Is it true that you sensitive guys are more like girls and can look beyond the surface of a person (not that I am ugly or anything, quite the opposite, I am one hot sexy woman ;) (can't you tell by my photo, no it isn't a cartoon!)
2006-09-25 18:49:43 · 13 answers · asked by Lisa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well 'Joverline' I didn't ask you, I was asking the sensitive types (and I see there are a few out there). And if you think my question stupid, perhaps you should look closer at your own simple mind... with nothing better to do than answering stupid questions. At least I have a deeper more subtle motive...
2006-09-25 19:13:48 · update #1
What do i look 4 in a woman? You!
2006-09-26 19:23:58 · answer #1 · answered by Claude 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you ask a guy you are interested in what he looks for in a woman? No offense but this is a pretty stupid question because not all guys look for the same thing. Guys aren't like the borg on Star Trek with a single mind. With that being said, I will tell you what "I" look for in a woman. I am sensitive and yes I look beyond the surface of a woman. At the same time, I can't make a sexual relationship work if I'm not attracted to the woman. That doesn't mean that I'm looking for a woman who has flawless looks though. I also want a woman who isn't serious about gender roles. I don't believe that I should act a certain way because I'm a man. I want a woman who will chase me. I'm not going to beg a woman to go out with me. I'm also not going to try to impress her. She will like me for who I am. I don't play games and if you ask for my honest opinion about something I will give it to you. I don't tell white lies. If you don't like my honest answers, then don't ask what I think. Also sometimes I want to have my thoughts to myself, so don't always ask me what I am thinking. If I want you to know what I am thinking I will tell you what I am thinking. That's what I look for in a woman.
2006-09-25 19:05:20 · answer #2 · answered by joverlien 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I can only speak for myself, because lot's of people with different idea's, making the world go round! Anyway she doesn't have to be knock down beautiful, just pleasant looking, not overweight, have a decent personality, not a monster IQ but not brain dead either, should be a caring person, that can show love and affection with a good heart and above all be honest! I feel sorry for you if you are one hot sexy beautiful woman, because guys tend to stay away, afraid of rejection don't measure up, like at a dance, 4 or 5 girls talking, the guy will not go ask the hottest one to dance, but will shoot for 2nd best or 3rd, me I go for #1, forget second best, rejection, could care less it is her loss, I don't have that big ego, most guys have, I come in on the ground level on an equal playing field! Good question, you will probably get a lot of smart *** answers from the brain dead, hopefull you will get some good truthful answers also, to make your question worthwile! Good Luck..........
2006-09-25 18:52:42 · answer #3 · answered by Michael 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The species procreates by attraction - sadly.
Look how you described the sensitive guy......"more like girls & can look beyond the surface of a person" you can't see past his outer appearance, why would you expect him to do any more for you???
2006-09-25 18:54:07 · answer #4 · answered by afrodyzyak 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I look for a girl with a sense of humor. That is most important. The girl has to be easy on the eyes not sooo hot. But just to have a personality that sync's is most important.
2006-09-25 19:11:07 · answer #5 · answered by omsuperhoops 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Lisa, i feel it is possible for any guy to look past the surface, most of us don't. i am sure you have heard the old saying that nice guys finish last... so most of the time guys feel they need to be someone they are not, just to get the girl that he "thinks" he wants.... there are still a few nice ones out there though.
2006-09-25 18:55:36 · answer #6 · answered by Jason S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for me its more of a battle of wits if a girl can leave me tong tied or beat me in a game of strategy or at riddles i fall 6 feet. i mean looks are ok but there nothing to base a relation ship on iv known plenty of total bombshells that got personality like the ice queen her self
2006-09-25 19:00:23 · answer #7 · answered by silver_fang19 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as far as relationships go a man wants a woman who will support him.stand by him.when a man knows that the woman he is with is in his corner,he will do just about anything to keep her safe, secure,and happy.people talk about commitment issues with men but as a man i'm here to tell you that if a man knows that his woman stands with him,he's committed to her long before he pops the question!!
2006-09-25 19:13:01 · answer #8 · answered by stoneripple 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
easy to talk with...something going on upstairs (and downstairs)...not a gal that tries too hard to be cool, arty, popular, trendy, fashionable...natural beauty...confident/not the jealous type...
Oh, and Southern!
2006-09-25 19:00:05 · answer #9 · answered by Glockmeister 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not talking about sensitivity, your talking about maturity.
2006-09-25 18:53:30 · answer #10 · answered by LadyL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋