I knew I didnt want to have sex tonight and I told him so and then I purposely turned him on. Why? I have noe idea why I did it and now he is lying in bed (probably mad at me... I'd be mad at me) and I am on Yahoo answers asking total strangers personal questions. I know you have no way of knowing why I did it but if you can list reasons why you might (or why you think someone might) maybe one of them might be why I did it. And I'm not a heartless witch so thats a bad answer.
2006-09-25 19:38:31 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well i'm guessing that he may be mad because you guys didn't have sex after you turned him on. Well it's not that big of a deal. Sometimes it's just fun to turn your partner on and not wanting to actually have sex. It's just the whole challenge of being able to get them to want you and just play around. Nothing mean; it's fun. We all want to do that once in a while.
2006-09-25 19:42:38 · answer #1 · answered by Sush517 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have done the same thing and then always felt guilty. Did you want to make sure that he still thought you were sexy and beautiful? Did you need to be needed but not in a sexual way? Maybe just hugged, kissed and cuddled and he took it the wrong way? Were you secretly mad at him and wanted to get back at him? Like passive agressive behavior? Hope you find your answer.
2006-09-25 19:47:22 · answer #2 · answered by Just me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U were not attracted to him. I tease girls in many ways which turns them on. I say stuff like, "No you cant have me" or "U cant handle me." And its true, when I dont want to do it, thats when they want to do it more. Most guys tell the girls that they want to do it, giving them the option instead of taking charge.
2006-09-25 19:44:05 · answer #3 · answered by srroldan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That happens to me too and I ask the same question. Well, I can only speak for myself when I say that I do so because I don't want him to feel like I am rejecting him or anything. In a way I do it because I want to please and I don't want him to draw away from me.
2006-09-25 19:44:45 · answer #4 · answered by Rebecca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok u sound like your a teenager...because you like the teasing game and in all actuality you do want to have sex. You want him to get all heated and rip your clothes off and throw you on the bed and sex you hard and long.
2006-09-25 19:41:31 · answer #5 · answered by heatherlynnmorrow 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Whenever this stupid game is played on me I tend to stay away for a while.Teasing is great as long as satisfaction is had afterwards by both people.
2006-09-25 19:58:22 · answer #6 · answered by want2wild 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometime girl just want to get close to guy, but may not want sex. But guy always turn on when girl get close to them.
2006-09-25 19:42:05 · answer #7 · answered by Tan D 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1 - purposely turning on people is a BAD thing mmkay
2006-09-25 19:42:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. you are a drama queen who wants attention
2. you want him to want you
3. you enjoy the power you have over him when he is aroused
4. you want to feel attractive
5. you enjoy teasing him
6. you think its fun
i really don't know why you would do it. i personally would be talking to him about it instead of us. good luck.
2006-09-25 19:45:21 · answer #9 · answered by burn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh, girl, don't do that. that's a bad bad thing.
if you intentionally got him fired up, then you've got to follow thru. that's only right.
now, if you had not intentionally aroused him and he just got a stiffy of his own lusting, then it would be his problem to deal with.
go "tend" to him (you brought this on yourself) and do better next time.
(use protection)
2006-09-25 19:44:17 · answer #10 · answered by Nobody Special 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋