I have not spoken to my former best friend in months, but, I still feel like we're best friends. And, we've been arguing and pissing each other off for the last 3 years of our lives. Should I still bother on trying to fix this bented friendship, because I still want to be best friends with him.
2006-10-19 20:23:08 · 7 answers · asked by Daniel R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
if your really friends then its worth saving but remember that people change and drift apart
2006-10-19 20:24:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya u shud if u still care for him
see try talkin first
if he still pisses off u then drop the idea
afterall he hurt u for all these years didn't he?
see friendship is everything i think and by that u shud frank an honest to it and not trying to hide ur emotions and be urslf if u don't want to piss on him don't
try approaching things in a freindly way like if he yells don't yell back but try saying things like "ur throat will get bad so u won't be able to talk"
be friendly and things will arrange
i have some friends and they just don't agree i don't have guarantee that it will work but try!!
best of luck!!
2006-10-19 20:50:30 · answer #2 · answered by Gamesr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a horrible way to go through life living with such anger.
That long term anger will destroy you.
If you can't get back together then move opn
It just might be time to grow up and put it in the past.
2006-10-19 20:28:06 · answer #3 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to hear tat dude but it may be time for u to move on, to be gd friends, 2 parties must be sincere, i can see tat u r trying very hard to fix the problem but u r not the problem here, by making urself depress will definitely not help at all. if ur friend do see u as his best friend, he will return no matter wat. so right nw just stay cool and focus on ppl who really want to be ur friend..
2006-10-19 22:02:25 · answer #4 · answered by a_o 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It appears important to you, or you would not be asking for feedback. Keep talking, be honest (toughest for some people) but try to talk and keep the friendship.
Life deals us enough loss without us adding more with cutoffs.
And it is important to you.
2006-10-19 20:26:39 · answer #5 · answered by Lily K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FORGIVE, and then let it go, it may take some time, but by example and kindness, and not stooping to his level all will be as it should.
I AM
2006-10-19 20:30:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is Ur choice so hear Ur heart.
2006-10-19 20:26:03 · answer #7 · answered by hm_pearl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋