Family & Relationships - 19 October 2006

I started talkn 2 this guy . We were goin out 4 a couple weeks n then he asked me 2 be his g/f. I told him we just started talkn n I wasnt tryn 2 rush n2 anything. We keep hangn out n things went 2 another level. I decided that I would be his g/f. I told him I was ready 2 ans. his ques. he says U made me wait, now U have 2 wait. When he said that I thought somethin wasnt right b/c he was 2 anxious at 1st. Since we bgan talkn we would spend Sun. 2gether. 1 sun. we didnt. So Mon. he calls n asks if he could get some. So I laughed. He said is that a yes or no. I said I was thinkn. He said well call me when u finish thinkn. I called 3 hrs. later, he didnt ans. I told him (v-mail) what I wasnt goin 2 be n what I wasnt goin 2 put up with He calls later like yeah I'm only doin U but I'm talkn 2 some1else blah blah blah He also tells me Im crzy and control'n n he just wants 2 be friends Problem:I still like him im none of those things just tryn 2 protect me didnt want another brokenheart

2006-10-19 18:04:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-19 18:03:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Our divorce is almost final. We where together for seven years, and seperated for almost three.(not legally seperated) She may possibly be pregnant from the guy she left me for.

What a friend of a friend told me this evening is that I could have to pay her child support for this baby, even though it is not mine.

My question is, can this be true?

It would be Colorado state law's that I would be governed by.

2006-10-19 18:03:11 · 12 answers · asked by APACHE 7 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Based on questions and answers I have read from other women, I know I am not alone in feeling like its insulting. If a woman gives you great sex, and loves you, and doenst deprive you or regect your needs, why do many men still engage in watching porn and/or "self-pleasuring"? Do you know that it hurts most women and makes us feel inadequate? Personally, I have learned to cope with it, by watching movies WITH my husband, etc. But if your wife/girlfriend is getting her feelings hurt by it, why do you still do it? I can understand if your woman is cutting you off sexually, or whatever, but if shes willing, why would you choose your hand over her?

2006-10-19 18:00:27 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I thought this guy was anti-social when I first met him, honestly. Though it turned out he was just plain old shy. I'm not going to to go into details about how we interact with each other, because I want to hear from you shy guys on how you usually behave when you like a girl. I have my reasons for thinking he likes me.

Problem is, also, do you think he'd ever admit it if he did? He's an odd case. He's extremely good looking, but he also doesn't seem to get out much, other than for work. I sign on in the afternoon to aim, sign out and come back home near midnight and he's been on all day! He's completely normal in person, but it just seems like he is so shy that he avoids real human contact. Do you think that it is possible for him to be brave enough to tell me his feelings, assuming he has any at all for me? What could I do to make him feel more comfortable to do that? I'm shy as well. I'm afraid to say how I feel, because I'm afraid I've interpreted his feelings wrong.

2006-10-19 18:00:23 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if a girl is happy in her new relationship . . would she still be calling her ex that she dumped for this new guy every couple weeks? . . .even though he hasnt answered or sent her something back in 4 months? and she still tries to contact him . . also . . can girls act completely happy on the outside and really be torn up on the inside? is there any way to tell if a girl is feeling like that? . . and if she wanted her ex back why would she still be with me and acting fine? why wouldnt she go back to him? maybe because she dumped him and doesnt know if he will take her back? they did go out for 2 1/2 years so i dunno . .. whats goin on?
and she hasnt told me that shes been calling him . . . and we have been dating since april and have been in an actual relationship for like 2 months . . . how long would she use me as a rebound if thats what i am? wouldnt it be over by now?

2006-10-19 17:58:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-19 17:58:24 · 15 answers · asked by slick_d 1 in Singles & Dating

Well we've had 2 good conversations that went on. She held a smile both times throughout both conversations. Our last one however I was talking to her askin her where she was headed. She was holdin a smile, and answered.

I then asked her if she had a locker partner. I guess I figured it'd be a good way to probably get a chance to see her everyday. She had one unfortunately. So I was like, "Ah that sucks I need a new partner bad, there are like 4 different people in and out of mine and I've lost 2 books already"

Only thing about this convo that seemed to have gone wrong was the fact we didn't say goodbye and kinda drifted apart on that one. I kinda feel I'm losing her in a sense.

Should I ignore her for a bit? Then start approaching her again? What's my best bet? Where do I stand...

And I just found out she knows my sister. My sister came up to me today and was like, hey you liek Crystal don't you... I was like... How did you know?

2006-10-19 17:58:16 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-19 17:58:09 · 9 answers · asked by noils 3 in Family

If you are gay, sorry.
cos you are on a one-way flight to hell. Because the Bible says that the Lord killeth and the wages of sin is death. God didnt create you that way.
And anyone whose name was not found written in the Lamb's book of life was cast into the lake of fire.
doesnt being gay remove you from the Lamb's book? Romans 1:26.
you can change! stop living in delusion.
God bless you.

2006-10-19 17:57:47 · 2 answers · asked by D *)sukky 3 in Family

alright, so there is this girl who i kinda "dated" when we were so young, me like 16, her 14. I'm 21 now, we've been friends ever since, and she just broke up with her boyfriend of 3 yrs. She's been flirty with me lately, but i can see theres a lot of competetion for her also. What should i do to show I'm better than these guys!? help me ladies! Also, it makes me so jealous when i see other guys flirting with her, and i think she sees it(i know its bad, but i don't want to lose her again! -she's so perfect )

2006-10-19 17:56:57 · 10 answers · asked by Billy Boy 2 in Singles & Dating

well my mother hurt my feeling every time i go to her house but then the next day she want me to come back i just cannot take it no more she put me down all the time and tell me she hate me when her sugar is high i don;t think she knows what she is doing would you stay away are keep getting your feeling hurt

2006-10-19 17:55:07 · 27 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My little sis (17) wanna kno if a guy gives u his myspace e-mail n password, then she goes to check his mail (he wants her to) and when she sees him flirting with other girls (in and out of state) like he ask one girl, "What are you doing?" and the girl says, "Nothing much. what's up wit u?" and the dude says, "You" is that cheating?

I tried to tell her that guys will always flirt, but she dont believe me. HELP!

2006-10-19 17:54:27 · 19 answers · asked by Sexy n Spoiled ^^ 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-19 17:53:55 · 8 answers · asked by me 2 in Friends

He talks to girls on the phone in my face and then walks out the room like he's hiding something.We are not a couple but we agreed on not seeing anyone else.He says he doesn't want a girlfriend because it's harrasment,but to me i already am i just don't have the title to back it up.I believe in comunication and he believes that when i communicate i nag him(almost all men think that).all i want is a little respect and grattitude.i gave him his children and treats me like an ordinary girl.I think i should be special in his eyes.i love him so much and fear being alone .I'm confused and stressed and i don't know what to do.Any suggestion?

2006-10-19 17:53:50 · 6 answers · asked by LaToya T 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My Fiancee and I are getting married and we have a family that we are really good friends with. they are almost like family to us. We are having their daughter(5) as a flower girl and 2 boys (10&18) as groomsmen. The couple is about 20 years older than us. Could we have them as our bridesmaid and groomsmen too or would that be too weird. They are like family to us. How can we honor them in our wedding in a big way?

2006-10-19 17:53:42 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

he does saying he likes me what do you think?????

2006-10-19 17:53:37 · 7 answers · asked by lilly 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

drinking and smoking from my mom, i no about ti and my brother duz to, it hurts me, tonite i asked him again to plz stop smoking, and drink less, i started crying telling him to stop and taht i want him to be there for my life, im 15, hes 50. i luv my dad so much. he said he would do his best to stop and that he luvs me, i told him if he luvs me then he should stop, and if he duznt, i will throw awaythe cigs. and stuff like taht. i havent asked him to stop for a long time. do you think he will stop? give me advise, any.

2006-10-19 17:53:18 · 3 answers · asked by Tessa 2 in Family

He is in Alabama and I am in Florida, we are friends from about a year ago and he popped in for the weekend and now we are hooked on each other, but the distance is hard to handle. I need ideas to keep it fresh and keep it interesting. He will be moving down here in the middle of next year.

2006-10-19 17:53:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

little mama here just to say goodby to all the good hearted soles on this page.. thank-you all for the warm wishes and advise i came to you with horrid situations that your advice had really saved me...a crystal-meth hubby whom was caught not only with a 1 wh.lb. also grand theft auto,..i am going back home with twin girls in my tummy..7 months along to start a new life perhaps i'll be able to figure out to get back the account that i have i dunno... if not may god be with each and every one of you..1st stop is leaving union city calif. to go to marin county calif/to finish legal issues then its off to fall river mass. to be with my family...remember to be good to one anouther...after all that is all some of you ever will have...profound peace guys.. i gatta go the tears are blurring my view... luv all
little mama...a.k.a christianna nardelli

2006-10-19 17:53:14 · 3 answers · asked by lil mama 2 in Friends

2006-10-19 17:52:36 · 14 answers · asked by estranghr00 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-19 17:51:03 · 16 answers · asked by ssuasw 3 in Singles & Dating

I have a very controlling and abusive boyfriend, we've been together for over a year and I'm starting to fear him. I love him, but lately, I started talking to a new guy, I can tell he likes me and I wouldn't mind starting up a relationship with him, but my boyfriend has told me (more than once) that if I leave he'll track me down, beat me, and kill whoever I was with. I don't know what I should do, leave him or be afraid?

2006-10-19 17:50:17 · 41 answers · asked by Kate M 2 in Singles & Dating

and comes alone, does she like you or is she just being a nice friend?

2006-10-19 17:50:03 · 2 answers · asked by GiveHelp123 2 in Singles & Dating

I swear I am not conceited, in fact I think I have the opposite problem, but the question I am about to ask, one might think I have a big head. I never ask guys for their numbers,I work as a bartender, so I get numbers every night. I do attract good looking guys, so now here is the problem-I met a hot manager of a restaurant ,he came up to me and we had an awesome chat,he then asked for my number.I gave it to him and he called "3 days later". We go out, have an AWESOME time, I met his best buddies and their gf on the second day and later on the week I met his dad. However, I LOVE spending time with him, whereas he never has time for me (he's in the restaurant business, 16 hrs a day, 6 days a week) He told me he really likes me and that I just have to have faith in him. Yeah, it's been less than 2 weeks and we have slept together already. I just came out of a 8 years relationship and I seriously don't know how to "date".I do really like this guy, but he already has called me clingy!Help

2006-10-19 17:49:50 · 5 answers · asked by Gina C 1 in Singles & Dating

Well I have been noticing that some women that I have meet don't appreciate a gentalmen...they have told me I make them feel inferior by opening there door and helping them with heavy objects..I do it out of kindness...Are there women that still appreciate this ????

2006-10-19 17:46:31 · 40 answers · asked by Yes_its_me 1 in Singles & Dating

when I try to squeeze into a size 13, but my foot is way too short for a 14...Are there any options for shopping for an odd-sized foot? I've been wearin the same shoes for years and it's just not attractive anymore.

2006-10-19 17:45:49 · 15 answers · asked by Ford F 2 in Singles & Dating

are you still IN LOVE, and why?

2006-10-19 17:45:00 · 9 answers · asked by *SexXyLuV* 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-19 17:44:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my question from before do they have adultry in florida reson i ask edthe question is she took my daughter to another state and i havent seen my daughter in three months.

2006-10-19 17:42:50 · 6 answers · asked by Paul G 1 in Marriage & Divorce