tell you it is a relationship?
At teh end of the day, if you don't have that discussion before you go to bed with a bloke, then you take pot luck on what that bloke will say. Try to be frank and open from the start and try not to use sex as a leverage tool to a relationship!
2006-10-19 21:02:39 · answer #2 · answered by break 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically because you let them. If you don't want sex before a guy is committed to you, then don't have sex with him before that - it's as simple as that. That was the 'old-fashioned' way and I'm not saying that it is right or wrong.
You need to define 'relationship' in your own head, and only get involved with guys who are prepared to do it the way you want it.
Personally, before i was married, i was quite happy to sleep with a bloke if i wanted to, but i didn't expect it to be a 'relationship' unless he had defined it as such.
Men think differently to women. The old cliches are true - they don't appreciate which is put on a plate for them. Let them do a little chasing. Let them see that you are worth having.
Although i was sleeping with my now husband from as soon as we met, i certainly didn't commit to him straight away - how could i? I didn't really know him. And no way was i just going to move in with him, like his girlfriend before me, who jumped at the chance and then found out later that he didn't really love her, but it was convenient and fun to have someone there for him!
Sex = Sex
Commitment = Commitment
Hope life works out for you.
2006-10-19 20:21:47 · answer #3 · answered by Caroline 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes some do but these are not worth being with, they are just using you for their own gratification, unfortunately you have invested your feelings in the sexual emotional part, next time try to be more aware and make them wait a bit first, if there is true intrest in you as a person the sex will come later, forget about the other guy hes not worth knowing and will already be looking for new victims,
2006-10-19 19:37:32 · answer #4 · answered by freya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after 4 weeks we find your ID, and realise your not old enough...or too old ;)
actually, i have had "girlfriends" who have done the same thing...accept being taken out to dinner, picked up and brought home, cinema, etc etc....and then say "well, i think you're a really nice bloke, but i don't love you...maybe we can be friends?"
end of the day women are just the same as men. ok?
2006-10-19 19:07:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Nah, even tho i'm 19 and basically slept with one individual, I honestly have 2 pals a similar age and that they cant count quantity what share they have slept with on the two hands, they might desire to apply feet too! lol loosen up.
2016-11-24 19:19:45 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they are only after sex - one of the great unfairnesses in life is that for a man to have a list of flings as long as your arm is admired, whereas a women who were to do similar would be branded all sorts of rude names.
2006-10-19 19:52:20 · answer #7 · answered by bovie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because sex does not mean a relationship, sex is sex. Relationships are far more than that. Have you not heard of f*ck buddies? Also you cant just tarnish men with this lasses do it too, the only difference is we have to pay for the privilege of getting to f*ck you, they get PAID... Now I not sure what you call that but...
2006-10-19 19:33:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
because as long as there was no talk of a relationship before the sex began then you are just a friend with benefits. if you really want to be with him then cut him off til he agrees to be in a comitted relationship with you. if not, start dating other people, try to make him jealous. if that doesn't work than you are better off without him. good luck
2006-10-19 19:13:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
They are thick thugh big headed.They think they can go sleeping around with any woman.They are doomed and their days are numbered they wont live like that forever.Am also very bitter about it.Easy
2006-10-19 20:14:41 · answer #10 · answered by nix 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its the same as some woman...some guys do associate feelings with sex...you get some guys that get walked all over from woman that have one night stands every weekend
2006-10-19 19:31:26 · answer #11 · answered by Lee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋