Im 5 months out of a 2 year relationship and want to move on but all of the guys at my university seem to be either in relationships or only looking for a quickie...what should i do? I wish I could just find my husband tomorrow and be done with it...any help/ideas would be greatly appreciated....thanks
2006-10-19 19:14:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
It's quite possible that the guy you're seeking is not at your university. So many people told me - if you don't get married before you graduate college - chances are you won't at all - but that is ridiculous because it takes guys much longer to mature than it does women. I didn't get married until age 30 and I'm okay with that - now. But WOW - the waiting was dificult and painful at times while in my 20s and chances are you won't have to wait that long! My point is that you're better off being careful not to give yourself away to every playboy guy out there because when Mr. Right does come along - wouldn't you want to be the right person he would respect, cherish and value as someone extra special? You don't want him to see you going around with these loser guys - thinking that you're just like them right? Don't miss Mr. Right by appearing to be Miss. Wrong - and remember - you really should be spending your time becoming that Miss Right to attract the kind of guy you really want to marry. Work on building character, personal relationship skills through your friendships, and maturity so that when that guy does come along - he won't be able to over overlook you or take his eyes off you!
2006-10-19 19:22:23 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not look for a husband look for a friend, if all they are interested in is a quickie let them be, may be you should just be a little patient I know you are ready to move on but do not jump in to quick, go out enjoy your self the right person will come an long but remember friends first.
2006-10-19 19:18:23 · answer #2 · answered by blackwidow2408 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should relax. Your timing sounds good - you should be ready. But, the worst way to find a relationship is to look for a relationship. You should concentrate on meeting new people, and having fun. Being a fun person who does things with many different people will expose you to all kinds of people you might not have met otherwise. Let your next relationship find you - its not something you should be out shopping for.
2006-10-19 19:25:37 · answer #3 · answered by jj m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well from the sounds of it your not that old...so I would probably go with the take some time to find the right person tactic. Go out have some fun and well if you feel that you found a good one go ahead and hook up but just keep in mind that you don't have to rush to get married as when you do get married early in life you just might wish that you had some more time to do things with friends.
2006-10-19 19:20:17 · answer #4 · answered by Bryan D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...its always wrong to go in a relationship to get over the last one, that is only a recipe for disaster...u can move on without having a man in your life, and when u do find someone you wont really have issues, you wont really be looking for another man to salve your battered feelings!
2006-10-19 19:17:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Chill out, dont stress!! the more you worry about it the more likely it is that you're miss that one guy. Just hang out..enjoy being young and selfish.... because seriously...befor you know it, you'll be married with a baby on the way and you'll be greatful that you took the time out to just have fun for a while!
2006-10-19 21:05:41 · answer #6 · answered by ApRiL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pay attention to your school work. The husband thing will take care of itself when the time is right. Your future husband might not even be attending the same university. You don't even have to be actively looking for him. When he crosses your path, you'll both know it, and you'll have saved yourselves the trouble of all that searching.
2006-10-19 19:23:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go in dating websites!! theres a lot of serius men looking for someone to marry,!!
2006-10-19 19:17:06 · answer #8 · answered by Sexy_obssess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm..sure you can do that...
2006-10-19 19:16:03 · answer #9 · answered by jono 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋