Well after my ex gf and I broke up she got a new bf...she ended up leaving him because she still had feelings for me but then she ended up lying to me and getting back together with him...we dated for a year and never had sex...and she dates this new guy for 3 months and has sex with him (we were both virgins). then at 5am sun night I get a call from her bf informing me of all this...anyone been burned this bad before?
2006-10-19 20:37:06 · 21 answers · asked by A Sad Guy... 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Move on mate.
2006-10-19 20:40:10 · answer #1 · answered by Friend 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. Well, unfortunetly this girl did burn you. I'm sorry you had to go through this. It's her with the issues not you. I bet she realizes that she had a great thing with you and she messed that all up. What happens if she gets pregnant, or catches something? At least you don't have to deal with that. As far as her new bf calling you...that is so immature. I hope you didn't get mad. I hope you just played off like you didn't care. I wouldn't have laughed my a_ss off and told the dude she had something just to be mean. But I'm sure your a much nicer guy. Anyways, just move on honey. I'm sorry you got burned. Hopefully you will find a better female! Good luck.
2006-10-19 20:42:52 · answer #2 · answered by heatherlynnmorrow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She used use when she probably had a fight with him. She is confused alright but he has issues with you (calling to inform what? What an @#$%@#!#)
You will get over it as we all have. Remember that what goes around comes round but don't go now burning others to get back to your ex as some do. See it as a bad experience & move on. Start by changing your name. You are not a sad guy you are a free & available guy!
2006-10-19 21:48:47 · answer #3 · answered by marissa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most all of us have been burned. But we heal, and learn from it.
Do not give up on love, honesty, talking, etc.(blah blah) it is ALL important...Too bad she gave it up so quick to a new guy, it hurts you. But chemistry is a complicated thing. Hang in there, you will find someone else down the road.
2006-10-19 20:42:41 · answer #4 · answered by Lily K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES my boyfriends ex *way before we got together* would leave AWFUL notes on his car about how she was a stripper or banging some guy. she even dated his best friend to get back at him. some people are just mean. ( i might as well mention he was also a virgin when they were together and she is a skitzoprehnic*?*) don't let them get you down mean people suck.
2006-10-19 20:42:19 · answer #5 · answered by yup yep 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you live and learn and dont judge her too much. it's obvious she was conflicted with her feelings for you because you were her first. that bond is hard to break. but that bond doesnt make for a great relationship. this new guy is probably someone she can really connect with. of course she went back to you, she cares for you and like i said, she is bonded to you, there's an attachment. but let her bf deal with her. you need to learn from this and move on. i know it hurts but you'll get thru it!
2006-10-19 20:41:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow...you should be glad that you don't have to deal with her drama anymore. and if she continues to call you to make you feel bad (that is the only reason i can think of for her to call and tell you those things) then you need to tell her to back off. your time will come my friend. and it will be special because you waited for a special person to do it with. i know you are sad. but over time it will get easier.
2006-10-19 20:43:05 · answer #7 · answered by beckdawgydawg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um..well maybe after she broke up/you broke up she regretted not having that level of intimacy with you and she didnt watn to make the same mistake again. her bf called you to make u jealous, or maybe he is making it up (have u considered that?).
you also shouldnt just be looking for a physical relationship, maybe they lack something in their relationship and sex is t;he only thing thats holding them together.
2006-10-19 20:51:07 · answer #8 · answered by flying_tigers999 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Worse things have happened. You've still got a LONG dating life ahead of you. Dont let this one discourage you!!
2006-10-19 21:02:59 · answer #9 · answered by ApRiL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get an answering machine and screen your calls. You don't need this kind of aggravation. Just move on with your life and forget her.
2006-10-19 20:40:36 · answer #10 · answered by waytooeasy67 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't sweat it...it is just part of her trying to figure out what she wants. Igonore her and move on. Don't give her the satisfaction of being tore up over it.
2006-10-19 20:40:13 · answer #11 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋