Family & Relationships - 19 October 2006

My dorm unit is a whore house.
SEX in the room on the left
SEX in the room on the right
SEX upstairs! All my dormmates do is screw.I havent said ay thing to anyone, but I don't even know what to say! We have very thin walls @ the dorms and all u hair is the noise, and moans! It's so nasty! One of my dormmates actually charging guys for sex and who knows what else so there is a constant stream of guys going to our unit!
Also, it would be helpful to know, that honestly it hard 2 say, but it brings back painful memories of my deceased boyfriend.It's been a year but Im still grieving and this doesn't make it better.I knwo I cant force my dormmates to stop their lives cuz of this. But what can I do within myself to make it better?

2006-10-19 19:48:17 · 23 answers · asked by Gifted and Gracious 3 in Friends

Asian guys?

The media says you're only attracted to black guys, my question is, do you find yourselves attracted to asian guys?

2006-10-19 19:46:13 · 15 answers · asked by linko9789 1 in Singles & Dating

Well we've had 2 good conversations that went on. She held a smile both times throughout both conversations. Our last one however I was talking to her askin her where she was headed. She was holdin a smile, and answered.

I then asked her if she had a locker partner. I guess I figured it'd be a good way to probably get a chance to see her everyday. She had one unfortunately. So I was like, "Ah that sucks I need a new partner bad, there are like 4 different people in and out of mine and I've lost 2 books already"

Only thing about this convo that seemed to have gone wrong was the fact we didn't say goodbye and kinda drifted apart on that one. I kinda feel I'm losing her in a sense.

Should I ignore her for a bit? Then start approaching her again? What's my best bet? Where do I stand...

And I just found out she knows my sister. My sister came up to me today and was like, hey you liek Crystal don't you... I was like... How did you know?

2006-10-19 19:43:18 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It's not that i regret getting married. It's just that in hindsight the relationship wasn't where I think it should have been. Now it is just
becoming more and more clear and I dont want to participate in the neurotic back and forth.

2006-10-19 19:43:13 · 12 answers · asked by lightlytread 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I wanna do it to him but dont know how... Any tips? Did he like it?

Thanks! :)

2006-10-19 19:43:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-19 19:41:34 · 20 answers · asked by DaysiJane 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-19 19:41:29 · 11 answers · asked by baxman11 1 in Singles & Dating

I want to ask out this girl Im really, really into. We have become pretty close friends and she keeps telling me things about how shes sad that she cant seem to keep a boyfriend, so Im thinking about going after her myself.

Just a little info - she is gorgeous, but shes pretty flirty and I think it turns guys away from her. Im not very good looking, and Ive never, ever had a gf. So Ive never kissed anyone, made out, anything. And Im 18. I know, lame =(

Basically what is holding me back is kissing. She is pretty forward with kissing, I know a lot of the guys she previously dated. She has had quite a few casual boyfriends so I know she is a good kisser. I dont want to be lame, especially because we al have the same friends.

What techniques can I use? She once mentioned to me how she hated a guy who just started off with their toungue. I didnt even know you could kiss for periods of time without it. How do you kiss someone when you arent useing your tongue? Jus tlips pressed together?

2006-10-19 19:40:34 · 9 answers · asked by Uh Oh 2 in Singles & Dating

We had an intercaste love marriage, with oppositon from our parents. There was an age difference of 15 years and also wife was from very rich family with an history of divorces and desertions. But she convinced the husband that she hates divorce and will never resort to one. After a very cute son is born the opposition from wife's father is over who eyed him as a son he wanted (his own son is no good) and abetted her to divorce her husband who was going through a bad time and in return reinstated her in his will of multi million estate. At present the wife's husband is also cotesting divorce from his second ( or third wife ) from last 15 years .

2006-10-19 19:38:57 · 10 answers · asked by Nachiket D 2 in Marriage & Divorce

okay so my ex is still begging for another chance after i left him over an affair with a coworker, i had caught him in several lies till i found out about a nite in a motel they had sex in.....long story....anyways, he is still begging for another chance....why cant he move on...i feel like someone is still a part of his life and he just wants to keep me around....if i say no...he begs....then he gets angry and then he says he gonna kill himself....etc.....he swears i am seeing someone and thats why i wont take him back....once i got mad and had enough and said i can see someone now if i want cause we are not together and he smashed my door in....called his brother and told him "that ***** is seeing someone else....you whore...you slut..." then he cried and apologized.....HELP...i wish i could get proof that he is still with her then i could throw it in his face and maybe he would leave me alone.....

2006-10-19 19:38:30 · 16 answers · asked by hamhead 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-19 19:37:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-19 19:36:53 · 12 answers · asked by baxman11 1 in Singles & Dating

Does it mean anything when she says, "I want you to meet my girlfriends"?

2006-10-19 19:35:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-19 19:35:54 · 9 answers · asked by lynelleleibhart 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, I'ma guy. I'm 15 a Sophomore in High School.
Everyday I go to school not trying to dress good or like doing my hair or anythin. In fact I purposely try to dress bad because I don't want any girls liking me. Not that I'm gay or anything but because, I don't know I just don't want to get distracted from studies.
But, what do you know, this girl started to like me. >.< Not that I'm takin her attraction to me for granted or anythin but like now I have to reject her cause I don't like her.
I don't want to destroy her heart so that she can never like anyone again but I still have to tell her off. She is not my friend or anything we hardly know eachother, and yea. What should I do/say?

2006-10-19 19:31:17 · 16 answers · asked by Hey. 1 in Singles & Dating

Any jokes or techniques that can make her smile again?

2006-10-19 19:29:12 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

You have many ones like/loves you, expect you to love them back ... But you almost never get the ones you like/love to love you ? You are still the very lonely one at the end ... It isn't fair !!!

2006-10-19 19:27:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

What is it like there?

2006-10-19 19:24:45 · 4 answers · asked by twysty 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

its been 4years we r shaing this bond.i really love him very much,u can say he is too practical n i'm too emotional.i do whatever he says,he is short tempered n i'm patient.he too loves me but he says its not necessary to show love but sometimes i feel that he should show.i wanna make him crazy for me n to make him feel the exact i feel for him.each n everytime i think about him,i wanna make him like he was earlier wen our relation started.he loved me very much,plase suggest something that how to attract him wen we talk on phone,or wen we meet how to make him hold my hand in front of our frens.we never go on date also so how to make hm agree for an outing. i also want dat he should love me the same way i do.n pls.dont think dat it is one-sided relation.its a proper affair.please help me.waiting for ur reply eagerly.

2006-10-19 19:24:42 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We just started dating, but he has this cute female friend that he's getting to know too...they spend a lot of time together because I'm really busy. People think he's with her when WE'RE hanging out...he denies things when people make comments, but I'm jealous, how do I stop??? It's driving me nuts, and I can't be myself around him now...

2006-10-19 19:24:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There's a guy I know who always talks to me in Spanish because I think he assumes I'm Hispanic. I don't say anything because I'm not sure if he's saying it to be funny/cool, or if he's saying it because he truly thinks I'm hispanic. For example, he'll say something like "hola senorita" or he'll say "gracias" when I hand him stuff.
I've always had a problem with people thinking I'm of a different race, but do you think this guy is just playing around? And if it is because he's assuming i'm hispanic, which I'm not, isn't that ignorant for someone to assume that you're a certain race?

2006-10-19 19:23:58 · 8 answers · asked by leaves 1 in Friends

Ok, here's the story...I've known this girl for 2 years....I know I have a thing for her...but because of very very very busy school works and other obligations, I can't say I like her right now...If I did, I would not have time for her, and that's just not fair for her - I think. I know that she likes me too....She always treats me very specially among all the friends we share...We have so much things in common, and you can say that we r a perfect couple. However, I dont want to start a relationship right now, ...Should I tell her that ? I'm afraid she will get tired of waiting for me ...I'm also playing hard to catch right now....HELP !

2006-10-19 19:21:24 · 11 answers · asked by pharmwannabe0129 1 in Friends

Who else thinks it is rude, misplaced and vagely sinister that many Christians hand out religous tracts to childeren on Halloween, who may or may not be Christian? You dont see Muslims, Pagans or Jewish people do this....
Let me eleaborate, I have never personally seen pagans, jewish or muslim people do this, and it is an honest question, why beacuse I think it is rude to do this to impressionable childeren, whom's parents dont nessicaily want them to hear what they might believe are lies or false religious ideas. It is not a complaint.

And NO Pagans DO NOT run around trying to "recruit" people to our belief, it is agenst our very tenets.

2006-10-19 19:20:37 · 7 answers · asked by essexsrose 3 in Family

i have both, was jsut curious abou twhat the opposite sex thought

2006-10-19 19:20:28 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am askin about the senior again, and i am a freshman. ok, well, i myself am pretty sure he likes me but i needed more opinions. well, newayz, now i am really sure he does like me. i have already started to give him long hugs, and started flirtin w/ him a lot. how can i let him know more (w/out being "slutty", becuz, that is not the kind of girl i am) that i like him?

2006-10-19 19:18:46 · 7 answers · asked by jelly 2 in Singles & Dating

oka so guys heres my thing.i met this boy who lives close ta me.well we were pretty close for 3 weeks and then he left for school.the thing is he was so nice up until he left for school.he even told me he never felt the way he felt for me.well he goes ta school 2 hours away.i didnt think he would be back for a while.but i was so wrong.he comes back every other weekend.the first two times he came back he was nice but then again as soon as he had ta leave for school he became a dick once again.he told me he hated me n never hated a girl before.but he smiled wen he said it to me...what shuld i think of that..?he told me he didnt like me n the only reason he came up all the time was ta see his mom.the thing is she aint even ever home...so i ask him over text if he liked me and he wouldnt answer.i texted him n told him ta just say yes or no over like 10 times n he replied with chill out..is it that hard to say yes or no?what do u guys think?i think hes just afraid to admit it...HELP PLEASe

2006-10-19 19:18:18 · 7 answers · asked by tina j 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Im 5 months out of a 2 year relationship and ready to move on but...??
Im 5 months out of a 2 year relationship and want to move on but all of the guys at my university seem to be either in relationships or only looking for a quickie...what should i do? I wish I could just find my husband tomorrow and be done with it...any help/ideas would be greatly appreciated....thanks

2006-10-19 19:17:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She gave me mixed signal for long time. When I tried to talk to her she declined rudely. She did not comeback to say sorry, she is not showing any sign that some such thing has happened. BUT still hangs around, stands just behind me in queue, walks in front of me, her friends keep looking at me. What's on in her mind? Or Its my imagination cause I liked her. I want to get out if there is nothing. What do I do to know what's on in her mind (Of couse it is near impossible to know what is in a girl's mind).

2006-10-19 19:14:56 · 6 answers · asked by I_wish 1 in Singles & Dating

So my mom is loosing her home because she can’t pay the bills. But it isn’t because she doesn’t have the money, it’s just because she spends it on other things (compulsive shopper). She has no concept of reality or responsibility what so ever. She is really truly going to be on the street because she doesn’t grasp the reality that she cannot afford to buy another place (lives paycheck to paycheck) and has the worst credit in America. I am sick of trying to bail her out, but she doesn’t get it. Do I let my mom fall?

2006-10-19 19:14:56 · 13 answers · asked by NoTurningBackNow 5 in Family

So I'm dating this hot restaurant manager, he came up to me when I was the 3rd wheel with my girlfriend and her date. I am not a bad looking girl, in fact, not conceited at all, guys come up to me daily. So when the manager came up to me, I was quite skeptical. Nonetheless, I was intrigued. We started seeing each other, and it's been around 12 days. We are already arguing! Anyways, I went thru his texts one night and before he met me, he was texting with a girl. "Jane" texts him: "Not like we will be sleeping much anyways..." And he replies "That's true" But most of you now came to the conclusion, "HELLO HOW STUPID ARE YOU?" But seriously, my gut's feeling is telling me this guy really does like me and the girl was before he met me. I already met his best buddies and his dad! But I just can't over come that..What should I do? I really do like him, but because of my past, I can't trust men. I mentioned this before and he said he really does like me and he wants me to have faith..help..

2006-10-19 19:14:55 · 14 answers · asked by Gina C 1 in Singles & Dating