We just started dating, but he has this cute female friend that he's getting to know too...they spend a lot of time together because I'm really busy. People think he's with her when WE'RE hanging out...he denies things when people make comments, but I'm jealous, how do I stop??? It's driving me nuts, and I can't be myself around him now...
2006-10-19 19:24:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Are you exclusive or just "hanging out"? The problem with that term is that it's very vague, especially with guys. If you're not confirmed as his girlfriend, you have no room to question his friendship with the other girl. If you are his gf, be suspicious but don't bulldozer him with high school jealousy. Good luck.
2006-10-19 19:28:43 · answer #1 · answered by Curly Q Diva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a reason to show interest in you. Instead of whining on the internet try improving some aspect of your life to make yourself more alluring, eg. new clothes, or hair style, etc. Find out as much as you can about his interests and you will have a common ground and he may spend more time with you. Busy as you are, make yourself available as much as possible. All's fair in love and war. First, just make sure you really like him and you're not just upset because the other girl seems to be outscoring you. Don't confuse competition with love.
2006-10-20 02:40:47 · answer #2 · answered by Puppy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him how you feel in a sweetest way,tell him that people are thinking that they're a couple not you.I think he would like to hear what you're thinking.Be honest and open.You won't lose anything.
2006-10-20 02:29:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have a good point there.
everyone else thinks he's dating her.
a gentleman wouldn't treat you like that.
2006-10-20 02:28:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must trust him --- if you cant why stay in the relationship
2006-10-20 02:26:44 · answer #5 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋