Now we are 21 & 24. My parents are searching a guy 4 me. now how can i tell them about him and he is just 21 is it right time to get marry, and at the same time we like our parents wish too in our marriage life. what will my parents do if they come to know that he is younger to me. Will they agree or not. I don’t want to loose him…he too. How can i explain to them about my love & fellings. How can we convince his parents?
2006-09-25 23:49:38 · 24 answers · asked by Janu 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Hi there!!
Don't think of the age gap.. It doesn't really matter.. For as long as you both love each other, let the whole world know.. There's nothing wrong in loving older or younger than you.. Let your parents know that you really love your boyfriend and advise them to stop searching a guy for you anymore because you already have found the one..
They'll realize it sooner, okay.. Just explain to them.. If they love you, they will and they can understand you..
Goodluck and take care..
2006-09-25 23:54:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
21 and 24 is still very young to be thinking about marriage, perhaps the way forward here to show your parents on both sides you are acting responsibly is to just hold off on the wedding plans, take time to really get to know each other and make sure you really are truly ready for wedded bliss and each other.the age difference between you is nothing, i know couples who are way much further apart than you guys and sometimes it works sometimes it doesn't but the age gap between you two should cause you no problems.i can understand you respecting your parents here but at the same time you do not live your life and make your choices to please them.this is your life, you do what you want to make it happy and not because its what someone else wants you to do, trust me I have been down that road and it ends in disaster.your parents I am sure love you and as a result of that want you to be happy. it may not be what they want but should support you, but in order for them to do that you have to be respectful and honest with them. talk to them, they may surprise you.
2006-09-25 23:58:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Good Love keep it up,
You tll to your parents that you are the follower of Gandhiji
& And a great fan of Sachin Tendulkar. They will get some idea.
Then slowly tell them I want to follow the way they have showed. Thats it. Have a nice day with young lover for a elder love.
2006-09-26 21:21:26 · answer #3 · answered by Satdhi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be very honest men are never sure what they want out of life or out of a relationship at 21 . so u will be risking ur life if u are getin married to him at this point of time . i suppose ull have analysed the consequences ul will have to face in future n then entered into the relationship . so why is this fear now . boldly accept your relationship in front of ur family . but once again this is not the right time for ur boyfrend to get married . so now the decission is yours. u can even tamper with his birth certificate showing the age diff to be some months or a year , which i think is acceptable in our society. so best of luck..........
2006-09-26 00:01:27 · answer #4 · answered by NEHA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think twice - I married a beutiful girl fo 27 when I was 24. Now I am 51 and she is 54. She has lost her interest in everything and I am still young trying my luck some where else.
2006-09-25 23:59:55 · answer #5 · answered by nanu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Friend,
age consider in a marriage,not in love.Krishna is also younger than radha if u know.
but most imp thing is he is settled or not in career?
2nd thing its a true love?
if u got the above the 2 ans positive,so ur parents also understand ur feelings becoz 3 years diff is not much.
Anil Ambani is also younger than her wife.
so be patience & talk to Mom 1st.
all the best
ur friend
2006-09-26 07:19:20 · answer #6 · answered by prince007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God I cant stand how society seems to think the man should be the older one in the relationship. Its not that big of a deal to begin with. You need to follow your heart and stop worrying about what your parents/friends/family think. Its your lives and no one elses. I wish you both luck and lots of happiness!
2006-09-26 00:00:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's important is that you love each other. Parents will always have their opinions but, they can't take what is in your heart. Don't let your parents expectations rule your life because in the end you will be miserable and possibly can lose who would've been your soul mate.
Good Luck!
2006-09-26 04:14:06 · answer #8 · answered by Bubbles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 16 years older than my husband people kept saying it would not last, we have 2 girls 15 & 16, we have been together for 17 years & married for 13 years, we are still very happy & still in love, you need to lead your life, for you not for anyone else, good luck.
2006-09-26 00:54:56 · answer #9 · answered by Weed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
climb out the window and run down the street real fast and elope just the 2 of you, 3 years younger what a toy boy , go girl ..... grow up, you are 24 years old, now your parents are wanting their life back they will accept any one of any age for you they want you out and fast
2006-09-26 00:03:16 · answer #10 · answered by whowantsto know 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋