alright, so there is this girl who i kinda "dated" when we were so young, me like 16, her 14. I'm 21 now, we've been friends ever since, and she just broke up with her boyfriend of 3 yrs. She's been flirty with me lately, but i can see theres a lot of competetion for her also. What should i do to show I'm better than these guys!? help me ladies! Also, it makes me so jealous when i see other guys flirting with her, and i think she sees it(i know its bad, but i don't want to lose her again! -she's so perfect )
2006-10-19 17:56:57 · 10 answers · asked by Billy Boy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask her out on a date. And act like a total gentleman in front of her and respect her. Woman don't like to be disrespected by a man. She will definitely know you are different then those other guys! Show her she is special to you! Good luck!
2006-10-19 18:02:37 · answer #1 · answered by Humming Bird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well don't jump at her i no you like her but she is on a rebound, if you move to fast you could loose her anyway, just be as you have been, be a friend, but let her no that ur interested but will wait for her till she is over this guy, if she jumps at the chance to be with you let her take the lead, always show your interested, but don't push, it's a delicate time for a girl post break ups, the best thing to do as you no her so well already is not to be selfish, and start a relationship when u no she is over it, tell her how you feel in the mean time tho. . .
2006-10-20 01:08:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get off your *** and tell her everything she's ever wanted to hear. You have the advantage of being friends with her so you sorta have an upper hand over other dudes. I wouldn't let the flirting get to though, there's a reason she has not gone for any of them, just let yourself become a rebound because then you could loose your friend too. And that would suck worse.
2006-10-20 01:02:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her!!!!!!!!! If you care about her make sure she realizes it before its too late. Just take her somewhere that is quiet and you can talk without getting enterrupted. Be like we've known eachother for a while and maybe it didn't work out right then, but we've matured since then and I know we can work it out. Just give me another chance. Be straightforward about it. Don't hold back. Let her know how you really feel about her, because its always nice to know that some one cares about you.
2006-10-20 01:02:24 · answer #4 · answered by Sissy Lauren 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out on a date. Make sure she knows that you are asking her because you have romantic intentions towards her. That will certainly get her attention.
Just be sure and ask before someone else does. You already have a huge advantage because its you she is being flirty with and because of your past relationship.
good luck.
2006-10-20 01:02:29 · answer #5 · answered by Akfek_Branford 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should be careful of her wanting you just as a rebound guy. but if you are willing to take this risk you should invite her out and do something romantic (dinner, picnic etc) and tell her how you feel about her, let her know though that if she doesn't feel the same way you are more than happy to go back to being just friends.
2006-10-20 00:59:41 · answer #6 · answered by Knowitall 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all focus on the girl forget your competition aim at the girl show her who you are put you're self on the line and be kind to her also try to picture you're self with her if you are still playing the game push and pull be sure what to do next allot of what happens
will tell you what to do next so pay attention don't give up and believe on you're self trust you're instincts and be very patient!!!!
good luck boy!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-20 01:11:18 · answer #7 · answered by ALEX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no one's perfect. becareful what u get urself back into.
2006-10-20 01:00:06 · answer #8 · answered by i love rain92790 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go for it
2006-10-20 01:01:46 · answer #9 · answered by mary 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, i have the same effin problem
2006-10-22 03:31:34 · answer #10 · answered by Pie Man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋