Family & Relationships - 24 September 2006

im very depressed my family uses me as their personal little doormat they walk over me i do everything in the house cook,clean, and help my grandfather get into the bed who wakes me up at six o clock everymorning they take my money and im tired of it i dont know what to do i cant move out i have no where to go i dont have any money b/c i have to pay for my car i really need help i dont know what to do someone please help me give me something ???? i just want them to stop and everytime i say somthing about to them its turns into a fight sometimes physical so im really lost and im about to have a mental break down if this dont stop its to the point that when i come home i get sick so can i have some help please.

2006-09-24 00:59:39 · 11 answers · asked by Tasha M 1 in Family

MEN AND BOYS WEARING THEIR PANTS ON THEIR BUTT

2006-09-24 00:59:38 · 14 answers · asked by BIGGIP 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-24 00:57:47 · 23 answers · asked by jassi 1 in Family

2006-09-24 00:57:38 · 6 answers · asked by freak girl 021385 1 in Friends

It’s a real story, which hurt me a lot. I have had an internet friend (girl), and she becomes my loving younger sister. Since last 7 years we are sharing our happiness, family problems and everything. Even her parents and brothers know about our good relation. And 4 years back I got married, and my wife also knows, I’m treating this girl like my sister. I had visited her house, several times with my family. Now I have two kids also (3 years old twin girls).

The problem started on last February. She got married with a civil engineer, last February. After her marriage I tried to contact her through phone. But with out any reply she cut the phone. Very next day I got an E mail from her husband. That is attached bellow.

”I had been reading all your mails to my wife, also from the beginning and was not at all comfortable with all those. I don't want to do a post-mortem on that. To be frank, I had no reason to appreciate her in continuing such online relations whatever it is. I can guess what the comments are likely to arise in your mind. I am sorry for not giving care of it.Enough .bye Good Luck “

Tell me what my mistake in this issue was?

2006-09-24 00:57:37 · 16 answers · asked by Gopalakrishnan 3 in Family

2006-09-24 00:56:40 · 16 answers · asked by Maria 1 in Friends

actually he has broken my faith, i had shared some secrets with him & as per me he has shared with my cousin sis , i am really depressed, on whole i should stop talking to him but he has stopped talking to me . he wants me to talk first but i wanna that he should say sorry to me (i can't leave talking with him , he is very special) i will be really thankful to u ,if u help me out

2006-09-24 00:55:51 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

At what point in a relationship do you actually see it as a relationship? What I mean is, when do you view the girl you've been dating as your 'girlfriend'...... weeks, months, years, what??
I've been dating someone for 6 months but he has never indicated whether it is more than just dating and has never introduced me as his 'girlfriend' to anyone. Yet when we're together he acts like we're a couple. When I mention anything he just clams up and won't talk about it. Need a male perspective please?

2006-09-24 00:54:44 · 32 answers · asked by malaga 2 in Singles & Dating

It’s a real story, which hurt me a lot. I have had an internet friend (girl), and she becomes my loving younger sister. Since last 7 years we are sharing our happiness, family problems and everything. Even her parents and brothers know about our good relation. And 4 years back I got married, and my wife also knows, I’m treating this girl like my sister. I had visited her house, several times with my family. Now I have two kids also (3 years old twin girls).

The problem started on last February. She got married with a civil engineer, last February. After her marriage I tried to contact her through phone. But with out any reply she cut the phone. Very next day I got an E mail from her husband. That is attached bellow.

Mr

I had been reading all your mails to Reshmi also from the beginning and was not at all comfortable with all those. I don't want to do a post-mortem on that. To be frank, I had no reason to appreciate her in continuing such online relations whatever it is. I can guess what the comments are likely to arise in your mind. I am sorry for not giving care of it.

Enough ... bye ...


Good Luck

Tell me what my mistake in this issue was?

2006-09-24 00:53:49 · 9 answers · asked by Gopalakrishnan 3 in Family

just asking

2006-09-24 00:50:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

A coworker of mine has 2 grown children. Last night I saw them out together and started joking around with the coworker's son. Her daughter called and told her what was going on without me knowing about it. Later I decided to call my coworker and joke with her about it. She told me she knows, her daughter already called her 4 times and told her everything and we got a big laugh about it. I noticed while her children were out together, they kept an eye on one other in a protective manner. Do you think she did a good job raising her kids? I do, I want my kids to grow up and be like hers. Am I wrong for feeling that way?

2006-09-24 00:50:23 · 10 answers · asked by dances_away_from_you 1 in Friends

How can you know if a guy wants to date you for a future commitment or just sex?

2006-09-24 00:47:15 · 32 answers · asked by Jen B 1 in Singles & Dating

im sick and tired of this person... i wont tell you... he said he liked me one time then hes like oohh i dont like you anymore!! ahhh!!! like it weird i cant get him out of my mind.. is he suppose to be there??

2006-09-24 00:45:46 · 12 answers · asked by imsoCOOL_bejealous 2 in Singles & Dating

while marriages are going down,divorces are going up is it unreasonable for a retired ,established,man of 52 who neither looks,acts,or feels his age to thus seek after a life partner younger than himself?
someone in their 20's,30's,or 40's, even though Iam likely to have at least another 25 years of quality time left based on family genealogy & genes,as men on both sides live well into their 90's,some even and beyond 100.
I ask this because Ive not dated in 13 + years by choice (dumb I know-but thats hindsight) I don't need to waste anymore time.
Some younger ppl think we wouldnt have anything in common that couldnt be further from the truth,if they have a mind between their shoulders,if they are creative,adventurous,a lover of music,art,books travel,nature,sailing,
snorkeling,camping,
mudding,4 wheeling,concerts,
horseback riding,fine dining,dancing,sensual
yet not promiscuous why we would have plenty
in common.
Any MatchMakers out there?

2006-09-24 00:45:15 · 27 answers · asked by steveshoardhouse 3 in Marriage & Divorce

........loose their virginity, have got a different reaction to adult talks. the way they smile, the way they talk, the way they see the opposite sex, their lips' movement, it all changes. isnt it?
i know two girls who have lost vir. & their body language is totally different. not only me, even a stranger can tell that by seeing 'em.

i am talking at a level of early college life. & i doubt that do the girls also possess the power of observation of a boy's virginity by looking at his body language....

body language of gals do change, i m sure that u will agree with me atleast here...

but does the B. Lang. of boys also change after he looses his virginity. can girls observe it???

2006-09-24 00:42:57 · 18 answers · asked by aldehyde 1 in Singles & Dating

Hide and seek with me????

But, you have to decide who will hide first!! YoU OR me???

2006-09-24 00:41:03 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Ok this guy ive been talking bout he says he slept with his ex.2months ago and he really loved her but know hes dating my friend....When my friend was walking home wid him she asked if he had a photo of her..So he stoped straight away and showed her the photos(I was there just so yall know)Then he said i can erase them if you want i dont give a **** so my friend said the moment that yr happy do wat you want then he closed the file and didnt erase the photos!!!!!!My friend thinks that he still loves her thety went out fior 3yrs help us plz!!!!!!!!GOD BLESS!!!!!!!

2006-09-24 00:38:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am getting personalised plates for my friend as a present and am not sure what to put on it. The name Kylie isn't available as it's taken. What can you do with the name Kylie? Thanks for any ideas!

2006-09-24 00:35:04 · 2 answers · asked by alysseq_86 3 in Friends

last night and he was drinking with a Rabbi

Does this mean He is still alive and asking the Rabbi
to forgive him .
Or should John Wayne and I as we were drinking together
given him a piece of our mind.

Oliver Reid was shouting at him but was to drunk to stand up.

2006-09-24 00:33:09 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

god almighty has given us . what can u best say for a mom pl quote. english and hindi welcome.

2006-09-24 00:31:37 · 8 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family

to hide in a house, without being seen by anyone!?!?!?!?

Have a nice day!! ^_^

2006-09-24 00:29:03 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-09-24 00:28:40 · 5 answers · asked by curious 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-24 00:28:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-24 00:26:00 · 11 answers · asked by bone_daddys_waitress 2 in Singles & Dating

her mom and i are seperated and i have been paying childsupport for 14yrs and treat her as my daughter. her real father has thrown his life away to drugs. my dad says i am being unfair to her by not telling her the truth. i never thought of it that way. i just wanted to protect her. do i tell her or not, and if i did how would i do it. i don't want to hurt her, and i am afraid she will hate me. i don't want to lose her.

2006-09-24 00:22:42 · 28 answers · asked by jesse james 5 in Singles & Dating

Year ago I met a foreigner in my school,we had classes together for 1 year and also went to some parties. I know he noticed me but I couldn't work out whether it was because he just liked me or sth more. Soon I started falling in love I think..For sure, he was not indifferet to me...I hoped for a sign, something more,etc,but nothing happened.He is kind of a guy who thinks himself young and not ready for anything serious.Once he met another girl,a bit childish I think,and he started to make with her or sth,but he did not really care about her.Nor about me,I guess. I realised that maybe I was too serious in his eyes-I study a lot, have great marks, but I can have fun, too, and be casual.But - I can't think of myself as doing the first step...
He just didn't like me or...thought that I am indifferent?Now he left.I want him to come back and tell me that he realised that he has been missing me, that he wants to be with me... I know that is impossible, but... how to forget?Another guy-no....

2006-09-24 00:22:14 · 6 answers · asked by Lady G. 6 in Singles & Dating

we know that there are no ghosts, then how can it be possible.

one of my friends says that he does some spiritual kind of thing, & then calls a lady ghost, that loves him & they both have sex most of the nights. he isnt married till now. i m sure that he is lieing. isnt he

2006-09-24 00:21:29 · 33 answers · asked by aldehyde 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-24 00:21:18 · 16 answers · asked by pakodi 1 in Friends

I only know that her first name is Christine. She was visiting her son who had a job as a holiday rep on the island. She lived near Chester and worked for the 'Halifax' in a call centre. She had aspirations to be an actress and has been an extra as a nurse in Hollyoaks.

2006-09-24 00:20:31 · 9 answers · asked by Matt C 2 in Singles & Dating

origing of name Cyril and country where most people have that name?

2006-09-24 00:19:27 · 4 answers · asked by nag r 1 in Other - Family & Relationships