do they also see the feelings of the girls(behaviour,helping tendency...........etc.,)or they just see wether the girl is beautiful or not????
2006-09-25 19:50:41 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
there are two kinds of boys.....
but 60% only see outer beauty.....
good ques....
2006-09-26 01:08:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that most guys are shallow that way. They see a beautiful girl and they go crazy for her. Sometimes they don't care that the so called "pretty" girl is vain and evil. They could have an average looking girl with extraordinary feelings and they wouldn't take a moment to realize that. So I guess, for guys beauty comes first, then sexiness, and ultimately, if they can't get what they want, they settle for the last resort, the not so beautiful but wonderful human being. Sad but true.
2006-09-25 20:01:34 · answer #2 · answered by Naty 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Behaviours help, looks help more.....we don't fall in love just becuase you do charity work and are good with kids....
I assume you mean love as in "love at first sight"....not long term love which depends mostly on personality provided looks don't fault heavily during the relationship.
However some behaviours or traits can trigger a great attraction...like dancing for example....if you want to make men fall in love with you during the first meeting.....it's easy long as your passable:
Treat them like the most interesting person in the world and listen.....Make us feel squave and charming....it will turn a ok girl into a beautiful girl for many guys.....
2006-09-25 20:23:09 · answer #3 · answered by skateaxel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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do they also see the feelings of the girls(behaviour,helping tendency...........etc.,)or they just see wether the girl is beautiful or not????
2015-08-23 04:39:43 · answer #4 · answered by Toni 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you meet someone.. in person.. the first thing they notice is your appearance. If you're not very attractive.. at least dress well when you leave the house. Its sad.. but true. If he isnt physically attracted to you right away.. then you have to get his attention another way. Show him how smart and funny you are. Let him SEE that you are kind and beautiful in your own way. Even if a MAN.. not boy.. notices a pretty girl and hooks up with her, doesnt mean that he'll stay with her. Even men like women who have a good personality and at least some common sense.
2006-09-25 20:00:27 · answer #5 · answered by spurdom28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of the guys fall in love by seeing the outer beauty only. I fell in love with a girl who is not good looking. She is dark, but I liked her character, smile, kindness, and helpful nature. I never wanted to love. I was always against love, but it happened without my knowledge, though I lost it. If you love someone express it before its too late.
2006-09-27 09:28:41 · answer #6 · answered by vinnu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
although a physical attraction is necessary to a degree, there is much more than just being adorable or pretty. i tend to not go for preppy/primpy girls, but for the laid-back types who have their own style (i'm more of a band t-shirt/UFO pants/jeans type guy haha...it's gotta be COMFORTABLE...so if a girl LOOKS comfy and has her own style, then it's usually a better indicator of her inner self...) :)
as the saying goes: those who mind don't care, and those who care don't mind. i really believe that.
i need to feel that the girl is kind and understanding--that she has a heart. you can tell the phonies from the hearted people, by their actions & the way they speak. truely caring people will help with or adapt to little things and not even think anything of it (ex: the taller one reaching for something for the shorter one, haha, signing to a deaf girlfriend, or reading a menu to a blind boyfriend...granted, these are "rarer" cases, but no biggie! sometimes, it just becomes second-nature!)
you can feel good vibes versus bad ones pretty quickly (although everyone can have a rough day, if that be the unfortunate first circumstance of meeting, forgive them and try again. or offer to help. that will really show you care!).
basically, i've found two types of girls: cruel ones, and not-cruel ones. rare indeed is the in-between. VERY rare.
of course girls have feelings. anyone who says otherwise is quite ignorant, and anyone whose perception is that females are just "pieces of meat" should be shot. maybe a bit harsh, yes, but in reality you do no good to the world by abusing women with psychological or physical mistreatment.
it is unfortunate that jerks can pose as nice guys. obvious cocky bastards are easy to identify and steer clear of. nice guys are often (but not always) the quieter types who really care for the lady of their affections, or they're shy--i am shy--...it's the nice-guys-poseurs that are tricky--their ugly sides become apparent soon after. but, genuine nice guys are also easy to spot, IF GIVEN THE CHANCE over the often ill-fated choice of *******-over-quality. :P
i always thought that the movie, "What Dreams May Come" depicts what true soulmates will do for each other.
peace always :)
2006-09-25 20:22:24 · answer #7 · answered by j-man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all of them see the outer beauty. Some of them look deeper to discover more inside beauty in the girl.
2006-09-25 21:30:11 · answer #8 · answered by aahamed24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is only natural that most people are attracted by physical appearance first. Other attributes come into the picture only when they intend to get serious in their relationships. As the relationships grow, outer beauty becomes less important.
2006-09-25 20:50:11 · answer #9 · answered by Cool 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
beauty helps especially when the other person is across the room.
People lie if they say beauty does not count. It goes both ways for guys and girls. But in the end, personality makes up a good chunk of the relationship. If you got no personality, it is going to be a quiet relationship.
2006-09-25 19:56:00 · answer #10 · answered by late4ever 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They fall in love seeing the outer beuty but continue to remain there because of the inner beauty
2006-09-25 20:10:43 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋