Is it still important to good strong men to have a woman who hasn't dated too much before you get with her?
Is it still important when you reach your 30's and older to be with a "Good Girl"?
2006-09-25 19:24:07 · 16 answers · asked by Candy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it is so important for me to find a 'good girl'. they're hard to come by anymore, if you are already one, why would you want to change to attract the guys that would want the 'bad girl'/slutty/easy/wild girl if that's not who you are. you would just be fixing to find the wrong kind of guy. keep hope alive and keep being you. don't be fake, be sweet, but be careful, the wrong guys look for the sweet girls too, so they can walk over them. be you, be kind, and be strong.
2006-09-25 19:29:32 · answer #1 · answered by Yee Haw 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think that the majority of men have recognized that women need to have a life too. Having a life makes everyone different in their needs and desires. Women whom show little or no motivation for dating might be seen as too little informed or possibly undesirable because of some reason or another. Whereas women whom have had dating experiences tend to know what they desire in a relationship thereby helping to determine the possible outcomes (the future) of the dating process.
Good/bad is a highly relative term for men in their 30's, 40's, and 50's. Life teaches everyone that these are qualities found in all. If it's going to work, both should strive to make it work.
My experience shows me that age, good vs. bad qualities, and subsequent experiences is of less overall importance when compared to the amount of love, commitment, interest, desire, and compatibility each has for the other.
2006-09-26 02:51:58 · answer #2 · answered by Paul 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am 37 and I am the type that women think of as a "strong man" just because I split my wood by hand and own a tractor. I am single because women don't want guys like me anymore.
I would love to find a "good girl" but none exists as far as I can see. Women have changed drastically over the past 20 years. They would rather date a guy without a job that has all day to spend wooing them. Guys like me work for a living an cannot seem to offer those girls the amount of attention that they need.
Those girls need to find some goals of their own to work towards.
2006-09-26 02:31:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, very much, I still believe there are still a lot of good strong men out there who want there woman if not a virgin at least not overused.
Men who age do fine it more important to be with good girls.
Not that they will not play once in a while.
2006-09-26 02:28:22 · answer #4 · answered by yulnores 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
as long as your clean, we all got a past by this age and if he doesnt understan that then hes not worth it...dont be so worried about that part of your past, worry more about how good of shape your in, your looks, your goals and desires, what you still want to do in life, is more important that what youve done in the past...unless of course you want to still be the virgin inexperienced type, but if thats the case then there must be something wrong that you lasted this long, we want to know that you dont have any hang ups concerning sex either, so some experience is a good thing....
2006-09-26 02:28:54 · answer #5 · answered by wizzard 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
whores = not good.
STDs = definitely not good.
goody-twoshoes = not good. and boring.
virgin = respectable--she holds a value for herself.
it's always better to know that someone has only been with a fewer amount of people. it shows that she's not a hoochie or an attention-whore haha, and respects herself more.
i would hope by their 30's, women have outgrown the "i love ***-holes/jerks" phase...which should have been lost in their 20's...because those are the more young, fun times...now lost. heh.
2006-09-26 02:38:02 · answer #6 · answered by j-man 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That depends on what you consider a good girl. A good person of any gender will be honest about their past. Honesty is paramount over ones dating history.
2006-09-26 02:30:22 · answer #7 · answered by Geo.man 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u dont want a girl that is a mess up at 30 and you dont want to date a slut or a girl that eery guy tells you something about her body so yea
2006-09-26 02:26:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter what they have done before as long as they are loyal to me.
I've been out with bisexuals, serial adulterers and my current g/f used to work as a professional dominatrix.
None of that makes any difference to me, I'm with them/was with them for who they are NOW/AT THE TIME
2006-09-26 02:27:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes. We still put women into two groups - those you date, and those you marry.
And women divide men the same way.
2006-09-26 02:32:21 · answer #10 · answered by wuxxler 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋