Is it easier to forgive than to forget or easier to forgive but never forget?
2006-09-25 23:48:37 · 26 answers · asked by kelly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There will be signs. I see alot of people saying to forgive and forget. It want happen. I see alot of people say you can give them another chance, I see people say if you have a good one you can take them back. Guess what, If you had a good one he would have not cheated on you in the first place. That is the problem with alot of people. They get cheated on and take there partner back but what they are really doing is telling them that it is ok to cheat. If they truly loved you they would have not done it in the first place. I dont care if they dont get sex like they want it is still no reason to cheat on someone. You must talk to your partner and tell them how you feel about that sort of stuff. You must have an open mind and tell them everything. YOU MUST TALK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I hope he is not cheating on you and if he is you have to decide what YOU want to do. Just think about it really hard before doing so. It will be something you will have to live with all you life if you stay with them. I hope you find out what you need. Good luck
2006-09-26 00:07:31 · answer #1 · answered by bigdog_0032 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forgiveness is not forgetting....Its living with your mind at peace.
Reaching that point in a relationship is hard. If your partner has been cheating on you, and they give you 100% effort to rebuild, and have no contact with the other person, recovery is possible.
But it will take time, a lot of time. Trust cannot be rebuilt with a promise or overnight.
2006-09-25 23:59:44 · answer #2 · answered by OleMarbleEyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a phlisophy in the relationship (marriage game)-----ONCE a sneak and a cheater, always a sneak and a CHEATER!!! Men are the ones that are 99% of the time the CHEATER....They will get caught and do the HONNNNNEY----I promise never to do IT again routine....(THEY know full well----given the chance---their sneaky petey will come arising again).
Logically forgiveness is easy....but....the brain never forgets it's like an elephant in never forgetting!
2006-09-25 23:54:46 · answer #3 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
put it this way,Once a cheater,always a cheater!{In Most cases,9 out of 10!}But for the few that has fucked up once and are really nice guys and will never do it again,then I say Forgive and forget,But Only you Know wether you have a nice guy or not!And if you can,t forget,Then my friend,You,ll never fORGIVE!Good luck,Hollywood!
2006-09-25 23:54:22 · answer #4 · answered by hollywood 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its easier to forgive, but impossible to forget.
2006-09-26 00:03:13 · answer #5 · answered by The_Rebel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgiving is a possibility, forgetting is not. Based on this fact it is your call on how u want to live your life.. All the best.
2006-09-25 23:53:00 · answer #6 · answered by Ice mother 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's hard. You may never trust your partner again. And Love and trust go hand in hand to make a relationship work. When they aren't with you, you'll always wonder if they are with someone else. It's entirely up to you. YOu may forgive, but it will always be there in your mind. It is a broken trust, that is hard to go backthe way things were. Good luck.
2006-09-25 23:51:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love the person it is easier to forgive and never forget but if they want to contiune to cheat then you need to forgive and forget them and move the hell on and find you someone who will be true to you and love you.
2006-09-25 23:50:35 · answer #8 · answered by besos 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you probably did not cheat and it grow to be a minor offence yet nonetheless it supplies him grounds for attack, especially thinking he would be scared from his previous companion.... This a confusing subject and that i'd easily would desire to renowned the personalities of the two one in each of you to furnish an precise answer yet permit me be accepted for you.... i think whilst something is going incorrect to return one hundred% sparkling.... in actual actuality sometimes confusing and can supply them grounds for some attack yet your honesty will win by way of... you will desire to tell him precisely what occurred and it is okay to place a sprint of the blame on him.... You have been feeling insecure and filled on your call yet in no way went any further than that....AND genuinely swear which you in no way spoke to all people not to show did something incorrect.... If he keeps to be nasty or attacking then you incredibly will would desire to get solid with him.... on the top of the day you probably did not something incorrect.... in no way do this lower back...till your relationship is over... solid success
2016-12-18 17:09:01 · answer #9 · answered by hyre 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its pretty heard to forget something like that its also heard to forgive. if hes really sorry maby u should try giving him another chance
2006-09-25 23:55:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋