My dorm unit is a whore house.
SEX in the room on the left
SEX in the room on the right
SEX upstairs! All my dormmates do is screw.I havent said ay thing to anyone, but I don't even know what to say! We have very thin walls @ the dorms and all u hair is the noise, and moans! It's so nasty! One of my dormmates actually charging guys for sex and who knows what else so there is a constant stream of guys going to our unit!
Also, it would be helpful to know, that honestly it hard 2 say, but it brings back painful memories of my deceased boyfriend.It's been a year but Im still grieving and this doesn't make it better.I knwo I cant force my dormmates to stop their lives cuz of this. But what can I do within myself to make it better?
2006-10-19 19:48:17 · 23 answers · asked by Gifted and Gracious 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
GET THIS::
The residental advisor (he is a student) is screwing one of my dorm mates!So I guess I would have to go over his head!
2006-10-19 20:03:32 · update #1
Sounds like all of the sex is reminding you of what you're missing. Not saying you should become a HO like your neighbor!!! Girls are dumb at that age, most of them will regret their loose ways when they get older. Just ask them how they'd feel if it was their own daughter doing those things. Sex with a serious boyfriend is ok, not a brilliant idea but ok if you're safe. Giving out your body as a trampoline for fun is just dumb. Take solace that you're a little wiser. Give your heart adequate time to mend. Everything else will work itself out with time. Good luck.
2006-10-19 19:56:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you want? You still miss your old bf, did have sex with him and miss the sex. Or are grossed out with all the sex that is taking place in the dorm. If it's the latter, then you need to move out to an apartment with a girl who has the same values as you do, and concentration with your school studies.
2006-10-20 02:58:33 · answer #2 · answered by mklwis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the RA isn't shutting this down. You're going to have to go over his head. I'm going to suggest that you DON'T confront anyone. That way, you're not open for retaliation. If you REALLY want this problem solved you've GOT to take matters into your own hands. At the same time, you have GOT watch your six and be as DISCREET as you can. If you visit with officials, try to do it first thing in the morning (less chance of being seen by too many people)
2006-10-20 02:56:06 · answer #3 · answered by Keyser S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you cant beat them than join them. If you are in to that stuff. also.. You can turn the music up .. read a book with head phones on. move your bed closer to the window. Or just tell your school you are tired of everyone having sex all the time and want to switch dorms.
2006-10-20 02:53:20 · answer #4 · answered by Michelle_204 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If we look at the things in right perceptions it will be come clear that though the sex pleases but it is after all a natural process by which a mankind is born and not more than this. The sex organs of both male and female have their own functions. If one sees the sex in this prospective then he will not become sick of it or all the time running after it.
2006-10-20 03:17:35 · answer #5 · answered by Angle 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Report this activity to administration. If you don't and the place is raided by the cops, you're going to jail too 'cause you knew about it and did nothing to stop it. And a raid is probably a certainty at some point, since sex for pay is prostitution, and illegal in your neck of the woods!
2006-10-20 02:53:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Check with your advisor. Possibly they can get you a similar room in a different dorm that will be your answer.
2006-10-20 02:51:41 · answer #7 · answered by waytooeasy67 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from a mans point of view, I understand you grieving over your boyfriend, but there are more men in the world. My advise is to get you a BOB (Battery Operated Boyfriend). I heard it helps with stress.
2006-10-20 02:54:03 · answer #8 · answered by shawn s 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's best if you move out. Find another place which is a bit more strict with things like staying out late and that sort of stuff.
2006-10-20 03:10:58 · answer #9 · answered by Bad bus driving wolf 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would get me another place to stay perhaps a hotel or apartment somewhere else.
Then you can report this to the college officials in charge.
2006-10-20 02:54:40 · answer #10 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋