Family & Relationships - 25 September 2006

I met a guy and have gone out with him in the past 6 months...we call each other often (initally he called everyday every 2 hours...)the it just faded...now i find myself calling him everyday...we have become very good friends and he does flirt a lot with me...but i don't get it. he knows how I feel for him and has only said he likes me a lot but thinks he might be too fast for me.....then just recently...a supposedly CRAZY ex-gf called me saying they're still on and that they have plans to get married. Is this girl really that crazy or am I just foolish to see that this guy is playing me for a fool...Sorry but I am clueless...the last time i talked with the guy he knew about this call that crazy girl made and he said she has told him about it as well...at first he didn't want to hear what she had to tell me....then he said just believe everything he's said prior to the appearance of crazy girl because she has a long history of doing this kind of thing with him.. should I trust him?

2006-09-25 23:59:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend of 1 month, just told me that he still lives with his ex, as they both have money in house. I have fallen for him big style, and he feels the same, so he says. He says they dont share same room or bed, plus he lives 31/2 hours away. What do i do?

2006-09-25 23:58:13 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok...my current girlfriend is well behaved...she doesnt give me any hassle about going out with my lad mates because she trusts me..and im not tha kinda guy that moans either, she needs her friends as much as i need mine. But so many of my friends get hassle from their girls about this constantly. Why??

2006-09-25 23:58:09 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-25 23:57:24 · 17 answers · asked by ryle g 1 in Weddings

myself and one of my of friends hooked up after a drunken night when he persued me about 2 months ago. The worst thing is he has a girlfeind and 2 kids, he is 24 , i am 21, everone says its only a matter of time before they breakup.His gilrfeind took herself and the kids on a holiday for two weeks, and me and my male friend spent the entire time together as if we were a couple. Since she has returned, he still calls me and makes plans with me which we have done. He sayd he is unhappy and is only staying for the kids. i want to be with him although i want to tell as i dont want to stir things up more. i dont understand what he is playing at? Why does he conitinue to call me and want to spend time together if we arnt having sex all the time? It cant just be a booty call, can it?

2006-09-25 23:56:26 · 9 answers · asked by Nik 1 in Singles & Dating

We've benn seeing each other for 4 months and lately he has Love Bites from his Girl. It upsets me and I feel it is disrespectful. What should I do?

2006-09-25 23:53:42 · 8 answers · asked by Texican2007 1 in Singles & Dating

??? do i ask him or do I wait for him to ask me !?!?!

2006-09-25 23:51:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-25 23:50:55 · 17 answers · asked by anna_maria_a 2 in Weddings

I'm with somone who is almost perfect but at times i find myself bored and wanting to explore more. I have to slap myself because i know i will never find another person like this but i was single 5 years before i been in this 2 month relationship. Now i sit contemplating on if i should continue on this relationship or end it and continue being a bachelor. I know I'm wierd. Just hoping theer is someone out there who understands. I'm up for any type of comments. Just don't be too mean.

2006-09-25 23:50:39 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we were thinking about bowling! hee hee

2006-09-25 23:50:00 · 34 answers · asked by anna_maria_a 2 in Weddings

Now we are 21 & 24. My parents are searching a guy 4 me. now how can i tell them about him and he is just 21 is it right time to get marry, and at the same time we like our parents wish too in our marriage life. what will my parents do if they come to know that he is younger to me. Will they agree or not. I don’t want to loose him…he too. How can i explain to them about my love & fellings. How can we convince his parents?

2006-09-25 23:49:38 · 24 answers · asked by Janu 2 in Weddings

2006-09-25 23:49:14 · 24 answers · asked by CC 2 in Singles & Dating

can you tell me about how to proceed after taking a girl on date n how to impress?

2006-09-25 23:49:02 · 14 answers · asked by stupid 1 in Singles & Dating

we met in malaysia but he had to go back to his home in US. I am stil in Malaysia working. he used to call me everyday, then twice a week then every week and now every two weeks. he said he likes me and he wants me to go to US with him. I am still hesitant about us. I told him he might forget me soon when he meets a lot of other more beautiful girls in the US. He said "there are many girls everywhere". What did he mean by this, does he still like me (coz he's not saying it to me anymore but he said he misses me).

2006-09-25 23:48:46 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was looking thru my boyfriends computer and he knows i snoop....ut i found his history from his ex (they broke up in may)
everything..and i mean EVERYTHING he said and asked me to do and stuff he did with her aswell.....almost quote on quote...
so naturally i am hurt...and not only that but i just found out i am pregnant..(after 4 months) :S and i just moved in with him....should i tell him or should i just ignore it..but now everytime he says something to me ..i cant help but think...no KNOW that he said the same to her...

2006-09-25 23:48:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Is it easier to forgive than to forget or easier to forgive but never forget?

2006-09-25 23:48:37 · 26 answers · asked by kelly 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Recently, my girlfriend and i were in the movie theater and she hit third with me, if this happens again and we get caught what would happen? Could we get kicked out of the theater forever?

2006-09-25 23:48:03 · 4 answers · asked by CheetahWarrior 2 in Singles & Dating

I want to get my BF out of my house, my name is on everything his is on nothing, he does help w/bills, but want him OUT!!! What is California law regarding this?Help!!I'll even give him his money back he's making me crazy!!!!

2006-09-25 23:47:19 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-25 23:46:52 · 7 answers · asked by SDY_2006 1 in Singles & Dating

A rich man with loads of money with a sh*it personality or a man with a really nice personality who was skint ??

2006-09-25 23:46:05 · 45 answers · asked by ♥ Love Angel Music Baby 3 in Singles & Dating

Please help me if I am right or wrong in this. Everytime my girl-friend and her husband are in public he is constantly looking at women. It is normal for a man to look at women, but it is so obvious that he is staring at each woman he sees. In fact when he is shopping or walking he concentrates only on searching "new looks" no matter how old the women are - 15 or 60. In shops he often turns his back from his wife in search of women.
He has never been married before, does not have children. My friend is a 50 y o good looking lady, they just got married two months ago. She told him that his behavior is disrespectful. He answered that he has never done that, and he told her she is paranoid. However, I and my friend's 18 year old daughter notice his strange behavior as well. My friend and I discuss this situation only between two of us. Since we live in a small town she does want to get a counselor's advice.
It would be nice to hear other people's opinions in this matter.
Thank you.

2006-09-25 23:45:30 · 19 answers · asked by Helena V 1 in Marriage & Divorce

friendship is of great value n due respect to be given...........

2006-09-25 23:43:32 · 2 answers · asked by reality check 1 in Singles & Dating

me and my boyfriend have completed our one year of relation.and we want to celebrate it in an very romantic way .any idea how can we celebrate our anniversary.

2006-09-25 23:43:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend of 2 years has an ex that broke up with him before i came along well she and him are still friends which is cool but hanging out all day and contact with him alot I think she may want him back? Is this healthy to have around.

2006-09-25 23:40:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, its like this. i have a boyfriend for 2 yrs now. one day his girl employee (one of my friend) told me that she notice that my boyfriend likes to flirt around. so one day i asked him why hes doing it and he told me "IT DOESNT MEAN THAT BECAUSE I LIKE FLIRTING IM GOING TO CHEAT" im confuse i dont know what to believe, is it really not possible for him not to cheat on me even he likes flirting? he admit that to me and said - thats my personality if you want me to change that so i will not be me, he said. he never cheated on me upto this point in time (but im worried that he might if he continue flirting), i just dont like the fact that he likes to flirt coz for me its a start of bieng unfaithful, wont you agree? i told him that im not comportable with it and he said he cant change coz that what he is. i need help that can clear up my mind and understand that he will not going to cheat even he likes to flirt.. please serious answer only. tnx in advance.

2006-09-25 23:38:56 · 13 answers · asked by Maria 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

do you think woman' sexual desire is less than man?
and do you think woman desire opposite sex body less than man do?

2006-09-25 23:38:00 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-25 23:37:37 · 16 answers · asked by cuteteddy34 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-25 23:37:09 · 47 answers · asked by Maria O 1 in Marriage & Divorce

aftershave/perfume, I love cool water for me and joop for a man, I know if a man walks past me wearing joop, my head always follows,

2006-09-25 23:36:56 · 25 answers · asked by trouble 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-25 23:35:01 · 3 answers · asked by son guko 1 in Friends