2006-09-25 19:34:14 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think that as a person to keep from hurting you he should be alone until he figures out what he needs to do because he cant be with you and love and care for you if he is loving and caring for someone else. there is nothing wrong with him caring for her as a friend but if it is more than that you need to let him be until he decides what or who it is that he wants.
2006-09-25 19:38:06 · answer #1 · answered by Latasha G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. If you've been with someone for a long time, after you break up it's really common to still hold feelings for them. His love for you is in a totally different category than his feelings for his ex. The only thing that I would feel sketchy about if I were you is the fact that he may be telling you about these feelings. I understand why he may have them, but his need to share them with his current girlfriend is unnecessary.
Let him know that it makes you feel uncomfortable to hear about it, and maybe he will be able to sort a few things out for you.
Cheers.
2006-09-26 02:43:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on u actually. Feelings will always be there 4 the ex of course, but it can be lesser or reduced if u show him more true love n care.Sooner or later he will begin loving u n thinking of u only more than anyone else.U dont have to do great things or things too difficult but just be urself n do little things with great love.He will understand one day.Keep praying hard for ONLY God can do or change anything n anyone n make all impossible things possible. Trust in GOD n ur life will be great.
2006-09-26 02:45:39 · answer #3 · answered by kuti 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he really loved his ex, he would never lose feelings for her even if he fell in love with you. You can still love someone without wanting to be with them. So just try and understand that although he might still care for his ex, he really wants to be with you.
2006-09-26 02:38:53 · answer #4 · answered by peathowt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His ex will always have a place in his heart. She might just have hurt him a lot and he is still not over the pain.
You cant be with one person if u still have feelings for someone else. It never works.
You have to sort out yourself. U cant go into a relationship when u r broken.
2006-09-26 02:39:51 · answer #5 · answered by chanD 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend is still pinning over his ex than he shouldn't be dating at all. Sounds like he is using you as a rebound. Yes if he truly loved you he wouldn't be thinking at all about his ex. I think you should cut the strings with him and let him realize who he really cares for. But in the mean time don't wait for him, go out and date other guys maybe you will find one that will capture your heart. Don't let him be selfish and use you to get over her. Have pride in yourself and self respect. Best of luck!
2006-09-26 02:44:58 · answer #6 · answered by Humming Bird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes.. a person can make such an impact on someone's life. She obviously did. Sounds like he's moving on. I still love.. and care deeply for a few of the guys I've dated. I'm over the relationships but sometimes.. you will always love someone. It doesnt mean that you cant love another.. more.. or in a different way. ( different is not always bad.. sometimes.. its alot better) You know this.. becuz you still love someone you were in love with. Let it go by accepting it. Dont let it stand in your way. If you think its something more serious.. make him fall head over heals for you, be the woman that she couldn't be.
2006-09-26 02:42:26 · answer #7 · answered by spurdom28 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No definitely not. It goes to show that he is a loyal and true friend. It also shows you have good taste in men. Remember he is her ex and you are his love.. You don't need to feel jealous of the past. However you can damage your future by not accepting him as he is.
2006-09-26 02:39:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not that easy for some men (or women), loving someone new really isn't possible until they stop loving the ex and that takes time.
2006-09-26 02:35:51 · answer #9 · answered by live2ride 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him If he still love ex gf why did he breake up to her and why can love u while still miss her??? Let ask!!! U will know who he is love her/u!!! On my opinion someone just want to have new gf/bf for 4get ex gf/bf but can't!!! For me if I still love my ex I can't have new!!!
2006-09-26 02:45:49 · answer #10 · answered by nonglnalak 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋