Family & Relationships - 19 October 2006

A few months back, I broke up with my boyfriend for a month. During that month, he kept trying to get back with me, and I didn't answer his calls in the first week or 2. I kept ignoring him, and he started to stalk me. I also started to hang out with one of my friends from work, who my boyfriend didn't like at all. My friend from work and I was never intimate, but we hung out a lot because he was my moral support and shoulder to cry on during this time.

Now, my boyfriend and I are back together, and he will not let this die! Every time we fight, he brings up that I was with another guy (only as friends) and I tell him that it doesn't matter what happened when we were broken up, plus nothing happened between me and my friend. Who's right?

2006-10-19 20:25:05 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Everyone seems to hate. We are stereo-typed as depressed ppl who cut ourselves for attention, and just want ppl to take pity on us. But for everyone, thats not true. yes, i am emo. my 2 best friends rnt emo. i am often depressed. i dont cut myself, and i dont want ppls pity. emo just means 'emotional'. we're not some sort of secret cult like everyone seems to think we are. i just dont get it. y do ppl hate us so much?

2006-10-19 20:25:02 · 7 answers · asked by ezzaphill 3 in Friends

I would like to give you a dozen roses.


For the joy I feel when I see you.

For loving me.

For your hug when I need one.

For spending time with me.

For your understanding of my needs.

For the special times we share.

For all the memories you have given me.

For always being there for me when I need you.

For the love I feel in my heart.

For the happiness you bring into my life.

For always listening to me.

For your unconditional friendship.



For your ANSWER!

2006-10-19 20:24:09 · 11 answers · asked by MaSTeR 3 in Singles & Dating

I mean really. Its funny how poeple who dont hear what they want get mad. Some people just need to face the facts.

2006-10-19 20:24:08 · 11 answers · asked by D_Rod 2 in Friends

I have not spoken to my former best friend in months, but, I still feel like we're best friends. And, we've been arguing and pissing each other off for the last 3 years of our lives. Should I still bother on trying to fix this bented friendship, because I still want to be best friends with him.

2006-10-19 20:23:08 · 7 answers · asked by Daniel R 1 in Friends

I want to make a mother's ring for my daughter but I can't find the mountings that don't already have stones in them. I think it would mean more if I made it myself.

2006-10-19 20:21:44 · 1 answers · asked by grannie056 1 in Family

I had a best friend, and me and him were inseperatable. But, now, we're enemies. It hurst a lot. And I have dozens of pictures of him, and they're the only memories I have of him when we were close. I tried to get rid of them, but I can't, because he still means a lot to me. Would keeping these pictures as memories be bad for my mental health, since I suffer from depression?

2006-10-19 20:19:29 · 10 answers · asked by Daniel R 1 in Friends

2006-10-19 20:19:05 · 20 answers · asked by thinkpose 5 in Singles & Dating

Just wondered what you are doing on the other side of the computer or what you will be doing! I am so nosey

2006-10-19 20:18:20 · 22 answers · asked by jules 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-19 20:18:20 · 10 answers · asked by Doclkk 4 in Singles & Dating

Does it mean when you very first see them,or just an instant overflow of attraction at any given time of knowing them?........................Do you believe in it?

2006-10-19 20:15:30 · 11 answers · asked by Direktor 5 in Singles & Dating

I'm together with a man that has 3 daughters and got divorse from an 18 year marriage. We have a 1 year old son, he is the perfect father, and a very good man, but the fact that he has 3 daughters kill me, and that he was married before also. I'm not happy like that, it's something I can't live with but I want for my baby to have the family I didn't. What should I do?

2006-10-19 20:14:48 · 14 answers · asked by Heidys P 1 in Marriage & Divorce

we have all been hurt and left borken , so why do they only blame the guys , you girls are just as bad if you look at it , so dont just blame the males , and the answer to the question is ???????

2006-10-19 20:13:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

does he hate me now?

will the business take off?

2006-10-19 20:13:31 · 11 answers · asked by DOMINATUS 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am 16 and I think have fallen in true love with a guy.
(I am a girl,pleaze)

2006-10-19 20:11:43 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well im 18 and i just started my freshmen year in college, before when i was in high school my parents expected me to get home clean the house and cook dinner ( my sis helped me clean, but i did the cooking) , now that im in school my dad is always on my back about getting home ASAP, and cleaning and cooking, my mom she understands more, but since she doesnt want to deal with my dafs complainst and bit**ing, she takes his side and tells me that im too lazy and i need to do thing better and stop being so lazy! And on top of that they never let me go out, i mean i know there still have to be some boundaries, but geezze!! my curfew is freakin 10:30 pm the latest! I feel overwhelmed, and very pist off because my dad specially is always telling me youre lazy, u never do anything right, etc, i mean we have never had that great of a relationship cause hes always makin fun of me and hes the type of man who want it his way or no way! What should i do im fed up!!

2006-10-19 20:10:58 · 17 answers · asked by onelove 4 in Family

Also he has asperger syndrome, which is a form of autism, but he is very high functioning.
I just want to know what policies the airlines have when it comes to children flying unaccompanied.

2006-10-19 20:09:56 · 5 answers · asked by Mermaid 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

commitment issues? I don't mean it disparigingly at all. Factual question: do all women have to overcome uncertainty when getting into a deeper relationship? I know some guys certainly do. Maybe true for everyone, then? What do you think?

2006-10-19 20:09:10 · 8 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

I.E. 3sums, 4sums... I have done it before with an ex. my new girlfriend has a very high sex drive and she is open to everything .. I think it will strengthen our relationship. What do you think?

2006-10-19 20:08:23 · 6 answers · asked by cockednlocked38 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband left me and I had to beg him to come back. Even though he knew how bad I was hurting it took him 3 days to make up his mind. I feel super insecure and he is the type of person who doesnt say what is bothering him. He just takes things as he sees them and that is that. I didnt realize what love meant until him. We have been together 5 years today. I just need him to love me as much as I do him. But alot of things he does that are not right he really either feels they are ok to do or he just doesnt care how it effects me. I need security and his love and understanding. How do I get that?

2006-10-19 20:08:01 · 5 answers · asked by ineedyourlove 1 in Marriage & Divorce

which part of the body that women like to be touched most?i need to know reply me pls.....

2006-10-19 20:00:16 · 20 answers · asked by sonruyaa 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Im suffering alot since my first child I have never been able to sleep, i have day dreams of both of my children dieing, I can picture there funneral. Im a nervous reck. I love my kids so much infact i love them to much, but i cant carm myself down. I could be driving along and i could visualise a fire and feel the pain my children would be in, i would be in tears all the time. I pray every night for my children to be safe, can anyone give me PROPER advise to control this.... Only serious answers please

2006-10-19 19:59:31 · 15 answers · asked by chicken 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Looking for a clever, appros, thoughtful, funny gift for a woman whose only child, a son, just got married. (Won't be presented at the wedding.) There must be something out there that is either really really nice or really really funny or really really clever...or all of the above! I'm drawing a blank. Any and all ideas would be very much appreciated.

2006-10-19 19:59:06 · 8 answers · asked by holly 1 in Weddings

Since we are all anonymous - can we all swap a TRUE secret? Ok Ill start. When I was 19 I didnt think my boyfriend loved me so I cheated on him with a DJ. And I never told him. And I felt l like ****. Then I married him carrying this horrid secret.
Now its your turn, tell a secret - but remember: no judging others!!!

2006-10-19 19:54:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Hi all, Im a 24 y/o Female who can be very very shy. I dont like being shy simply for the fact that the girl im dating is more shy then i am. We have known each other for 6 months already and only kissed. I feel even more shy around her because she is so damn shy. I hate it. I try to just let lose but i cant. Its so hard because she doesnt ever make the move to kiss me or anything, its always me... and she tells me all the time she likes me so i know its not that she doesnt want to do things with me... How can i overcome this shyness i have? I am always myself around her but just not sexually. And i want to be and shes told me she wants me to be... Shes even told me i have to make the moves because she will never because of her shyness... so confusing! Haha. I say "okay f-it, im not gonna be shy" and that doesnt work... Maybe theres hope! ;) Thanks in advance for your responses.

2006-10-19 19:54:18 · 12 answers · asked by coffeejitterzz 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-19 19:53:38 · 3 answers · asked by mark t 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

She demands all his time and has him wrapped around her finger. Whenever we hangout she comes with and i dont know why cos i dont even think she likes the rest of the group. She pulls him away by pretending to mad at him or sick and he falls for it everytime. Everyone can see this besides him. I tried talking to himand he listened but in the end he just gives in.I really dont like her and i know she doesn't like me, so its all just pretense btwn us. I want him to be happy and i know he really loves her even though she's high maintenance.

2006-10-19 19:51:39 · 11 answers · asked by numchuckchick 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Do you feel that if there are no strings attached in a relationship that it reduces the amount of arguments!!

2006-10-19 19:51:28 · 8 answers · asked by Deavious999 3 in Singles & Dating

Your relationship has been over with him for years but you still have a child together. Is your friend still a friend?

2006-10-19 19:50:32 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Ok so the deal is that she is literally carzy. she honestly thinks its everyone else job to please her. she drives me insane. plus *this is the real problem* she has made it her LIFE GOAL to keep me and him from having sex. IN HIS HOUSE. its crazy. and its not like we can just lock all the doors *we've tryed she just busts them open* did i mention she is 300lbs? but also his grandparents live with him since its near his moms house *so she can be near them* and my appartment is tiny makes being intimate very hard. any way. we have told her to stop. we have locked the doors. we have asked his mom to stop her but she just refuses. she is really acting like shes 12. its ridiculous. she is in need of serious help.

2006-10-19 19:48:55 · 9 answers · asked by yup yep 2 in Singles & Dating