I want to ask out this girl Im really, really into. We have become pretty close friends and she keeps telling me things about how shes sad that she cant seem to keep a boyfriend, so Im thinking about going after her myself.
Just a little info - she is gorgeous, but shes pretty flirty and I think it turns guys away from her. Im not very good looking, and Ive never, ever had a gf. So Ive never kissed anyone, made out, anything. And Im 18. I know, lame =(
Basically what is holding me back is kissing. She is pretty forward with kissing, I know a lot of the guys she previously dated. She has had quite a few casual boyfriends so I know she is a good kisser. I dont want to be lame, especially because we al have the same friends.
What techniques can I use? She once mentioned to me how she hated a guy who just started off with their toungue. I didnt even know you could kiss for periods of time without it. How do you kiss someone when you arent useing your tongue? Jus tlips pressed together?
2006-10-19 19:40:34 · 9 answers · asked by Uh Oh 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
your age is not quite suitable for marrying, but you still could try it out, lend her your shoulder only when her boyfriend is not around, when she had fallen off with her boyfriend, parents or someone close to her. When she talk to you about her grudges, listen to them and give her solutions how to solve them.
2006-10-19 19:45:57 · answer #1 · answered by Shin-ii 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell her that all the women you have been with would never allow kissing (ala brothel) but don't explain. Ask her if she would be willing to teach you some techniques and that you would love to learn the Art of kissing without having to read Ovid in the original Latin. If you are sincere, and funny, you may get more than just a buscatorial lesson. If you can make them laugh, respectfully, you win. Women can be such suckers for humor.
2006-10-20 03:02:45 · answer #2 · answered by Puppy 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i love kissin and am very very good at...to me kissing aint about using the tongue..i hardly ever do..lips are key trust me..to make it more comfortable act like u DO kno what ur doing..take the lead...kiss her with a few light pecks...maybe 3 and then hold the forth one...remember u can open ur mouth in a kiss without using ur tongue...focuz on her bottom lip..instead of kissing both her lips with both ur lips at the same time like ur in 4th grade only kiss her bottom lip between ur two lips..french kissing comes natural trus me..my first time i was so so nervous but once it begins its pretty much a lock to kno what ur doing...just go with it...if u mess up(which u wont)laugh it off...tell her that shes just so pretty and then go at it again...hope that could help
2006-10-20 02:52:11 · answer #3 · answered by tina j 1 · 7⤊ 0⤋
Well besides for just jamming your tongue down her throat. You can gently trace the outline of her lips with your tongue or gently nibble on her lips or incorporate both.. All i can really tell you is practice makes perfect.
2006-10-20 02:47:46 · answer #4 · answered by . 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Practice. While all my friends were out playing baseball, football, I was in my room with my girlfriend practicing. If you need someone to practice with go down to you local city hall to the department of sex and intercourse. They should be able to help you.
2006-10-20 02:50:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Thumbs up from me check this website out it might help you.
http://teenadvice.about.com/od/kissing/
2006-10-20 02:48:01 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um...That's not really something that can be explained easily through words...Don't worry to much, she'll probably take the lead.
2006-10-20 02:45:54 · answer #7 · answered by Devon M 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
practice!!
2006-10-20 02:43:18 · answer #8 · answered by Deavious999 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh, my young padawan... :)
2006-10-20 02:42:24 · answer #9 · answered by uabsupercow 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋