My boyfriend of 2 years has an ex that broke up with him before i came along well she and him are still friends which is cool but hanging out all day and contact with him alot I think she may want him back? Is this healthy to have around.
2006-09-25 23:40:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sounds like you are the 3rd wheel. Put a stop to it or get out on your own.
2006-09-25 23:44:22 · answer #1 · answered by Lady Biker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not but he has to tell the ex to go away or if it comes from you she will think he never said it and then there will be bigger problems . And if he does not want her to go away then there is something else going on and she may not be an ex ,or he has her waiting in the wings in case something goes wrong with the two of you. Good luck .
2006-09-26 07:28:17 · answer #2 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, no I don't think it is. Whilst it is healthy and mature of them to stay friends, it isn't healthy for there to be three of you in the relationship.
Talk to him and stress that whilst you re happy for them to be friends, there has to be boundaries and at the moment they are being crossed.
He should be grateful that you aren't like a lot of women who would flatly refuse any contact with an ex. Hopefully therefore he will respect your feelings and distance himself from her.
If he doesnt, find someone who will!
2006-09-26 06:44:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as they are just friends then sure it's healthy. He is with you and they are just friends. Maybe talk to him and let him know your not comfortable with the everyday and all day thing. Go from there and see if he respects your feelings and meets you half way with it. Good Luck!
2006-09-26 06:45:05 · answer #4 · answered by mom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you cannot control someone elses behavior, thoughts or deeds, I suggest that you take the high road and end the relationship. He obviously still has the hots for her and both of them are making a fool out of you!
2006-09-26 06:43:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he aint with you, his is with her , get over it and move on. be thankful that you only wasted 2 years and not 20 years on him . find your self a nice guy that wants to be with you.
2006-09-26 06:46:45 · answer #6 · answered by whowantsto know 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur boyfrien is just 2 years!!! girl u r too young for relationships. i remember when i was 5 years old i had a crush on a nursury boy. when he said NO to me i wanted to sucide and when i jumped fromm my window, it was just the groundfloor!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
dats my sad storie please understand my pain and vote fo me!!!!
2006-09-26 06:48:52 · answer #7 · answered by fresh_new_attitude 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you have wrong thinking might be now they are just good friends
2006-09-26 06:44:58 · answer #8 · answered by munmun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dun be too sensitive.. trust your bf and your r/s
2006-09-26 06:43:20 · answer #9 · answered by chups 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋