Things were a little rocky between the gf and me lately, but we have been talking about it, which is good and are understanding each other better all the time. I am really in uncharted waters here, but I want to just get back to us. I know I'm into it and I have no reason to doubt she is still, too. Any ideas for getting back in the swing of things? I want something at least a little light-hearted to show her I want to get this going again without having to talk about it anymore than we need to. Like even dinner and a movie might be too much (and cliche, anyways).
2006-10-19 20:43:14 · 7 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO MORE MIX TAPES, CD'S, OR MP-3 FILES. It's overdone.
Be creative, spontaneous, and different. Don't be disruptive, but just come up with a unique way to show your love. Send her balloons or flowers at work/school. Go on a different date-I agree it's cliche and wore out. Do some kind of activity together.
2006-10-19 20:55:05 · answer #1 · answered by planedws 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Things may be "rocky" because you are not being REAL...start talking, laughing, being you, hanging out, listening, and continue to chart the "unchartered waters". They can be breath-takingly beautiful and wonderful. Hang in there.
2006-10-19 20:49:07 · answer #2 · answered by Lily K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go on a really nice date. dinner a walk in the park flowers and see if it leads anywhere. just don't talk about the stress in your relationship. it may just be real life stress. i know i almost broke up with my boyfriend when i was going through a really tough time. sometimes things just need time.
2006-10-19 20:48:01 · answer #3 · answered by yup yep 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am assuming that you don't live together...or you could do something really out of the ordinary there. make her a mix cd of all of the songs that make you think of her or you both as a couple. that always makes me feel nice. it is really cool to know that even when you are not around each other that the other is thinking of you.
2006-10-19 20:47:28 · answer #4 · answered by beckdawgydawg 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
once hurt twice shy..arent you realized that?maybe..if you want it again with her,look did get mislead, its good to talk about your relationship as it grows better everytime..and that time you f to tell her what bothers you or your dislike and vice versa,you got to listen to her too..not a nag ok..
2006-10-19 20:49:06 · answer #5 · answered by Jebatasmara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that you want to stay and be together alwas and thats good enough and if she says ok then ask her if she could go to dinner or the movies then.
2006-10-19 20:47:36 · answer #6 · answered by Jessie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try something different then before.... it's your choice of ways you like.... think harder :P
2006-10-19 20:49:08 · answer #7 · answered by peter71 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋