we have all been hurt and left borken , so why do they only blame the guys , you girls are just as bad if you look at it , so dont just blame the males , and the answer to the question is ???????
2006-10-19 20:13:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we are are alfraid of rejection i know my wife left me to raise my 3 kids i treid to do my best but i never went out on a date while the kids were home didnt think i needed to bring those problems to the mix of things but at some point you must try and take a chance on happiness you wont find love staying home go to church social join a club be active
2006-10-19 20:18:59 · answer #1 · answered by richard r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea we have been hurt so many times... and girls do do it to...not just the guys...like i got hurt alot and my last relationship of only 3 months turned out really bad and i went chasin after him i think i did it for bout 3 months and he didnt want me back and it hurt me so bad... i thought i wasnt goin to be able to do it again.... i mean the thought of tellin another guy i loved him was like impossible to me at the time...then one nite i met this guy and he showed me alot and i really liked him and later we started datin and wit time i fell back in love..and it was so great...but now where we are he doesnt want a long term and it hurts me that he is still livin in the past...i mean he is basin hes last relationship on ours and its so not fair... guys are just mean sometimes.....and they dont consider other ppls feelins...(not sayin all guys are like that)the answer to you answer from my point of view is women are more emotional then guys...and we are scared to fall in love b/c we mite get hurt again and again and you can only handle so much heartbreak...and its hard....
2006-10-19 20:34:47 · answer #2 · answered by hesgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some of those whom have been left broken willbe scared to fall in serious love again. those who dont even know what they want will jusy dive into another relationship and get broken.. its either u give it another shot or recline and hide.
2006-10-19 20:18:30 · answer #3 · answered by The Punisher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they don't want to get hurt or attached to that other person and then something really bad happens to them.
the fear of being committed to another is alot of peoples fears. it takes time to love sometimes
2006-10-19 20:31:39 · answer #4 · answered by rebelicious_angel228 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it wasn't the man's fault, the girl wouldn't have been hurt.
If it was the girl's fault, then she wouldn't have felt the hurt, she would just hurt the guy.
Duh!!!
2006-10-19 20:20:18 · answer #5 · answered by jan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
weve all been hurt...thats why we get up and dust off..thanks for the answer by the way very sweet
2006-10-19 20:20:55 · answer #6 · answered by DOMINATUS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the answer is that if you don't take the chance at being in the relationship you will be hopelessly lonely
2006-10-19 20:33:24 · answer #7 · answered by girly_sweet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And what the F#$% does Emotionally unavailable me.
2006-10-19 20:32:41 · answer #8 · answered by planedws 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha! I asked first...2 pts, too.
2006-10-19 20:16:51 · answer #9 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋