Family & Relationships - 24 September 2006

this is how it is.. i've liked this guy since 5th grade nd since 6th grade he's always had a girlfriend and i didnt want to start anything between me and his girlfriends so i stepped back nd kept my mouth closed all the time.. but this year in 9th he broke up with is girlfriend of a year almost a year nd a half... so since school has started i've been sorta flirting w/ him between 6th nd 7th bc thats wen we see each other the most.... he's always givin me hugs nd crap nd he brings up memories from back when we were younger... my friends say that he might like me but i'm not so sure bc last night at my other friends house people told me that he was makin out with his ex so its not official if they're bac together.... so should i still try to get him or is he already lost?

2006-09-24 01:31:36 · 8 answers · asked by lilryoko214 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-24 01:27:40 · 20 answers · asked by vedaanta t 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i had this best friend n v used to get along really well. about a month back, i told him abt the person i loved n after somtime me n tht person got hooked n my best friend dosent knw abt this. problem is as soon as i told my bestfriend about this, he stopped talking to me. he started acting wierd. i told this to my boyfriend n another friend of mine n both of them think that this guy has the hots for me. i even talked to my bestfriends friend n he told me that he dosent sleep or eat nowadays n is really depressed. his grades r also falling drastically. i desperately want to talk to him coz he was once my closest friend n i like him a lot. but hes just not ready to listen to me. what do i do?

2006-09-24 01:25:15 · 11 answers · asked by juhi b 1 in Friends

if anyone had any ideas for it! I had a party last year (annual) and it wasn't so great. This year I need some party planning! It's going to have to be scary and fun. It's for teenagers 14-18 (my little sister and her friends are comign too)
Please help! I need scary, easy, cheap, ideas!!!!!!!

2006-09-24 01:24:46 · 4 answers · asked by Yellow_earphones 1 in Singles & Dating

These stories pointed to CDC survey data showing that over 5% of high school women had reported using steroids. According to experts, the women using these drugs are not just high school and college athletes looking for a competitive advantage, but girls with body image problems hoping to achieve a lean and muscular look.Separate data from National Institute of Drug Abuse surveys shows much lower usage among women, indicating that 1.1% of high-school aged women are using steroids. In both cases, the government data shows a disturbing trend, with reported steroid use among women increasing four-fold over the last decade. Stewart is also concerned by a study that showed not only football players and weightlifters, but females in the 9-to-11-year-old age group using them to enhance their build. "That's scary because it means parents are buying them for kids. And it's a scary thing that society is dictating to kids that young that it's OK to put your health at risk to have a body type that seems so critically important," Stewart says.A U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention survey suggested that 5 percent of high school girls have abused steroids. And when the Oregon Health and Sciences University assessed its steroid abuse-prevention programs in 13 Oregon high schools, it found twice as many female non-athletes used steroids as athletes, which researchers attributed to a desire to look thin yet fit.

2006-09-24 01:23:44 · 5 answers · asked by bolounit1 2 in Singles & Dating

last night we made out for the first time and it was a bad kiss... she moved her head really fast and i tried to use a lil tongue... not a good combination, but now she wont stop blaming herself and its really makin me feel bad, ive already told her it wasnt her fault but she wont listen.... now were goin to the movies and i wanna try to kiss her again but i have no idea wat to say to get her to stop blamin herself PLEASE HELP. my IM name is skyreep1@yahoo.com

2006-09-24 01:22:17 · 11 answers · asked by skylerreep 1 in Singles & Dating

me and my x got a serious misunderstanding few weeks ago. we fought over the phone and hung me up everytime i contacted. i got disappointed and really hurt but i insist of looking for the posibilities that we are going to be fine again soon,however my hopes hung me up when i talked to him just few hours ago when he finally said that his tired of me already... i still love him more than any body else but i dont want to live for nothing. Please help me i really need some body to gave me advise.

2006-09-24 01:22:12 · 12 answers · asked by freak girl 021385 1 in Friends

i want to call my ex bf and curse him out and i mean a good down southern cursing. he really hurt me and lied to me and it really hurt. its over between us but i get flash backs of what he did to me and i get mad all over again. i know i need to move on but at this point in time i cant stand his guts and i just get where i want to curse him for it. im trying to stop feeling this way. is there any help out there. i really need some advice and please dont tell me to just move on. i have but i keep having flash backs. time is not healing this. i was down right hurt by this guy and he did it over a period of time. yes i was a crash dummy and kept going back for more. but im out of it now. im just trying to build my confidence back. but i keep having these damn flash backs and my self esteem keeps going up and down like a roller coaster. plz help me.

2006-09-24 01:21:58 · 15 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Singles & Dating

If your 3 year boyfriend went clubbing(without you) with his buddies, got really drunk and dirty danced with a random chick and said he didn't remember anything else? Help me please? He has lied to me before but it was the stripclub. Thank you.

2006-09-24 01:21:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Can you tell me how to keep a guy as a best nomal friend?If you really like him ,but you don't want any relationship with him? do you think it is difficult? I do really need your help.

2006-09-24 01:20:19 · 9 answers · asked by annesweetyfl 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-24 01:19:17 · 22 answers · asked by Cubby 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Know where to find a really good boy friend my age~

2006-09-24 01:18:45 · 8 answers · asked by Rebecca D 2 in Friends

OK a relative was my maid of honer at my wedding and it was the worst experience. She did not help in any way at all and she never threw me a bachelorette party or give a toast at the wedding. All she did was walk down the isle and help her mother with the bridal shower. I spent about 500.00 on her gift and make-up. Now she is getting married. I was glad to find out that I was not asked to be in her bridal party. Her engagement party is coming up and I do not know what to give. Prior to getting the invitation my husband and i gave her and her fiance a card with 100.00. Do we even give her another gift or what is appropriate? And yes I am still harboring the bad vibes tords her about my wedding however I understand I need to get over it. But I think yall should understand the situation fully. Thanks!!!!

2006-09-24 01:18:41 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I've been talking to this guy I went to school with for a few months. We finally got together in person . I am really into him and want to persue a LTR with him. If we wind up having sex the next time, what kind of message will this give him? I don't want him to think I'm a slut!

2006-09-24 01:18:29 · 26 answers · asked by Jane D. 1 in Singles & Dating

I have asked a lot of questions here and this is more or less a continuation of past questions...The other nite after I met this woman I have been dating off and on for 2 years, we had a discussion. She has been waffling back and forth between her ex and me. And she had gone out of town last week and told me she was going to take that time to reflect and make some changes with the ex. She was tired of the ex and her behavior. Basically she said she was done with her and wasnt going to see her anymore. Now, shes back, I asked her about her reflection time---she said yes she had thought about things--she looked away from me. I asked her if anything had changed--she flatly relpied no. I said I didnt think so. She said "well I guess it was meant to be" I said...."yeah ok" and I walked away. I decided I needed to not take any calls from her or speak to her for a few days. Its tough b/c I feel the conversation is really not finished--its not. But I also know I took her by suprise

2006-09-24 01:17:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My sis is 17 n she dosent have a bf so last night she forcibly tried to rape me (oral s*x) but she now tells that tonight she will force me to have vaginal sex. Should I tell it to my parents b'cuz she does not listen to me. THANK YOU FOR THE ANSWERS

2006-09-24 01:17:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-24 01:16:45 · 13 answers · asked by Andy K 1 in Singles & Dating

Hubby has now said after being married 18 months he doesnt want children (even though he has 3 from his past relationship). I havent got any, and dont know what to do - as he has always before said he wanted them,. Help!!!

2006-09-24 01:15:16 · 10 answers · asked by Sparkley 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-24 01:15:15 · 7 answers · asked by tmac 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-24 01:13:33 · 41 answers · asked by kay kay 1 in Weddings

popping out you cherry for the first time could be a pain..i mean real pain...so why say it is? are there any discomfortspresents after or upon having it popped for the first time? can you give me examples? and also,how do you deal with the pain? i know,if it is your first time,you are expected to bleed.and you'll feel like its hard to move or walk and find it painful to urinate..
can i get some explanations on this part? thanks..its also a part of my sex education research report..

2006-09-24 01:13:00 · 10 answers · asked by peek-a-boo 1 in Singles & Dating

My youngest nephew passed away with no real reason on how it happen. He was 2. All my sister did was put him in the carseat as he was tired. He was found an hour later dead. The doctors couldn't tell us anything on how this happened.

2006-09-24 01:09:55 · 11 answers · asked by godlivesme 1 in Family

I have a friend who I love very much , but he does not want a relathionship with any women at the moment, he keeps on findings problems with me, he judges me on everything, and there is always small things wrong with me, but if any women trys to come between us he tells me and stops writing or talking to her so as not to hurt me at all, he tells me everything , do You think that he tries to dyne his love for me by telling everyone I am not his type but deep down he does love me? Is this a way of leeding with his fustration of trying to run away from something he is not prepared to face? What should I do to get this guy to love me and accept me? He comes and goes always saying he is my friend, but he keeps on talking about me to everyone and saying I must always trust him he is very honest, help me what should I do? to get him to accept me, I stay away from him for a few weeks but he keep on coming back

2006-09-24 01:09:53 · 6 answers · asked by captainfrisco2000 1 in Friends

2006-09-24 01:06:01 · 31 answers · asked by mercyam01 2 in Marriage & Divorce

okay well he likes me he asked me out 2 times and he still is doing this.... on my myspace he had a comment that had the chorus to for you i will by teddy geiger.. and on im he said..
"there was one person i wanted 2 dance wit tho tht i didnt get a chance 2"
" i really wanted 2 dance wit u 2"
but the weird thing is i just like him as a friend.. and i told him that.. what do i do!!!!!!!

2006-09-24 01:05:35 · 9 answers · asked by imsoCOOL_bejealous 2 in Singles & Dating

I am getting married shortly. For my wedding favor I will be using either tins or the tulle bags. I didn't want to fill them with almonds, etc. I was looking for other ideas. I've been researching online...but have found nothing. Help!

2006-09-24 01:05:01 · 17 answers · asked by malibustacey 2 in Weddings

How long does it take for a decree Nici to become a decree absolute? My friend is waiting for the divorce for her boyfriend to come through so that she can get married to him. But it seems to be taking ages. I just wondered if there is any advice you can give me to tell her. Thanks

2006-09-24 01:04:40 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've been married for 3 years with a 1yr 9month old son. My husband cheated on me when he was on deployment and he didn't hide it from me. I left him for a few months so I could think things through. I'm now back with him more for my son's sake. Since his infidelity, we've fallen apart so much it seems there is no chance of reconciling. I love him and I know he loves me but it's plain to see he isn't in love with me anymore. I don't know how to reach him, to make him be in love with me again

2006-09-24 01:01:53 · 32 answers · asked by brown_sugah064 4 in Marriage & Divorce

this one for you Ellie hope it mkes you laught... bound to get a lot of answers celling me names though...

2006-09-24 01:01:10 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

MEN AND BOYS WEARING THEIR PANTS ON THEIR BUTT

2006-09-24 00:59:59 · 10 answers · asked by BIGGIP 1 in Other - Family & Relationships