Well, after we had sex, he didn't call. I typed him an email 3 days later, and told him I understood from his actions he didn't feel as I did, and that was fine, I wished him no harm, good-bye. He called the next day and emailed me, said work was hell, and then told me he had an issue because his ex's name came up between us, and she had died in an auto accident the week after they broke up, and he was still feeling guilty. He still loves her, and he loves me too he said. I told him that he was not emotionally healthy enough to be in a relationship, and that he needed to be in therapy to work things through, and that until then, we could be friends, but not lovers. I also sent him a link to The Grief Recovery handbook, which I have used because I am a widow. I called him today (mistake?) to see how he was, and I felt he wanted to rush me off the phone. He said he would call me tomorrow, but I feel stupid now, and needy, and not right with myself.
2006-09-25
19:48:12
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