Im 5 months out of a 2 year relationship and ready to move on but...??
Im 5 months out of a 2 year relationship and want to move on but all of the guys at my university seem to be either in relationships or only looking for a quickie...what should i do? I wish I could just find my husband tomorrow and be done with it...any help/ideas would be greatly appreciated....thanks
2006-10-19 19:17:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im going through that right now, just burry yourself in friends and work. in time you will move on.
2006-10-19 19:27:38 · answer #1 · answered by Christina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reading this troubles me. Sounds like you want to put little into a relationship and just want to be married because its the thing to do and you just want to be done with it.
Marriage is not the end of a relationship, it is a life long commitment. Someone you have to love and support. Someone you may not get to see except once a week because of work schedules but you have to make it work.
Get out there and get a couple quickies and think about what exactly you want in a man.
Make a list of everything you want. Actually write it down.
Hair and eye color, type of job, type of personality etc.. that way when you find Mr. Right you will know.
2006-10-19 19:25:23 · answer #2 · answered by sshazzam 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
5 months out of a relationship....... Anyways the problem is your security and self esteem. You as a woman should be strong about your feelings, yes. But I would consider placing your comfort in your future and not so much as the present. You can meet people anytime but you do have a limited time to manage your own life. Think about what you want and then adjust your preferences to the way you place your goals. (No one said you couldn't have fun in the process.)
Take care
Aloha,
Alex
focus_bkk3@yahoo.com
2006-10-19 19:59:25 · answer #3 · answered by Alexander 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax and become comfortable with yourself. Focus on bettering yourself and improving your self esteem and when the time is right, he'll come into your life (probably when you least expect it and aren't "waiting" for it anymore). Be choosy though. Don't forget all the lessons you've learned in your past relationships. You deserve whatever feels right for you, nothing less, so don't settle for less.
2006-10-19 19:23:21 · answer #4 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop looking. It always seems like they come out when you arn't looking. and don't try to go out there to get married, that turns alot of guys off! Just go out and have fun, if something more happens then be happy with it.
2006-10-19 19:20:44 · answer #5 · answered by Tabitha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give some of the quickies, then whoever sticks around is your guy.
if you university happens to be ncsu then maybe you can give me a try
2006-10-19 19:23:32 · answer #6 · answered by outbaksean 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you are you ready to be locked up again have fun for a moment then see what you want to do don't let a stranger fun your life
2006-10-19 19:23:12 · answer #7 · answered by kalahbess04 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-19 19:20:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Why desperate? Is the age against u?
2006-10-19 19:20:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
stop dating university guys.
2006-10-19 19:21:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋