He talks to girls on the phone in my face and then walks out the room like he's hiding something.We are not a couple but we agreed on not seeing anyone else.He says he doesn't want a girlfriend because it's harrasment,but to me i already am i just don't have the title to back it up.I believe in comunication and he believes that when i communicate i nag him(almost all men think that).all i want is a little respect and grattitude.i gave him his children and treats me like an ordinary girl.I think i should be special in his eyes.i love him so much and fear being alone .I'm confused and stressed and i don't know what to do.Any suggestion?
2006-10-19 17:53:50 · 6 answers · asked by LaToya T 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
FIND A MAN TO CARE FOR YOU. LET HIM BE THERE FOR THE KIDS BUT YOU DESERVE RESPECT FOR BEING THE MOTHER OF HIS KIDS. HE DOESN'T FEEL THE NEED TO LOVE YOU , YOU NEED TO LOVE YOURSELF. YOU ARE SETTING YOURSELF UP FOR A LOAD OF HEARTACHE. YOU NEED TO STEP BACK AND SEE HOW HE REALLY TREATS YOU. I THINK YOU ARE ONLY STEP AWAY FROM BEING AN ABUSED WOMAN, EMOTIONALLY IF NOT PHYSICALLY. THINK ABOUT THE EXAMPLE YOU SET FOR YOU KIDS, THEY EMULATE WHAT THEY SEE.
2006-10-19 18:04:57 · answer #1 · answered by chayrrah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you leave, go through his paperwork and photocopy everything! All his personal info, debts, credits, past residences, banking information - everything you can find even if you don't think you need it. This will make getting child support and alimony (you live together for more than 4 months?) a lot easier. Good luck, and you won't be alone, you'll be independant.
2006-10-19 18:17:06 · answer #2 · answered by devilUknow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself objectively how hard you have tried, and how hard he has.
Flirting is unacceptable, he needs to comit to his responsibility and his choice, or pay up,shut up and go away.
Measure your own self worth against his worth to You.
Consider also that your children are watching how he treats you, and how you respond. You are responsible to them First.
Always put your kids first and you will find the right way.
2006-10-19 18:00:04 · answer #3 · answered by Norton N 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
now thats a pretty stupid question he already told u what2do
2006-10-19 17:57:58 · answer #4 · answered by sandy k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know who he is and how he behaves. You also know what you need to do. When you're ready, do it.
2006-10-19 18:06:54 · answer #5 · answered by KIT J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must get rid of him. period.
2006-10-19 17:56:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋