oka so guys heres my thing.i met this boy who lives close ta me.well we were pretty close for 3 weeks and then he left for school.the thing is he was so nice up until he left for school.he even told me he never felt the way he felt for me.well he goes ta school 2 hours away.i didnt think he would be back for a while.but i was so wrong.he comes back every other weekend.the first two times he came back he was nice but then again as soon as he had ta leave for school he became a dick once again.he told me he hated me n never hated a girl before.but he smiled wen he said it to me...what shuld i think of that..?he told me he didnt like me n the only reason he came up all the time was ta see his mom.the thing is she aint even ever home...so i ask him over text if he liked me and he wouldnt answer.i texted him n told him ta just say yes or no over like 10 times n he replied with chill out..is it that hard to say yes or no?what do u guys think?i think hes just afraid to admit it...HELP PLEASe
2006-10-19 19:18:18 · 7 answers · asked by tina j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He has told you pretty directly how he feels. I do not think that he is afraid to admit anything to you. He may smile when he says those mean things, but he believes exactly what he is saying, otherwise he wouldn't say it. Maybe he met someone at college. Maybe he has decided you are not who he wants to be with. Who knows? The important thing is that he is telling you that you are not the person he wants to be with, and you need to listen to him!
I know it is hard to accept these things when you really like someone. Trust me, I have tried to get guys to tell me how they feel about me, just like you are doing with this guy. The thing I have learned is that, when a guy really likes you, you don't even need to ask him. He will show you by his actions.
Another thing, stop texting him. Stop asking him how he feels about you. Remember, if he likes you and wants to be with you, you won't need to ask. Texting someone ten times just isn't cool. It seems like you are becoming obessed with this guy. How would you feel if a guy did the same thing to you after you told him that you weren't interested?You'd probably be annoyed and think he was crazy. It certainly wouldn't make you have feelings for him.
You need to start hanging out with your friends and doing other things. Try to meet other people, and get this guy out of your system!
2006-10-19 19:32:24 · answer #1 · answered by Yoshi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is showing patterns of being abusive, and you aren't even in a relationship yet. My advice to you would be to forget about him, or be willing to face an abusive relationship. Verbal abuse leads to physical abuse later on. I've never understood why some women go back to those who abuse them, but please don't become one. No matter how sweet or perfect he seemed at first, the honeymoon phase is over and his true colors are coming out. Run.
2006-10-20 02:22:20 · answer #2 · answered by bradley_lb_19 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say this, if any guys wants you, you should like him chase you dont. A guy gets scare if you chase him. Its man thing. He probably feels that you want too much of him back off and little show him that your not interested and lets see what he does
2006-10-20 02:24:03 · answer #3 · answered by ~Ms. Peaches~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on and act like you don't care, if he actually cares he will act like it otherwise, get you some somewhere else. Guys aren't the only players out there honey, work it.
2006-10-20 02:25:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he have to slice your throat to get it across to you that he is not interested? Find someone else and realize that you are worth more than him.
2006-10-20 02:33:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignor him for awhile and maybe he'll suck up to you.
2006-10-20 02:31:08 · answer #6 · answered by Girlish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont talk to him --- if he is interested he will stay in touch
2006-10-20 02:24:37 · answer #7 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋