I know it might seem weird but yes i have a crush on my cousin..What can i say..I love a guy with blue eyes and it's not like we've known each other for forever...he's my step cousin..ive only known him for 2 years and hes a total hotty...But i feel like it is so wrong cause i mean i do claim him as a cousin..Is this ok??
2006-10-19 19:05:47 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
hmm no i dont live in a trailor...i live in a 2 story house but anyway...i mean he IS really hott and i kinda fell sorry for him because his sister died but I love him like a cousin of course..idk...its just that when i see him my heart jumps and i get butterflys...hmm i know it may seem starnge it's bothering me very much..
2006-10-19 19:15:59 · update #1
You're seriously worried about being attracted to your step cousin? If you just used a little critical reasoning, you would question the logic of that worry.
There is nothing wrong with your attraction. There wouldn't even be anything wrong with you if you married your cousin. take a deep breathe, let it out, and remember to use logic over public opinion next time ^_~ because i'm sure you might get some stupid loosers answering this question.
wow, i've just gone back and read a lot of people's responses, which are highly classist in their stereotypes about the south. Those stereotypes began largely due to severe poverty in the South after the civil war, when children had to help their families survive by working rather than going to school. Classism is as powerful as racism. I'm disgusted, especially when they spew this stuff and then turn around and talk about morality. do you really want these people defining morality for you??
2006-10-19 19:09:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Step cousin? I don't think it's about whether or not he's your step cousin, I think it's an issue between you and your lust for hot guys with blues. Take a step back and look at it from another view ....like your family's. Is the priority thinking about him or the family in general.........It's all up to you baby girl.
Just voices in your head and not all are good.
Take care!
Aloha,
Alex
2006-10-19 19:20:01 · answer #2 · answered by Alexander 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of people would see this as weird and or wrong, but seeing as it is your step cousin, that means that he's not blood related, so it's kinda okay, but ultimately the choice is yours.
2006-10-19 19:08:53 · answer #3 · answered by Sensei 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though you aren't biologically related, it's still morally wrong. No you're not the only person who has felt that, but you could be confusing a crush with normal love of a family member. I would put that energy toward something else until it passes.
2006-10-19 19:10:05 · answer #4 · answered by Curly Q Diva 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
1st you need to get control of your emotions and not let them play in your mind anylonger, you are young and don't realize the consequence that can haunt you the rest of your life if you make this known to him or anyone else. It is ok to acknowledge you have a HOT cousin, but that is all. he is your COUSIN
2006-10-19 19:40:44 · answer #5 · answered by whattheheck 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no. It's wrong. Step or no step. Don't cause problems within your family. I'm sure there are plenty of guys out there with blue eyes. Find them!
2006-10-19 19:08:37 · answer #6 · answered by shellese2 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
AHHH no it's not ! Family is family, and you don't want any Jerry Springer type sh&^ going on in your family... There are too many hot guys out here with sexy blue eyes.. It is wrong in fact it should make your stomach feel ill every time you thinnk about it !!! YUCK
2006-10-19 19:08:50 · answer #7 · answered by chubbie dumplins 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Largely depends on ur definition of 'like', 'crush',etc. and on also on ur thoughts. It's ok to 'admire' him as long as u'r not thinking of getting phyical...dat wud b incest, truly. I think many feel dat way too but they'r jus embarassed to get it out in the open...don't worry, u'll get over it, i'm sure...
2006-10-20 01:06:43 · answer #8 · answered by lapazoola 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL!! Do you live in a trailer park or like those funny southern states? Cause if you do then i think its o.k. and i think it's o.k if his name is Cletus.....otherwise i would try real hard to get over these feelings, although its not blood....it still seems creepy. And funny...imagine you guys hook up, your friends ask...hey where did you meet him he's cute?! You say..at a family reunion! LOL!!Sorry not trying to sound mean, it just came out that way :-)
2006-10-19 19:11:45 · answer #9 · answered by MTE 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Only if you mean by 'step cousin' that you and he share no family bloodlines.
2006-10-19 19:09:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋