How can i calm my angry girlfriend?

Question

Any jokes or techniques that can make her smile again?

Answer 1

Stay calm. Don't scream and yell words you will regret and later wish you had not said. Don't scream and yell words you do mean. Speak softly. "A soft answer turns away wrath." Acknowledge that she is angry. Ask her what is wrong, only if you truly don't know. If you know and she knows that you know, it will make her angrier that you would ask. If you have wronged her, sincerely apologize. Never say, "if I've done anything to hurt you or make you angry, I'm sorry." Always apologize specifically for the cause of the anger. If her anger is unjustifable, leave her alone and consider, is this a pattern of anger, is this what I want for the rest of my life? After all is said and done, kiss and make up.

Answer 2

Hello College boy on assignment,

I'm probably reading more into this, but if she's angry all the time, and it's not your fault, then maybe you should seriously consider dumping her. You really can't control how other people feel. There are people with chips on their shoulders that will never change. Take care of yourself first.

Also, you need to check out the Tom Leykis radio show to learn more about what you should do. You definitely need to learn a little Leykis-101 to get more women in your life. Find out if this show is broadcast in your area. Here's his web site:

http://www.blowmeuptom.com

I hope that this helps you. Good luck and happy hunting.

--Rick

Answer 3

I hate to say this but if your ex told you that you're too jealous and clingy then he must know what he's saying.
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Anyone that goes out clubbing just to see what their ex is doing or drive by his place at 7:00 a.m. to see who's there tell me that you need to work on something. I don't think that you are only jealous but also possessive. And if you don't change that then you will never get your ex back. Please don't get me wrong. I'm not trying to mean to you. I only want you to see what you are doing is so wrong. You have to admit that you are jealous and clingy. If you can't admit that then you'll never be able to fix the problem.

I understand that you don't like it if he dances and flirts in front of you. But guys are guys. And many guys don't see anything wrong with this. I know you feel hurt if he does that in front of your face. And it is disrespectful. But there are ways you can talk to your boyfriend if he's flirting while he's with you. You only have to tell him that it hurts you and that it's disrespectful and then ask him to stop doing it when he’s with you.

I don't know if getting back with your ex is going to last because now you have two problems. You were having problems with him because of his flirting and now you will have another problem because of this girl that he's going out with. It is eating you alive that he's involved with this girl and you know he's probably sleeping with her. How are you going to handle that if you get back together? Because of your jealousy and your insecurities are you going to be able to forget that he was ever involved with this girl? You really need to work on this and make sure if you try to get him back that you never again mention about his flirting or this girl. You can mention one more time how his flirting affects you but it has to stop there.

You asked how do you compete with the girl he's involved with. I looked at the picture and I can tell that your ex knows how to go for beautiful girls. So that give me a clear picture about how you look. I have a feeling that you are also very beautiful but for some reason I don't think you see yourself that way. The only thing I can tell you is that your boyfriend did not leave you because he didn't love you. He left you because of your jealousy and because you were clinging to him. If you love his as much as you say you do then fight for him and get him back. And if you do get him back then make sure that you can promise him that you will no longer be jealous, clingy or insecure about your relationship with him. If you can't promise him that then you may as well forget about him because it won't work if you don't change,

Answer 4

Lavish attention her and make her feel special. Do something romantic, like cook dinner or give her a massage.

I'm not sure if it's you she's angry with or something else but encourage her to open up and talk to you about what is making her angry.

If it is you, don't mock her or start arguing back that will just make her angrier.

Good luck!

Answer 5

Why is she angry in the first place? If it's your fault, start off by apologizing. If it's not, try backing off a bit. Some people don't want to be bothered when they're mad. She might want to be away from you because she doesn't want to take her anger out on you. Talk to her about it and see what's going on.

Answer 6

Jokes no, technique show her some money she will calm down right away just don`t give it to her just show it.

Answer 7

Want to know how to get your ex back? Change yourself. Don't worry about changing other people, worry about changing yourself. Go to https://tr.im/YWAdd

Once you do that then you can start to worry about getting back together with your ex, other wise you will find that you are fighting about all the same things and getting no where. Do what it takes and I promise things will work out in your favor.

The funny thing is I came to the realization that I had to change a little too late. After I was kicked out and after I was about to lose the only things that truly mattered to me - her love. A funny thing happens when we truly love someone and lose them. We do what ever it takes to get them back. For me I had to drop bad habits that had caused not only our relationship to sour but practically every other relationship I had had in the past. Not only with women, but with friends, co-workers, family, you name it.

Which is why I say to you as my ex at the time said to me, the only thing you can do is change yourself. Work on yourself and improve on the person that you already are. Drop the negative things in your life that don't belong there and you will see all of your relationships start to take off to new heights.

Answer 8

Try no to P#$"off next time, so you won't have to !!!!!
why is she angry though? If she's mad because you forgot her birthday then I could suggest how you can make it up to her....if she's angry because you did something BAD then that's a different story....

Answer 9

I don't know why she's angry..but in some instances the best thing to do is just give her some space and time alone.

Answer 10

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