GUYS: ex boyfirend continues to call after 1.5 years bbut couldnt handle long distance..need advice?
Why does my ex-boyfriend who broke up with me 1.5 years ago when I moved away to college still call me? He has a new girl at home and tells me.."he is lonely" i don't think he wants to get back together because he has never mentioned it..he just always says he loves me...i am a corner in his life (i helped him get his career going)...and that he has strong emotions for me. we have talked every two weeks or so (he calls me) for the last two years and he comes to see me when i am in town. what are his intentions? i still love him and would love to get back together with him but never say it bc i get the vibe he wants me to have fun and enjoy college (i am seven years younger). GUYS: any advice on what my ex is thinking? why he keeps calling me? should i cut him off or not? will he ever call me again if i tell him that i need time for myself now but i want to be friends in the near future
2006-09-25 19:33:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i have exactly the same situation! i dunno what to do...but u know...he broke up with me once and he never loved me as much as i did!i mean he had his chance...right?
2006-09-25 19:38:37 · answer #1 · answered by /\/ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel about all his calls. You guys need to have a conversation to clear your heads. Talk to him!! Straighten things up!
2006-09-26 03:52:09 · answer #2 · answered by Slevin L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl don't be Played by this Player...move on
2006-09-26 02:39:15 · answer #3 · answered by qdrama1956 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop taking his calls, they aren't helping either of you to move on.
2006-09-26 02:36:59 · answer #4 · answered by live2ride 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need advice...you need a less complicated life!
2006-09-26 02:36:10 · answer #5 · answered by heatherlynnmorrow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are a safety net, and "what ifs" is a mental trap. go figure!
2006-09-26 02:43:51 · answer #6 · answered by Tartlettes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's just a TEST... if you'll give on... go back to him
OR... he's flirting with you... he uses you just because he is lonely
2006-09-26 02:37:16 · answer #7 · answered by danieldenzel2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋