Family & Relationships - 25 September 2006

Help. Me and my friend are both 14 yrs old. Lots of guys wanna have sex with her. She keeps asking my opinion - I dont think its such a good idea but she wants to. I mean i dont even have a boyfriend yet how am i supposed to know? what do i do?

2006-09-25 19:45:44 · 26 answers · asked by Kira 2 in Singles & Dating

I almost dropped the "L" word on the gf for the first time a couple of nights ago, and in hindsight, wish I would have. It was a very good/positive emotional moment. Question: should I wait for another similar moment or does it matter? Can I drop it out of the blue and still have a positive effect? I have told women I love them before (and thought I meant it), but have never felt anything close to what I feel for her now and want to get this right.

And before anyone accuses me of alterior motives, I want to say I really am falling in love with her and I am as convinced as I can be that she is with me. I am not exactly scared, but definitely a little gunshy.

2006-09-25 19:45:05 · 15 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

ok, there is this girl I realy, realy like. One problem, she has a boyfriend. I know that she would go out with me if she was single, but she isn't what should I do?

2006-09-25 19:44:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

can u ladies figure it out? what they are?

2006-09-25 19:43:47 · 21 answers · asked by DADUDE 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-25 19:43:28 · 8 answers · asked by Tiffany G 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-25 19:42:37 · 35 answers · asked by http://hogshead.pokerknave.com/ 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

i am 24 male from Afghnistan and working as media analyst in one of NGO

2006-09-25 19:41:40 · 5 answers · asked by nasir A 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-25 19:41:20 · 5 answers · asked by henry1 1 in Marriage & Divorce

after 32 yrs of marriage, my dad cheated on my mum. After 4 yrs of dating,7 mths to my wedding, i discover that my bf's a player.
Why do men, the very ones that we trust and depends on cheat on us?

2006-09-25 19:39:39 · 23 answers · asked by hilda 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I' m 22 and my ex-boyfriend is 34. We had the best 2 years together. We loved each other and got alone great. He wanted to get married and have kids in the next 2 years and everyone knows that I'm too young for that. We tried to seperate for 9 months. Now He's dating someone who he says is "a lot like me", only she's 29. My head understands it but my heart doesn't. Can't we just be together and laugh like the old days? Why did he give upon me? I'll get there. Love is love. It doesn't recognize color, age or gender. My heart is broken. Everyone says that I'll be in love again, but I just feel like staying down. I cry day and night. I have to move on, but how?? He's says that he's not happy too. He misses me some times but he has to try to find what he's looking for. I'm mad angery, heart broken, and everything else!!!

2006-09-25 19:39:39 · 9 answers · asked by Slevin L 1 in Singles & Dating

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If you kiss her, you are not a gentleman
If you don't, you are not a man

If you praise her, she thinks you are lying
If you don't, you are good for nothing

If you agree to all her likes, you are a wimp
If you don't, you are not understanding

If you visit her often, she thinks it is boring
If you don't, she accuses you of double-crossing

If you are well dressed, she says you are a playboy
If you don't, you are a dull boy

If you are jealous, she says it's bad
If you don't, she thinks you do not love her

If you attempt a romance, she says you didn't respect her
If you don't, she thinks you do not like her

If you talk, she wants you to listen
If you listen, she wants you to talk

IN SHORT :

So simple, yet so complex
So weak, yet so powerful
So confusing, yet so desirable
So damning, yet so wonderful..DO U AGREE

2006-09-25 19:38:43 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I knew I didnt want to have sex tonight and I told him so and then I purposely turned him on. Why? I have noe idea why I did it and now he is lying in bed (probably mad at me... I'd be mad at me) and I am on Yahoo answers asking total strangers personal questions. I know you have no way of knowing why I did it but if you can list reasons why you might (or why you think someone might) maybe one of them might be why I did it. And I'm not a heartless witch so thats a bad answer.

2006-09-25 19:38:31 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well, I'm 25 yrs old. I have a crush on this girl at the first sight. I think she is about 23-27 yrs old. She told me that she is going thru a divorce. She's working at the frame department at one store which is about 25-30 mins away from me. I'm thinking about to ask her to a dinner or maybe lunch. I normally have no problem asking a girl out but this one. You probably know the feeling! I have no idea if she is dating somebody or already have a new bf. So, basically, I am have to do a guess. So, I am thinking about to send her some flowers with a note like "A dinner with me? Let me know xxx-xxx-xxxx" But, I have no idea what should I send her. At the same time, I do not want to feel like a weirdo if she is dating someone or already have a bf. Any idea?

2006-09-25 19:36:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a bf. we're planning to get married next year but i only knew him for a couple of months (4months to be exact).He deprived me to give help for my family...My brother and sister has their own family but my brother begged me to buy a car for him and my sister to support his child.although my sister did not tell me that directly but bec. his husband abandoned her so i decided to help her. My salary is better than my bf. he earned only half of my salary and his friends told him do not let me go cause im damn good for him. The problem is he told to think about my self and save money for my future which is he knows he will be my future. Is he really concern about me or he wants my money?I love him so much and I can't think so much regarding this.Please do help me...I need your opinion.

2006-09-25 19:36:32 · 5 answers · asked by krungkrung 1 in Family

2006-09-25 19:35:54 · 6 answers · asked by casual16dreamer 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-25 19:34:14 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

GUYS: ex boyfirend continues to call after 1.5 years bbut couldnt handle long distance..need advice?
Why does my ex-boyfriend who broke up with me 1.5 years ago when I moved away to college still call me? He has a new girl at home and tells me.."he is lonely" i don't think he wants to get back together because he has never mentioned it..he just always says he loves me...i am a corner in his life (i helped him get his career going)...and that he has strong emotions for me. we have talked every two weeks or so (he calls me) for the last two years and he comes to see me when i am in town. what are his intentions? i still love him and would love to get back together with him but never say it bc i get the vibe he wants me to have fun and enjoy college (i am seven years younger). GUYS: any advice on what my ex is thinking? why he keeps calling me? should i cut him off or not? will he ever call me again if i tell him that i need time for myself now but i want to be friends in the near future

2006-09-25 19:33:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to hear from people who have tried different methods and were successful getting the sex of their choice.

Although I'm praying to God - I was wondering if I could help him/her along by doing something more scientific.

I want to hear facts about...

Timing of sex (example before or after ovulation/release of egg) - can u have sex after the day of ovulation?

What foods to eat?

Chinese Calender (only if you have the correct version and know how to translate it for me)

Thank You
Cheers
Mia

2006-09-25 19:33:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Simple question, Complicated answer.

2006-09-25 19:30:14 · 20 answers · asked by whitneyerude 2 in Singles & Dating

In my other question i said i was getting over my X, and starting to fall for my Best Friend, and The girl i was fally for, is crushing on my other best friend, So................I found out that my best friend (The Guy), like the girl that i like........dosent that suck.........but you know what its not my buisness, its not like we were dating.....

2006-09-25 19:29:35 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-25 19:28:46 · 11 answers · asked by T.K. B 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-25 19:28:43 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

who will you choose?
A single man without ambition, without future but he love you so much and willing to give everything
or
a saparated man (married) who also love you so much, who is searching for a true love but he is afraid to give everything but you love this guy so much.

2006-09-25 19:27:46 · 22 answers · asked by Lonely girl 1 in Singles & Dating

I asked this girl out, but she said she wasnt ready because her ex's gf is starting up trouble and she was worried her ex would try to pull a knife on me. I told her I didnt care & I could take care of myself. Then two days later I saw her & I was gonna walk up 2 her from behind & hug her then all of a sudden I see her runnin up to some other fool & she started kissin him. I backed off into the wall. It hurt alot and it felt like I got played. Then I told her friend to tell her not to even talk to me anymore. Later I got a call from her sayin she was sorry & she didnt mean to play me. We got into a fight about it & she finally said that she was scared to go out with me because she loved me & was afraid that if we went out that me and her would break up and she wouldn't love me no more. We talked about and I told her that I'd be willing to wait for her. What sad now is that she loves me more than her bf, but now me & her cant even go out. There anyway to get with her faster?

2006-09-25 19:27:38 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-25 19:25:38 · 9 answers · asked by meikon80 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 18 years old and since I was 4 I have dreamed of acting. For over 6 years I have done my research and attained training. I am ready to move and continue with my training. I have found a school in LA (I live in IL) that I want to attend, but my father told me no is his final answer. I am afraid that he will never talk to me again if I go. My mom does not agree but said if that is what you want then go. I have tried to compromise with my father saying I will still earn my degree or I will go for 2-3 months and return for 2-3 months or I will pay my own way. I am so eager to try out my own wings, but he won't let me go. I think he is afraid that I will end up like he did when he was a teenager. I really love my parents but I do not understand why they will not let me discover who I am and try living by myself to gain experience and make my own mistakes? I am well educated, mature, and a good decision maker. I have thought this through for years and am eagerly waiting to go.

2006-09-25 19:25:12 · 9 answers · asked by Imagine, Dream, Go 1 in Family

I have a friend who is into me just doesnt want to admitt it. and she always ends any type of convo and just blows it off and says she doesnt except things from anyone or ask for anything. why must women be like jig saw puzzle? Why are you so scared when someone who is so nice and to good to be true?

2006-09-25 19:24:57 · 5 answers · asked by Adrian N. 2 in Singles & Dating

If not, you should try it, so much fun!

2006-09-25 19:24:36 · 12 answers · asked by OLIVIA! 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it still important to good strong men to have a woman who hasn't dated too much before you get with her?
Is it still important when you reach your 30's and older to be with a "Good Girl"?

2006-09-25 19:24:07 · 16 answers · asked by Candy 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-25 19:23:24 · 3 answers · asked by Matt 1 in Friends