I had a best friend, and me and him were inseperatable. But, now, we're enemies. It hurst a lot. And I have dozens of pictures of him, and they're the only memories I have of him when we were close. I tried to get rid of them, but I can't, because he still means a lot to me. Would keeping these pictures as memories be bad for my mental health, since I suffer from depression?
2006-10-19 20:19:29 · 10 answers · asked by Daniel R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
NO save them, and why don't you try to get back being friends with him? I mean seriously if you cannot forgive each other you have to ask if you were ever friends at all...
2006-10-19 20:22:11 · answer #1 · answered by INC0GNIT0 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why r u enemies?
why can't u be friends again?
if ur depressive its better keep them but never look at them
don't get rid but just don't take a look at it!
friends sometimes makes life miserable
i had a firend like urs and it hurts a lot really! but u hav eto move on and live with it, its often a greta burden u can't! wen i sit in class, and look across, it makes no effect to them i mean they don't miss me as they laugh and kidding! it hurts ya!
2006-10-19 20:41:56 · answer #2 · answered by Gamesr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-05 00:53:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remembering the past is bad if it becomes like a burden and it prevents us to move on. You just have to accept that it's the past and over now,. In fact, in life everything happens for a reason and when u'll be over this phase of your life, you'll have learnt why it happened.
2006-10-19 20:36:34 · answer #4 · answered by Lucie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would recommend putting them in an envelope, and putting the envelope someplace that's not readily accessable, like at a friend's house. Try to leard from the experience, and determine how you got to where you are now.
2006-10-19 20:22:01 · answer #5 · answered by becca_r61 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes it is and sometime no....in order to get over the friend ship is truely forgive him, you did care about him at one point. But if they bring back bad memories then get rid of them
2006-10-19 20:22:58 · answer #6 · answered by CeKaye L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm not sure about you but if its me,i throw every single things tat will remind me of him and i'll keep talking n talking,crying n crying about the matter for weeks or for mths till i'm so very tired n tats it,i'll not rake it up anymore
memories will still keep in my mind n feel sad when thot about it after tat but i'll tell myself,enough,i still have to carry on with my life normally
2006-10-19 20:24:04 · answer #7 · answered by Western 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it is not bad but you need to be the better person and eventually forgive, you feel way better.
Remember only you will suffer not the other person
2006-10-19 20:22:57 · answer #8 · answered by baxman11 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know what you mean and from experience DONT get rid of them coz you WILL regret it... make coppies of the photos and give/send him a set to let him see that you miss him
2006-10-19 20:22:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
memories are part of what we are, be the bigger person and try contacting your friend and try to reconcile your friendship
2006-10-19 20:24:39 · answer #10 · answered by Mike H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋