Ok, here's the story...I've known this girl for 2 years....I know I have a thing for her...but because of very very very busy school works and other obligations, I can't say I like her right now...If I did, I would not have time for her, and that's just not fair for her - I think. I know that she likes me too....She always treats me very specially among all the friends we share...We have so much things in common, and you can say that we r a perfect couple. However, I dont want to start a relationship right now, ...Should I tell her that ? I'm afraid she will get tired of waiting for me ...I'm also playing hard to catch right now....HELP !
2006-10-19 19:21:24 · 11 answers · asked by pharmwannabe0129 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You know, it's really nice to have an admirer like you. You feel special when you know that there is someone out there who has feelings for you. It's hard I know to be with someone because of a busy schedule as you say you have.
If I were you, I'd just tell her straight - I think you do like her and you have respect for her. Don't play hard to catch because in the end you may lose her to someone else. First of all, did she tell you she likes you? And if she did, did you also tell her the same? If no, you should tell her what you feel but only if she already told you how you feel. Tell her you like her but right now you can't be in a relationship. Have you considered just dating without being in a relationship? Dating is a good idea - you may have time to date and not be in a committed relationship right now.
I think if she likes you as much as I think she does according to what you've said, she may end up understanding your situation and you two could probably see each other casually. You never know so don't mess up and miss this great opportunity!
Good luck!
2006-10-19 19:27:42 · answer #1 · answered by Asia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Friend,I think you should tell her that you like her and you have a busy schedule so you're afraid that you won't have that much time for her.That's why you won't start a relationship with her right now.I think that would flatter her and she would very much like it and wait for you to ask her out when ever you get the chance.But if you don't tell her,as you said,she could get tired of waiting.So,talk to her :-)
Best of luck :-)
2006-10-20 02:26:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the truth explain the whole situation to her because if not you'll lose her. By playing hard to get you're being a jerk and people runaway form that so i suggest you stop doing that and just be honest with her...
2006-10-20 02:27:17 · answer #3 · answered by sadgreeneyes3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not keep this from her. It's only going to turn out bad. Even if she has feelings for you, she's not going to wait forever. Tell her you have feelings for her but that you don't have time to give her the attention she needs. Make sure you make it about her and not just you.
2006-10-20 02:30:26 · answer #4 · answered by Curly Q Diva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well try to make room 4 her! and tell her how u feel!! if she treats you special then she must like u! go 4 it make some room 4 her work things out!
hope it works out ok!!!
2006-10-20 02:27:02 · answer #5 · answered by DaysiJane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you guys are the perfect couple, then why wouldn't you just want to try? If she really likes you, she would understand that you are busy and its not that you are trying to avoid the relationship.
2006-10-20 02:25:09 · answer #6 · answered by Girlish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah try to get some more time free and ask her out, don`t let her get away. If you do you don`t really want her.
2006-10-20 02:27:27 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what are you doing tell her if she finds some one else you will be mad and hard to get hard lol
2006-10-20 02:26:11 · answer #8 · answered by kalahbess04 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go and telll her dat u like her so much orelse someone else will do dat
2006-10-20 02:39:45 · answer #9 · answered by Mrs.Edward cullen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should tell her
2006-10-20 02:52:59 · answer #10 · answered by ashlea 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋