found my boyfriends msn history..?

Question

I was looking thru my boyfriends computer and he knows i snoop....ut i found his history from his ex (they broke up in may)
everything..and i mean EVERYTHING he said and asked me to do and stuff he did with her aswell.....almost quote on quote...
so naturally i am hurt...and not only that but i just found out i am pregnant..(after 4 months) :S and i just moved in with him....should i tell him or should i just ignore it..but now everytime he says something to me ..i cant help but think...no KNOW that he said the same to her...

ALSO..she asked for her naked pics back and he said they are in his laptop(this is still from the mdn history btw)...and the other day he got very agressive and moody because i wanted to look in it (before i even knew)..so is my best bet to say..hey..i went thru your msn history and now i wanna see if those pics from your ex are still in your laptop?...

Answer 1

Must be hard. Kind of serves you right for invading his privacy though.
Evidently you don't trust him or you wouldn't snoop. Im not sure if this lack of trust is justified because he is untrustworthy, or whether youre an insecure person who would be like this no matter who you were with. Assuming the former, Id usually say leave, but as there is a baby involved its not that simple.
Assuming the latter, i.e. its in your head, You have to stop snooping because its so easy to get the wrong end of the stick about what you find. Plus its hard to resolve your worry because it involves confronting them and admitting you've been going through their things.
To be honest when you re in love you tend to say similar things like "Ive never felt this way before" or "I love you more than anyone" or "you re so beautiful" or whatever. So don't be that surprised if the stuff he said to her when he was in love is similar to the stuff he says to you. Obviously I don't know what was said so its hard to judge.
Advice - 1. start trusting 2. stop snooping.
This is assuming he is a trustworthy bloke. If he is an ****, then its going to be very hard.

Answer 2

You are letting the little green monster get the best of you. Jealousy will only harm the relationship. You need to start thinking of this baby right now, and stress will do nothing but make you worry more, let it go, and concentrate on building a family, this guy has more to think about now than having to worry about what he had done in the past. Everyone has a past dear, and you can't make him the sacrificial lamb.
Congrats on the baby, Be Happy.

Answer 3

I will say JUST IGNORE EVERYTHING,,,,,,, because you are pregnant, and she is not.......so definately you are more important. After the child will come into your life, you both will come more closer. Every body has a history.....but let history remain in history, Today every body is flirting on net so don't take it seriously at all, whenever you will feel disturbed due to his msn history, think about your child and be happy. If you will talk to him about all this........he will never forget the past , which otherwise I think he has forgotten.

Answer 4

Well- I am sure his ex would like to kick his butt-there is something to be said about moving in - esp when you don't really know them well enough to know their past and how they get girls- and the surprising things you find out later- if you can't trust him- don't waste your time- get out and get on with a better life- you don't need his moodiness either- or the crap his ex feeds you- D

Answer 5

Well, maybe he's not original, but who's he with? If you were to break up, he'd feed the same lines to his next girlfriend.

Answer 6

don't look if you do not want to see