I'm a guy, and I noticed that a lot of particularly good looking girls think they're better than everyone else (not just "aveage" guys, but "average" girls too) and they're rude to people who they deem unworthy. What's up with that? Frankly, if a girl is mean/rude/unpleasant, I wouldn't say the average guy isn't good enough for her, I'd say, she's not good enough for the average guy!
2006-09-25 19:58:18 · 20 answers · asked by john 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
They feel that way because everybody tells them they're hot. They don't need anything extra.
2006-09-25 19:59:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's because our culture puts so much emphasis on looks. I actually feel sorry for people like that. Somewhere along the way they missed the fact that looks fade, but personality is forever.
I have met absolutely beautiful people, both men and women, and seriously wondered why they aren't in a relationship or married. Then I actually speak to them, and I find out that they are so ugly on the inside they are positively toxic. And they seem bewildered about why those around them are so drawn to them, then take off running!
I agree with you. People with ugly insides, be they male or female, are not good enough for the "average" people they so disdain. I think for a lot of them, the only hope is to wake up to the real world one day, and I always hope they do that before they have managed to drive away everyone around them. I am sure it's pretty lonely going through life with no real friends and no one who really loves you.
2006-09-25 20:11:34 · answer #2 · answered by Bronwen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say you were exactly right. People that are mean and ugly to others don't deserve a "good one". Unfortunately, it takes some folks longer than others to wise up (mature) and to figure out that the world doesn't revolve around them.
When we give into people who look "hot" but have cold personalities and attitudes we just further delay their growth. If you are a guy that a "hot" girl doesn't seem to think you are worthy of, remember your own advice... she isn't good enough for you.
The best advice would be to train yourself to stop rating people as worthy or unworthy. If God put us here, and we are still taking up space and breathing, then we are worthy. With that worthiness comes a responsibility to attempt to make the space we are taking up a better one than it was before we arrived. "Better" has lots of options and opportunities. Allow the judging folks to themselves and devote your time and attention to something worthy of one wise enough to see the ridiculousness of the others shallow personalities. One of these days they will mature and wonder why in the world they wasted so much effort on so little. Beware of waiting on "one of these days" to happen when you want it to, I've learned the hard way that 'my time' isn't necessarily what God's timing is.
2006-09-25 20:16:58 · answer #3 · answered by Bryan E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As answered above. I have worked with 2 women that are complete opposites. One is very good looking with no personality and vapid. When I say, "Good Morning" to the first there is no recognition nor eye contact. The other woman, who looks like the character from "Shrek" had tons of personality and became my friend. I was the manager of both. I felt sorry for the attractive woman because she had not developed a personality because she did not have to. She is on her 3rd marriage with 2 kids. My friend, the other woman, has a happy life with many friends.
The hot girls with poor personalities are not all that. They lead tragic lives. Even all the money in the world will not make them happy. So sad.
2006-09-25 20:44:58 · answer #4 · answered by andywho2006 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since so much emphasis is places on looks a lot of people think looks/sex appeal is all that matters. The kind, sweet, smart girl who doesn't look that great is ignored while the rude, arrogant ditz who looks great is drooled over and showered attention. So when hot girls are shown a lot of attention for their looks, they let it go to their head and then they think they are better than everyone else.
2006-09-25 20:03:13 · answer #5 · answered by BereaGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cuz a lot of guys give their power away to these women in hope of having sex with them. If any person treats you like crap, tell them what their doing wrong and tell them they are ugly from the inside. Never give them ur balls no matter how good looking they are. Be a man and tell them who is in charge.
2006-09-25 20:04:49 · answer #6 · answered by srroldan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say those girls you meet are just good-looking, they have nothing on the inside.
Real beauty is having more than just a pretty face.
2006-09-25 20:04:34 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most likely because they feel that their outer beauty is something tangible that can be easily admired and that they themselves admire... whereas a personality is more ethereal since one would have to invest some time into getting to know a person... but that's just speculation.
2006-09-25 20:01:54 · answer #8 · answered by Michelle C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right Warren- most of us girls even average ones get mean sometimes without meaning to
2006-09-25 20:04:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They put their own importance as a person in their appearance! Unfortunately, they perceive other people's importance in that same way!
It's a sign of immaturity and lack of intelligence!
2006-09-25 20:03:56 · answer #10 · answered by Candy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋