what do men really pay attention to the most when you are intimate with a woman in bed..like what are some of the things that goes through your mind?..that you may not say but are thinking.. i am really curious to know.. serious replies please, and from men, not young teenage boys...thanks all
2006-09-25 18:52:29 · 14 answers · asked by moon baby 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i pay attention to this soft wonderful body, and thank the gods for this pleasure about to be recieved, before diving in,,,,,,,,,, the thought on my mind is,,,,,this would be twice as nice if your friend was with you, nice question
2006-09-25 19:05:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only real thoughts I have are if I want to do a 'trick', or change tempo or position; and the only real motivation is more enjoyment for partner/and self. The rest is a collage of the woman in my head- sorry gotta be a guy to know what I mean by that I think. Anyway, that's if it's good.
If it's bad, you're likely to be thinking of anything but who you're currently doing- it could be what time you have to start work, or that you're hungry- or even thinking about somebody else in order to throw some excitement into what you're actually doing.
OR, if you come way too fast, you're just kind of numb and laughing at yourself.
I covered it as best as I could, and I know I missed lots.
2006-09-26 01:59:34 · answer #2 · answered by niwriffej 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing is how the woman is doing, no really unless you are raping the woman a man wants to make sure the woman isn't tripping out during sex and he is going to be criticized after its done for having sex and she really didn't want too. Then are thoughts are I wonder if she would mind if i put my finger in her a.s.s Another thing would be if her puzzy is this good i bet her a.s.s is even tighter and some men be thinking i really would like to com in her mouth.
2006-09-26 01:58:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, when I'm in bed with someone, I am concentrating on trying to make her go into "pleasure overload", and that can be anything from simple light caresses to a couple hours of moustasche ride to mutual pubic bone bruising pounding. I'm just lucky to BE in bed with a woman, so I try to make it as memorable and good for her as possible
2006-09-26 02:01:03 · answer #4 · answered by Taz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for me its the whole thing i love the why my wife looks and how she make me feel .. most of all i love to please my wife . Pay attention to her and make shire she get everything she wont's from me my heart my sole. and when i no that she is happy l let my body go and which he smile. it all about finding the right sole mate..
2006-09-26 09:27:28 · answer #5 · answered by celticdragon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How good it feels, for both of us, and just enjoy the moment, try to become one with her so that we can both feel the same..
2006-09-26 02:08:34 · answer #6 · answered by wizzard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one thing we're not thinking. because we already know that this is going to feel really really good.
2006-09-26 02:04:28 · answer #7 · answered by bobby h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depending on the individual person... it can be warmth of the lady... softness of the skin... sound of her voice... wher to start touching... where to start kissing... it a personnal /individual taste... what work for one male make not work for another... j
2006-09-26 01:58:23 · answer #8 · answered by WILLIAM F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know bout other guys but i wonder what else i can do to make the moment more enjoyable for her
2006-09-26 01:56:57 · answer #9 · answered by Brett B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just thinking about the next thing she'll let me get away with
2006-09-26 01:54:44 · answer #10 · answered by zippythewondermutt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋