My little sis (17) wanna kno if a guy gives u his myspace e-mail n password, then she goes to check his mail (he wants her to) and when she sees him flirting with other girls (in and out of state) like he ask one girl, "What are you doing?" and the girl says, "Nothing much. what's up wit u?" and the dude says, "You" is that cheating?
I tried to tell her that guys will always flirt, but she dont believe me. HELP!
2006-10-19 17:54:27 · 19 answers · asked by Sexy n Spoiled ^^ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and another thing is, that he tells her that he loves her everytime they talk. C'mon people. Help me talk this cluless girl sum damn sense here. PLZ!
2006-10-19 19:19:38 · update #1
Ur kid sister is really a kid but what I don't underatdn is you.If the guy had been cheating,he would have never given your sis his passwords.If he has done that,it's proof enough that he is not cheating.And if ur sis is so concerend about this what r u doing scenario,tell her to ask her bf what is this all about.And trust me 9 out of 10 times the answere would be Hey that's nuthing she's just a girl I met on the net" and nothing more.The rest one would be someone he has been in touch with for a long time and they are just friends.So in short chillax and don't whine like a baby everytime u realize that u don't get 100% attention
2006-10-19 18:11:52 · answer #1 · answered by chooseme_only 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what he is prolly a moron and just tell her that if she suspects anything than to get rid of him. I know how myspace can come close to ruiening relationships i hate it. my girlfriend of 3 years had a singal status up till like about 2 weeks ago and it bugged the living sh*t out of me. now her friends are askin her why it says in a relationship and how she used to have a tag that said " i dont want a boy" and im all jelous even tho i have nothing to worry about. so it seems like myspace is just a killer of al that is good. so if she is worried then ust have her leave him she is better off without a myspace guy or myspace in general. hope i helped
2006-10-20 00:58:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No he isn't cheating, myspace.com is not such as Credit Card number and account number. Most young men like to get know women especially high school and college/university students. A woman as a friend it is better way to meet another women in school.
2006-10-20 01:11:20 · answer #3 · answered by Herry S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheaters leave clues, now if he is open with her and lets her see what he is doing he might be testing her to see how far his boundries are, dont have her call him on it, but dont advise her to stop looking into it further, have her watch his activity and note if he acts apon any advances he gets. If there is somthing going on he will get hostile and close lines of comunication with your sis. If that happens then their is a chance he is cheating.
2006-10-20 01:01:13 · answer #4 · answered by Tim T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because he is online in a chat or discussion or any type of written communication doesnt necessarily mean he is cheating, but it's lack of respect for your sister that her boyfriend is talking in that form. He needs to grow up and she needs to give him his privacy also. Really if this was me I wouldnt care being he is just a boyfriend if he was a live in or husband then I would be concerned.
2006-10-20 01:45:41 · answer #5 · answered by TaZ cagefighter 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys flirt because it's in their nature, but it sounds like he is trying to hit on this girl. Just because he gave her his password and stuff don't mean he isn't cheating.
2006-10-20 01:05:03 · answer #6 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just depends on how far he carries it.. If he carries it to the extent that he has arranged meeting places or something on that order then he is cheating... But on the other hand she can do the same thing.. Its a 2 way street
2006-10-20 01:04:16 · answer #7 · answered by cockednlocked38 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well talking to other people is not cheating but talking only to girls makes it seem pretty bad. I doesn't sound like he is cheating if he willing gave up his password and let her see his conversations.
2006-10-20 01:00:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes all guys will flirt it is in their nature. It is also true that women flirt to. It is what we do. As long as it is not done in front of your partner I don't see what the wrong is. The one thing to remember when flirting is respect of your significant other.
2006-10-20 01:01:45 · answer #9 · answered by ltonyasfun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is flirting and he sees nothing wrong with it --- why he does not try to hide it
even flirting could be considered cheating because you are devoting time to someone else that you could be spending with you loved one
best thing i think is to let him know how you feel and find out how he feels
2006-10-20 01:01:53 · answer #10 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋