i had this best friend n v used to get along really well. about a month back, i told him abt the person i loved n after somtime me n tht person got hooked n my best friend dosent knw abt this. problem is as soon as i told my bestfriend about this, he stopped talking to me. he started acting wierd. i told this to my boyfriend n another friend of mine n both of them think that this guy has the hots for me. i even talked to my bestfriends friend n he told me that he dosent sleep or eat nowadays n is really depressed. his grades r also falling drastically. i desperately want to talk to him coz he was once my closest friend n i like him a lot. but hes just not ready to listen to me. what do i do?
2006-09-24 01:25:15 · 11 answers · asked by juhi b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ps-he changed his batch timings n is trying his best to ignore me.
2006-09-24 01:32:03 · update #1
1. He was in love with you but never dared to admit it. He took it it for granted that you too were in love with him. Either he was shy or afraid to lose you so didn't admint his feelings.
2. You were so open with him and never loved him so fall into love with someone else and told him considering that he will digest your love-story.
3. He is thinking that you betrayed him so he is acting like this while you have not done anything wrong.
You can do nothing in this case my friend.....You only have to give him time UNTIL he come out from the illuisions created by himself.....Make sure that he realise that you are not in love with him and in with love with someone else....Eventually he will come out and you will get your old days back. Time is the only and only solution.
2006-09-24 01:42:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just go out with both of them and don't tell the other one. He obviously loves you and needs you to be happy. Follow your heart and do what you think is best. Pick the one that treats you the best.
2006-09-24 08:31:01 · answer #2 · answered by Rosie F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look he liked you he liked you alot!!!!! you NEED to talk to him you have to fix this. You have to understand that if he liked you that much that his grades r falling than girl you need to do something. If you like him more than a friend like as a boyfriend than problems fixed brake up with your boyfriend. But if that's the case than well no other way to put this but your screwed.
Sorry!!!
2006-09-24 09:35:54 · answer #3 · answered by GREATGRL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he has another issue going on that is stressing him out. Call him up and tell him you are concerned about him and ask if there is anything you can do for him. Let him know that you are thinking about him and that you miss him.
2006-09-24 08:34:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont let this worry you. If this person saw you as a good friend he will come around and realise that he misses your friendship
2006-09-24 08:28:18 · answer #5 · answered by Jakes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you have to give him time, dun force him do not even urges him. otherwise thing can be more worse than now. sumtimes man are unpredictable. let him relax for a while, once his feeling is settle down i believe he wont ignore u any longer. be patience
2006-09-24 10:41:15 · answer #6 · answered by avo82 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's going to feel totally bogus now that you've told your boyfriend and another guy friend and will probably end up resenting you; just be nice but don't encourage him in any way.
2006-09-24 08:35:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
difficult situation. the best thing you can do is let him know you do care about him and that you had no idea he liked you. even if it means telling his best friend to tell him how much it is distressing you in turn, communication is they key!
2006-09-24 08:28:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worried abt for boyfrnds.u do the best for u.see q of next boyfrnds,
2006-09-24 08:31:20 · answer #9 · answered by milan2502 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your best friend had some deep affections for you.
2006-09-24 08:27:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋