As i said i'm very happily married and i was proudly a virgin when i married. I only had a serious relationship once before about three years ago, that lasted two years. The problem is i wish that i had or could have sex just once with my ex girlfriend who i waswith 2 years
2006-09-25 18:59:49 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Always what ifs even if you had sex with her when you dated her you would think about the sex you did have together it's common just be glad you are happy in your marriage fantasize all you like but remain faithful to your wife in your eyes and gods
2006-09-25 19:03:35 · answer #1 · answered by Amy M 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I’m sorry honey you missed your chance. If you had wanted to sleep with your ex you should have done it when you all were together. Not while your married and have a baby on the way. If you want to have fantasies that’s fine but focus on your wife and your soon to be baby they are what’s most important. Would you be willing to throw that away for a romp in the hay with an ex?
2006-09-26 02:17:04 · answer #2 · answered by Spread Peace and Love 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to do that? It sounds like things are going your way. A loving wife, a baby on the way, why try to second guess things when you have all you need right there in front of you. If I was your wife found out about this "fantasy" of yours, I would feel like like the runner up at the beauty pageant. Be happy with what you have now. If you try to second guess, it could cause problems. Not to mention what it could do to your relationship.
2006-09-26 02:09:35 · answer #3 · answered by scarlettohara1861 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OOOK this isnt a question its a statement,you are MARRIED and the only woman that should be on your mind is your WIFE and also your unborn child the woman you wanna sleep with is your ex and how do you know shes interested in sleeping with you remember you are her ex for a reason and if you want to stay faithful then its best to forget about your ex.
2006-09-26 02:31:43 · answer #4 · answered by CaliMa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, honestly u should put it out of ur mind. ur gf (ex) may not be interested (did u even consider that!). since u r happily married with a baby coming soon to enlighten u about life. i d suggest u stick by ur wife's side and when the feeling to cheat gets really bad think of ur child looking at u and asking "why"
2006-09-26 02:04:09 · answer #5 · answered by silverfox 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can't help you with this cause I think this is a terrible mistake. Try to find a way to forget this problem you have with the virgin thing. How would you feel if you knew your wife was having feelings for an ex like you are? You would be upset if you knew she was thinking this.
2006-09-26 02:07:35 · answer #6 · answered by Busy Lady 2010 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You chose to not sleep with that girl for a reason. You chose to marry your wife for a reason. You chose to not use a condom when your child was conceived. Of these three choices you've made in your life.. which is most important? Marriage and a beautiful child.. or stickin your pecker in someone who probably doesnt care much for ya after all these years. You regret not screwing her.. think how much you'll regret losing your family.
2006-09-26 02:10:45 · answer #7 · answered by spurdom28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U may wish that but it's too late for that now. Just focus on your marriage and leave the ex where she should be....in the past.
2006-09-26 02:03:56 · answer #8 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not happily married asking a question like this. Get over it, you're committed to your wife. She doesn't deserve this.
2006-09-26 02:08:18 · answer #9 · answered by Eva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those feelings are normal. But theres a HUGE difference between fantasy and reality.
2006-09-26 02:02:03 · answer #10 · answered by Baby Jack born 4/5/09 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋