Basically I am a shy and seriously ugly looking guy who just started my university life. But I do speak up lot in class and made quite a positive impression. Then there is one sweet girl in my class who laughed loudly at some of my comments. After a few days to my surprise I saw her playing chess during the our school chess training session after school and to my greater surprise she smiled and waved at me as I walked into the hall. After a few games she came over and sat right next to me and asked me questions while I was still playing and she didn't have a game to play. I was scared stiff and answered her coldly. The next occassion when I was taking the lift to class, she saw me and held my shoulders as I walked into the lift. Again I was scared stiff and remained still and looking at the door while she was standing behind me. After that I always behaved coldly to her but she stills try to wave at me. But she is also quite friendly to other guys. Then does she like me?
2006-09-25 18:46:10 · 17 answers · asked by hansel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, who knows..She might actually like you, but u gotta ask her urself..get to know her first better though..dont miss this chance to get to know her better if you kinda like her..
Jus relax and chill, mimic her confidence and follow her flow..that way u can get to know her better..ask her questions she asks you, and ask questions u wanna be asked..
if u keep giving her that cold shoulder, she'll just back off one day..as for being quite friendly to other guys, that's normal cuz if she likes you, mayb she dont wanna be too obvious that she likes you..
then again, no one can really answer that question for you..u gotta find out urself mate..go for it man!!!
2006-09-25 23:00:30 · answer #1 · answered by LadyN 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You've gotta warm up, dude! I've got to say, she probably does not like you. Even if you were average looking, the odds are very much against a random girl liking you (especially one who is friendly to everyone). But you have to be friendly and confident with her, or else she's going to think you are weird and then give up on you. A girl I went to high school with thought I was "cold" even though I was trying to be friendly! You can definitely take friendliness too far, but if you think you're cold you are probably very cold indeed. If you want to try and date her, chat with her and get her number. A few days later, give her a buzz and make a date (then get off the phone shortly afterward). If she really likes you "like that" she will respond to that sort of treatment. If not, she will make a good friend (and she might even help you get hooked up with someone else). Good luck!
2006-09-25 18:54:31 · answer #2 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is tough, is she the same with all the guys you see her around. She also may be a girl who is looking for someone who is great inside, if she continues her behavior ask her out for coffee to discuss some chess moves and see how it goes from there. Never be afraid to take a CHANCE, this could make all the difference. And you are not ugly. You have a wonderful soul, so I know that you can't be all that bad.
2006-09-25 18:54:43 · answer #3 · answered by raspberryflavr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is probably the outgoing friendly type. If u are interested in her, u should try to break your shyness barrier. If its hard for u to change suddenly, at least try to change towards her. Don't keep on being cold to her. She may think that you dislike her presence.
Try talking to her more. Both of u have interest in chess, u can try discussing/play chess for start. She may be friendly now but who knows, might end up liking u in the future? That is unless you change of course.
2006-09-25 19:35:18 · answer #4 · answered by axix 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the only thing to do now is to not be so scared and cold. Warm up a little bit and see what happens. Take it slow, you have time.
2006-09-25 19:04:36 · answer #5 · answered by Miss Candi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think beyond the word like. She's just being friendly.
2006-09-25 18:51:50 · answer #6 · answered by Saphire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To discover the answer of your question you got to change your behaviour towards her, Talk to her politely while looking dirrectly into her eyes and you will come to know whether she likes you or not?
2006-09-25 18:53:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can get over the "stiffness". Test her saying something like if I didn't kow better I'd swear you liked but I know could do better " say it playfully.
2006-09-25 19:00:06 · answer #8 · answered by Stargrave 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is smiling alot at you,yes she interested,and she keeps approaching you cause she want you to ask her out, blind.and if she is friendly to others let her your not making any moves she is keeping other options open, make a move,or some El's will.
2006-09-25 18:58:31 · answer #9 · answered by marie d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi she likes u coz u pass cool comments .u make her laugh . has she ever behaved something unusual to u than to other guys?if so she is in love .but for now i think she is not in love with u
2006-09-25 19:38:05 · answer #10 · answered by Mrs.Edward cullen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋