I started talkn 2 this guy . We were goin out 4 a couple weeks n then he asked me 2 be his g/f. I told him we just started talkn n I wasnt tryn 2 rush n2 anything. We keep hangn out n things went 2 another level. I decided that I would be his g/f. I told him I was ready 2 ans. his ques. he says U made me wait, now U have 2 wait. When he said that I thought somethin wasnt right b/c he was 2 anxious at 1st. Since we bgan talkn we would spend Sun. 2gether. 1 sun. we didnt. So Mon. he calls n asks if he could get some. So I laughed. He said is that a yes or no. I said I was thinkn. He said well call me when u finish thinkn. I called 3 hrs. later, he didnt ans. I told him (v-mail) what I wasnt goin 2 be n what I wasnt goin 2 put up with He calls later like yeah I'm only doin U but I'm talkn 2 some1else blah blah blah He also tells me Im crzy and control'n n he just wants 2 be friends Problem:I still like him im none of those things just tryn 2 protect me didnt want another brokenheart
2006-10-19 18:04:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
TO CATCAN.. WHATEVER
I have proper morphology . I was just trying to compress my question so I could get every technicality and a good answer. If you weren't going to answer with anything constructive then you shouldn't have answered at all. TO EVERYONE ELSE THANK YOU!
2006-10-19 18:31:34 · update #1
Well honestly it sounds like he asked to be your man because he thought that was the only way to get in your pants. You said lets take it slow, but you gave him some so he realized he doesn't have to be with you to get some. So now that you want to be with him, he doesn't want to be with you on that level because he didn't need to to get what he wanted. Now you are assed out because as you can see he is really full of sh*t and was playing games. I understand you still like him and don't want to see that this guy is a jerk. Don't you see...when you told him you weren't going to just be his sex buddy, he pretty much dissed you and guess what else he did in the process? He has you thinking all this is your fault and I'm sure he has you liking him so much now that you are thinking being his sex buddy might not be so bad if it would mean you two could still hang out...Don't fall for it! Reverse psychology.
2006-10-19 18:13:56 · answer #1 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This dude sounds like a worm.
Like him all you want, but let that low down punk play some other gal. He's immature if he's punishing you ("now you can wait") for doing what your conscience tells you. Gosh! You're hesitant, then when you start to open up he does that! What a sack of shitake mushrooms. Hold out for the guy who is interested in your happiness or you'll be too distracted to recognize him when he crosses your path. Adhere to your standards and timing, you're worthy of whatever you desire to bring into your life, make it good for yourself.
Didn't answer when you called back (to offer your intimates, yet). Major punk. Big 3 year old. Ptooey.
2006-10-19 18:14:43 · answer #2 · answered by Zeera 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In my humble opinion, he sounds as if he is playing games with you. He wanted what he wanted....when he wanted. IThe behavior sounds a bit selfish and childish. And if you ask the question on here, then I feel you alread know on some level that he just isn't the right guy for you.
Not to mention, someone who wants to be your b/f after 2 weeks of knowing you........that's suspect. Find someone who:
1. Is a little more stable.
2. Answers your calls
3. Respects you.
2006-10-19 18:14:57 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is this a trick question? It is 2 hard 2 answer without more info.
2006-10-19 18:23:09 · answer #4 · answered by Puppy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You already know the answer to this sweetheart, you just dont want to admit to it cause you like this guy. Leave his a$$! Trust me.
2006-10-19 18:09:23 · answer #5 · answered by ctrfrink 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
well young lady keep protecting yourself..sounds like he just wants in your pants.. another notch on the old bed post..tell him to get lost..
2006-10-19 18:14:26 · answer #6 · answered by bullfrog112491 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
KEEP TRYING TO LOOK OUT FOR YOU. HE WILL WAIT TILL YOU WANT TO SEE HIM. TELL HIM WHEN TO COME OVER AND HE NEEDS TO CALL BEFORE JUST SHOWING UP. GIRL YOU HAVE THE POWER. USE IT LIKE YOU WANT TO. MEN WILL DO WHAT YOU LET THEM DO. TELL HIM NOT TO TALK TO ANY OTHER GIRL BUT YOU, HE WANTED A GIRLFRIEND SO BE WHAT HE WANTS. JUST DO IT YOUR WAY............................
2006-10-19 18:12:52 · answer #7 · answered by chayrrah 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YOU NEED TO LEAVE HIM ALONG HE PLAYING GAMES.
AND THAT NOT GOOD. IT SOUND LIKE HE WANT YOU
TO JUMP WHEN HE SAID JUMP. AND THE FACT THAT
YOU DID NOT HE UPSET.. MOVE ON TO SOMEONE THAT
WILL APPRECIATE YOU AND THE NOT GAMES.
2006-10-19 18:12:12 · answer #8 · answered by luckystar 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he has cooled off and is not interested anymore because you did not run to his beck and call
you are better off without him
2006-10-19 18:08:13 · answer #9 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
leave him because he is tring to play you i have been there so leave not before you get in to deep
2006-10-19 18:09:13 · answer #10 · answered by GINA D 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋