Family & Relationships - 25 September 2006

As i said i'm very happily married and i was proudly a virgin when i married. I only had a serious relationship once before about three years ago, that lasted two years. The problem is i wish that i had or could have sex just once with my ex girlfriend who i waswith 2 years

2006-09-25 18:59:49 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-25 18:59:45 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

For me Love is blind, deaf and dumb. Im Too loyal to the extend i dont even want to know if he's cheating on me. (although i'd already known) Recently my boyfriend (of a year) and i broke up cause he said he didnt want to lie to me anymore. Since he's been going out with that girl for 4 months now, i knew I couldnt make him stay. So,I let him go. 2 months has passed and he called me up, saying "she was no you". Just when I finally thought i could get up on my feet again after the break up, he suddenly calls up saying he wants me back. I still love him but Im scared of getting hurt again and again. what do you think my answer should be?

2006-09-25 18:59:32 · 27 answers · asked by Marsha Manson 1 in Singles & Dating

my parents divored about 16 years ago and cant even be in the same rom as each other i have only recently got in touch with my dad. i love him more than anything and dont see him as an a##hole a my mum and some of my family do. i really want to him to be the on my wedding day, but how do i invite him and get my mum to enjoy the day still. i do feel for my mum and all the hurt that she holds. do you think because it is my day i get to make the final decision about this? HELP PLEASE

2006-09-25 18:58:09 · 33 answers · asked by jacstar1986 2 in Weddings

me and my hubby r short tempered. the style of his criticizing me starts from dirty language and shoutings. when he does this, i keep my patience for sum 15-20 mins. n if hez still on, and its not my fault, i wanna defend, and when i start defending, he grows wild. on sunday, he lost his temper and beat me for an hour. he is fat and strong, the way he beats it really hurts. that too i nfront of my kid. he then realises his mistake and tries to take me to lunch and buy me stuff. still ioif i feel little bad and am unbable to come out of it, coz i am physically and mentally hurt, he loses his temper again. he insulted me, my parents, and beat me o nthe road, pinched me and asked me to say sorry or else he cud do anything. it wasnt big fault. but i was so badly hurt, i said him sorry. he then stopped. bought me and my kid icecream.cried a little and said that he cant control his temper.so i shudnt provoke him and argue with him. nor make silly mistakes.this hapns every 15days.wat do i do?

2006-09-25 18:57:39 · 31 answers · asked by smiling_smiles2000 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-25 18:57:32 · 10 answers · asked by T.K. B 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok, guys would be so comfortable with being my friend and then wanting to be my boyfriend or something like that, but ever since I met this guy it has changed everything. Now I'm starting to think guys just want to lead me on. Ok, I don't really think guys are trying to do anything bad to me, but ever since this guy I met I don't know how to act in front ofthem anymore... What should I do? I mean, theres a lot of cute guys that like me, it's just I don't know what to do anymore!!! It seems I have lost my confidence with guys overall. HELP!!!

2006-09-25 18:57:12 · 1 answers · asked by Tash 2 in Singles & Dating

me and my hubby r short tempered. the style of his criticizing me starts from dirty language and shoutings. when he does this, i keep my patience for sum 15-20 mins. n if hez still on, and its not my fault, i wanna defend, and when i start defending, he grows wild. on sunday, he lost his temper and beat me for an hour. he is fat and strong, the way he beats it really hurts. that too i nfront of my kid. he then realises his mistake and tries to take me to lunch and buy me stuff. still ioif i feel little bad and am unbable to come out of it, coz i am physically and mentally hurt, he loses his temper again. he insulted me, my parents, and beat me o nthe road, pinched me and asked me to say sorry or else he cud do anything. it wasnt big fault. but i was so badly hurt, i said him sorry. he then stopped. bought me and my kid icecream.cried a little and said that he cant control his temper.so i shudnt provoke him and argue with him. nor make silly mistakes.this hapns every 15days.wat do i do?

2006-09-25 18:56:56 · 14 answers · asked by smiling_smiles2000 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This is gonna sound a little lame but I have to ask. ..So there is this attractive guy that i have ran into a few times and I would like to talk to him. The thing is I am too nervous and afraid of rejection. I have to wonder if he is interested in me. He says Hi to me everytime i see him. (guys don't normally say hi to me unless i know them.) Should I take this as just a friendly jesture or do you think he might actually be interested in me??

2006-09-25 18:56:48 · 4 answers · asked by curious 1 in Singles & Dating

wanting to move in together and the dating thing just doesn't cut it anymore, even though you haven't been dating that long?

2006-09-25 18:56:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The flirtatious, funny and gregarious gent at the centre of all the attention usually gets mine too but then when things develop and he becomes my significant other, he continues to flirt and chat up other women and seems to forget about me

2006-09-25 18:56:03 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My friend is getting married and her husband to be may have a warrant. When they go to apply for the marriage lic. would he be arrested if there was a warrant? Do they even look that stuff up? It was nothing major just non payment of a ticket for a traffic violation.

2006-09-25 18:55:17 · 7 answers · asked by Nattie 3 in Marriage & Divorce

my bf and i have been on for 14 months and some months ago he asked me the question " what if i were to ask you to marry me right now what would you say? to whch i said no since i was 21 and thought of myself as too young to get married., then he asked me 2 more times the same question to which i lied and said no because i did not want to tell him yes and scare him away and then last night while i was at my bf's place studying i was telling him about some friends of mine &about kids in a couple of years.we have talked about having kids and he does not want that -kids- while i do and it would bring a joy to my life, me more than him since i would not mind being with him.last night he tells me that he knows that i would not want to marry me-sorry to break the bad news since he knows that that is part of what i want. why am i still with him?what should i do? should i call it quits or why cannot he see himself with me-am i not good enough for him? what is he thinking?plz help

2006-09-25 18:55:09 · 3 answers · asked by icycrissy27blue 5 in Singles & Dating

Had a bisexual experience? If so do tell...

2006-09-25 18:54:03 · 3 answers · asked by John 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

so this guy i like...idk if he likes me or not? he always hangs around with me at school and he has a gf tho. but i heard his parentols dont like that gf but they love me. sooo....does he like me? we flirt all the tiem and all my friends think he has it in for me...idk tho..

you tell me?

2006-09-25 18:53:56 · 4 answers · asked by zacefron.nd.jmac.lvr 2 in Singles & Dating

a rich girl marrying "down'.......so we single average guys are just screwed......A girl would have a better chance dating a Kennedy than a guy would dating a Hilton sister.........Imagine we average joe's still treat women like crap

2006-09-25 18:53:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If a guy friend interlocks elbows with you and then grabs your hand and holds it, and then also grabs your shoulder and pinches your sides........does this mean anything???


GUYS, when you hold a girls hand what does this mean??

2006-09-25 18:52:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what do men really pay attention to the most when you are intimate with a woman in bed..like what are some of the things that goes through your mind?..that you may not say but are thinking.. i am really curious to know.. serious replies please, and from men, not young teenage boys...thanks all

2006-09-25 18:52:29 · 14 answers · asked by moon baby 1 in Singles & Dating

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They are vivid, and my urges are getting stronger.




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2006-09-25 18:51:31 · 25 answers · asked by BlackPantherNightmare 2 in Marriage & Divorce

judgemental and angry here that I feel I'm the only person who cares about values and love... whats the deal???

2006-09-25 18:51:10 · 7 answers · asked by isabela d 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it true that you sensitive guys are more like girls and can look beyond the surface of a person (not that I am ugly or anything, quite the opposite, I am one hot sexy woman ;) (can't you tell by my photo, no it isn't a cartoon!)

2006-09-25 18:49:43 · 13 answers · asked by Lisa 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-25 18:49:14 · 12 answers · asked by mayank Kumar G 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i know this girl whom i like ALOT(understatement!!!)
i was thinkin bout askin her out for a dinner and i wonder if it would be ok if i would take her to this nice italian restaurant,have a candlelight dinner and yes i know this is gonna sound like "the lady and the tramp" but this one actually has a violin player there! would this be something that would win her for me?! any other suggestions are very welcome too!!!

2006-09-25 18:49:09 · 17 answers · asked by darknightmare01 2 in Singles & Dating

I get to know a guy recently at my cousin's birthday party. He's my cousin's friend. We were chatting happily that night. But we din exchange numbers. I find him quite an interesting guy to know... So i hope to make him as my fren. But im not those intiative kind of girl towards this. What shall i do?

i know now is a new century but i still find it hard to do so. I cant face rejection in reality... Is so embarrassing!!

2006-09-25 18:46:43 · 7 answers · asked by dolphinzzz 1 in Singles & Dating

Basically I am a shy and seriously ugly looking guy who just started my university life. But I do speak up lot in class and made quite a positive impression. Then there is one sweet girl in my class who laughed loudly at some of my comments. After a few days to my surprise I saw her playing chess during the our school chess training session after school and to my greater surprise she smiled and waved at me as I walked into the hall. After a few games she came over and sat right next to me and asked me questions while I was still playing and she didn't have a game to play. I was scared stiff and answered her coldly. The next occassion when I was taking the lift to class, she saw me and held my shoulders as I walked into the lift. Again I was scared stiff and remained still and looking at the door while she was standing behind me. After that I always behaved coldly to her but she stills try to wave at me. But she is also quite friendly to other guys. Then does she like me?

2006-09-25 18:46:10 · 17 answers · asked by hansel 2 in Singles & Dating

Would you dump a rich girl just because of her bad hair????
0r bad looks???

2006-09-25 18:45:11 · 15 answers · asked by fresh98star 2 in Singles & Dating

I am thinking of getting a separate bank account where my wife doesn't see nor know about it. I plan on using this money for x-mas or what not. I have also had to borrow money from my parents and it seems my wife doesn't handle money to well. I figure if I can get money saved then next time my wife says we have no money and she has me ask my parents I can just get the money from that account and then have it payed back. This would save face with my parents. My dad said I can send the statements to his house or I can get a PO box.

What should I do?

2006-09-25 18:44:54 · 29 answers · asked by eagle4life69 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Any cool ideas on how to propse to my girlfriend of 6 years? We live in the DC area, and I already have the ring. Thanks.

2006-09-25 18:43:03 · 9 answers · asked by ralph w 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I know her first name and it is spelled really different from anyone else that I have ever known in the city. I think that I know her zip code as well. As for her last name, I am not sure that it is the same, but I do know what her maiden name is.

2006-09-25 18:42:52 · 4 answers · asked by dosbalzosteel 1 in Friends

he mentioned it before and now has stopped. I always like to know where it is going and approx when... i like to have a plan and make sure I am not 'wasting my time' and giving my heart up to be broken...

How do I approach this subject breezily?

2006-09-25 18:42:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating